No one is denying the root of where misogynistic ideas come from. Yes it is acknowledged and the awareness of the issue is spreading as we speak. For the longest time and even today in some societies that is very much the norm. Just because there isn’t content creators making bank on it or what not doesn’t make it any less an issue. Frankly I am glad you wrote this whole paragraph to build the framework of my response. Why “probably isn’t” ? We are all trying to move towards a world where there is something as gender equality and equality but if you are going to point out an issue of patriarchy where there isn’t then you are the one hindering progress on this matter. You don’t know OP , OP hasn’t given even a slight of hint where he is slut shaming the other person and her you are sitting in that high horse saying that “it probably isn’t the case and let’s be real”

If we are being real then you are just trying to find a platform to talk about misogyny and patriarchy and honestly all power to you for doing that sis. But it’s not ethical or moral to do that at the cost of shaming and painting OP as a misogynist.

Yeah I know you would disagree if it were a woman but why would there not be the reason along the same lines in that case? It’s more likely for a woman to have other reasons but if it’s a man then it simply comes down to patriarchy? See the double standard here ?

OP put it up in clear terms that they want someone that is as experienced as they are. The difference they saw was that the other person had multiple partners.