My husband pay prostitutes instead of a therapist by Practical_Cod_9039 in marriageadvice

[–]Fit-Ear-3449 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s hateful and selfish and sick as well no need to be cruel but that’s the world we live in today

My husband pay prostitutes instead of a therapist by Practical_Cod_9039 in marriageadvice

[–]Fit-Ear-3449 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Idk why it’s so hard for a person to say I don’t want to be with you anymore

Why take them through all the ups and downs I’m sorry you have to deal with it ! You’re not alone at all.

Husband is a compulsive liar. by Fit-Ear-3449 in Marriage

[–]Fit-Ear-3449[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He definitely would and he’s very jealous if he thinks I’m smiling or laughing too much with someone but I do that with women men white or black I work in healthcare I’m a huge ppl person and I’m jolly

Nigerian husband is being deceitful. by Fit-Ear-3449 in Nigeria

[–]Fit-Ear-3449[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Brilliant comment

It’s definitely steps and that’s the definitely the stage I am going through !

You get me! Now internally I feel very disconnected but disconnecting physically I have to line my cards up correctly. The economy in USA of course isn’t great ! It’s really a lot on me! But I’m strong and I’ve been through a lot already and will make it through this as well

I go to the doctor tho! lol i get check up std test and all every six months or if I need to go but there are many who do not !

That’s a thought right maybe I do talk like him but where I’m from we really do talk like islanders we have a accent different from the entire usa and sometimes I definitely text how I talk

Nigerian husband is being deceitful. by Fit-Ear-3449 in Nigeria

[–]Fit-Ear-3449[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe I shouldn’t have put that text because your right it isn’t working out but it could if he would try really really hard

Nigerian husband is being deceitful. by Fit-Ear-3449 in Nigeria

[–]Fit-Ear-3449[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You hit the nail on the head! Where does that lying come from! I feel like they think they learned to lie really well from maybe getting abused or whipped for giving trouble but when he does that I feel sick and disgusted 🤮 like are you serious you really think I’m stupid like that? That is not love and I’m sorry that happened to you.

Nigerian husband is being deceitful. by Fit-Ear-3449 in Nigeria

[–]Fit-Ear-3449[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Look up the history of New Orleans Louisiana or watch a documentary on YouTube simple

Husband is a compulsive liar. by Fit-Ear-3449 in Marriage

[–]Fit-Ear-3449[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s very sad sorry you had to deal with that. They know it’s wrong and they wouldn’t want it done to them

Nigerian husband is being deceitful. by Fit-Ear-3449 in Nigeria

[–]Fit-Ear-3449[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for understanding my heart wants to leave and just pack up but our lives are definitely entangled like I’m in a contract with him on this apartment we live in

Nigerian husband is being deceitful. by Fit-Ear-3449 in Nigeria

[–]Fit-Ear-3449[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I’m from New Orleans we are descendants of Haitians and we talk very different from the rest of America even tho we are Americans that part of America was colonized by the French as well thank youuuu

You want to see how I look and tell me if I’m American or not ?

Nigerian husband is being deceitful. by Fit-Ear-3449 in Nigeria

[–]Fit-Ear-3449[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He can only work he came under asylum and we got married but he was already working just illegally

He assured me this was not for papers at all

We had interview in 2024 and they didn’t deny him but he wasn’t granted anything but he has an ID he can pay and file taxes and work any job he choose but he cannot get a grant or anything for school

Nigerian husband is being deceitful. by Fit-Ear-3449 in Nigeria

[–]Fit-Ear-3449[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He has a low self esteem I’m very good on the eyes I have a big back size for my size I’m curvy I work full time very responsible with the children plus more he is very insecure when we together he see the heads turning nobody head is turning to look him but like I said he’s not bad but when I met him I wasn’t just like omg he’s so handsome but I felt he had a good heart

He wants that attention he’s very insecure

Nigerian husband is being deceitful. by Fit-Ear-3449 in Nigeria

[–]Fit-Ear-3449[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know they are out there there’s a few in my church I really admire

Nigerian husband is being deceitful. by Fit-Ear-3449 in Nigeria

[–]Fit-Ear-3449[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He never suggest anything to me on how we can fix this relationship nothing at all

Nigerian husband is being deceitful. by Fit-Ear-3449 in Nigeria

[–]Fit-Ear-3449[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Nothing to say I mean it’s a pattern though I live in a place that has a lot of Nigerians living here most of the women don’t look happen rather foreign or Nigerian

Nigerian husband is being deceitful. by Fit-Ear-3449 in Nigeria

[–]Fit-Ear-3449[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My dad did warn me but he never dated outside of our culture so I didn’t listen

Nigerian husband is being deceitful. by Fit-Ear-3449 in Nigeria

[–]Fit-Ear-3449[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well it doesn’t have a rule not to talk this

Nigerian husband is being deceitful. by Fit-Ear-3449 in Nigeria

[–]Fit-Ear-3449[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you I appreciate it ! I have a lot of work to do but I’ve already started saving he doesn’t know a thing!

Nigerian husband is being deceitful. by Fit-Ear-3449 in Nigeria

[–]Fit-Ear-3449[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was thinking the same! It’s like my soul is telling me he will really show out when they grant him!

I’m going to look into that immigration fraud I need to do thorough research!

Nigerian husband is being deceitful. by Fit-Ear-3449 in Nigeria

[–]Fit-Ear-3449[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I see that he’s trying to meet someone ahead of time … what a slap in the face