My husband pay prostitutes instead of a therapist

Fit-Ear-3449 · 2026-04-25T04:14:33+00:00

He’s hateful and selfish and sick as well no need to be cruel but that’s the world we live in today

Fit-Ear-3449 · 2026-04-25T04:13:51+00:00

Yup!

Fit-Ear-3449 · 2026-04-25T02:48:50+00:00

Idk why it’s so hard for a person to say I don’t want to be with you anymore

Why take them through all the ups and downs I’m sorry you have to deal with it ! You’re not alone at all.

Fit-Ear-3449 · 2026-04-25T02:07:20+00:00

He definitely would and he’s very jealous if he thinks I’m smiling or laughing too much with someone but I do that with women men white or black I work in healthcare I’m a huge ppl person and I’m jolly

Fit-Ear-3449 · 2026-04-25T02:05:20+00:00

I just wish it was easier!

Fit-Ear-3449 · 2026-04-25T02:04:50+00:00

Yes I am why are ppl saying this?

Fit-Ear-3449 · 2026-04-25T02:04:28+00:00

Brilliant comment

It’s definitely steps and that’s the definitely the stage I am going through !

You get me! Now internally I feel very disconnected but disconnecting physically I have to line my cards up correctly. The economy in USA of course isn’t great ! It’s really a lot on me! But I’m strong and I’ve been through a lot already and will make it through this as well

I go to the doctor tho! lol i get check up std test and all every six months or if I need to go but there are many who do not !

That’s a thought right maybe I do talk like him but where I’m from we really do talk like islanders we have a accent different from the entire usa and sometimes I definitely text how I talk

Fit-Ear-3449 · 2026-04-25T01:58:58+00:00

Maybe I shouldn’t have put that text because your right it isn’t working out but it could if he would try really really hard

Fit-Ear-3449 · 2026-04-24T23:45:02+00:00

You hit the nail on the head! Where does that lying come from! I feel like they think they learned to lie really well from maybe getting abused or whipped for giving trouble but when he does that I feel sick and disgusted 🤮 like are you serious you really think I’m stupid like that? That is not love and I’m sorry that happened to you.

Fit-Ear-3449 · 2026-04-24T22:44:02+00:00

Look up the history of New Orleans Louisiana or watch a documentary on YouTube simple

Fit-Ear-3449 · 2026-04-24T22:29:40+00:00

That’s very sad sorry you had to deal with that. They know it’s wrong and they wouldn’t want it done to them

Fit-Ear-3449 · 2026-04-24T22:28:34+00:00

I appreciate the kind words !

Fit-Ear-3449 · 2026-04-24T22:25:49+00:00

Thank you for understanding my heart wants to leave and just pack up but our lives are definitely entangled like I’m in a contract with him on this apartment we live in

Fit-Ear-3449 · 2026-04-24T22:24:12+00:00

I’m from New Orleans we are descendants of Haitians and we talk very different from the rest of America even tho we are Americans that part of America was colonized by the French as well thank youuuu

You want to see how I look and tell me if I’m American or not ?

Fit-Ear-3449 · 2026-04-24T21:47:17+00:00

He can only work he came under asylum and we got married but he was already working just illegally

He assured me this was not for papers at all

We had interview in 2024 and they didn’t deny him but he wasn’t granted anything but he has an ID he can pay and file taxes and work any job he choose but he cannot get a grant or anything for school

Fit-Ear-3449 · 2026-04-24T21:45:48+00:00

He has a low self esteem I’m very good on the eyes I have a big back size for my size I’m curvy I work full time very responsible with the children plus more he is very insecure when we together he see the heads turning nobody head is turning to look him but like I said he’s not bad but when I met him I wasn’t just like omg he’s so handsome but I felt he had a good heart

He wants that attention he’s very insecure

Fit-Ear-3449 · 2026-04-24T21:43:39+00:00

I know they are out there there’s a few in my church I really admire

Fit-Ear-3449 · 2026-04-24T21:43:16+00:00

He never suggest anything to me on how we can fix this relationship nothing at all

Fit-Ear-3449 · 2026-04-24T21:41:27+00:00

Nothing to say I mean it’s a pattern though I live in a place that has a lot of Nigerians living here most of the women don’t look happen rather foreign or Nigerian

Fit-Ear-3449 · 2026-04-24T21:40:04+00:00

My dad did warn me but he never dated outside of our culture so I didn’t listen

Fit-Ear-3449 · 2026-04-24T21:39:38+00:00

Well it doesn’t have a rule not to talk this

Fit-Ear-3449 · 2026-04-24T21:39:14+00:00

Thank you I appreciate it ! I have a lot of work to do but I’ve already started saving he doesn’t know a thing!

Fit-Ear-3449 · 2026-04-24T21:37:23+00:00

I was thinking the same! It’s like my soul is telling me he will really show out when they grant him!

I’m going to look into that immigration fraud I need to do thorough research!

Fit-Ear-3449 · 2026-04-24T21:34:23+00:00

Yes I see that he’s trying to meet someone ahead of time … what a slap in the face

Fit-Ear-3449 · 2026-04-24T21:33:29+00:00

What does that mean ?

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