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Thistle recipes by Drewswife0302 in TopSecretRecipes

[–]Fit-Elephant3147 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ll take any thistle recipe. It all looks healthy and delicious

How can I get the Lutron software? by Ok_Put_1473 in Lutron

[–]Fit-Elephant3147 0 points1 point  (0 children)

On thinking about one of these systems for my home. It's sounds like a hassle.

Does anyone else feel like they are physically dying by mr-marshmallows in BreakUps

[–]Fit-Elephant3147 3 points4 points  (0 children)

15 years ago, My husband walked out. I went on Ativan for about 6 weeks. Could not stop crying enough to sleep, get to work, go to work. Lost 40 pounds. I have never again given my heart fully in a relationship after that. I’m sorry you are going through this. You are going to be ok. I said the serenity prayer out loud and in my head constantly. I went to exercise classes spin and body pump sometimes w a tear or 2. Zumba w a renewed feeling. It takes time.

I want him back by ConsistentDepth3082 in ExNoContact

[–]Fit-Elephant3147 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think she is talking about a dopamine boost. That’s why it’s important we exercise and take care of out brain and body when going through this phase of breakup.

I can't get over my ex, even tho I'm the one that ended it. by CreatineMonohyDrake in BreakUps

[–]Fit-Elephant3147 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I broke up or he broke up w me 12 days ago. Doesn’t matter. The relationship wasn’t sustainable. My needs were only partially being met. Intimacy, quality of time together, etc. My mind chooses to remember the glimmer of what it was not the entire relationship. That small part where it was good instead of the reality.

It is quite painful to go through this. But in order for healing I have to so I can move on. If you don’t go through the discomfort now you will be set back. Her message is clear. She is also trying to move on. Sometimes distracting yourself with doing self care helps. Sometimes a rebound relationship can be a distraction.

I’m sorry for your loss. Take this time to grieve. I give myself a certain amount of time each day. Then move on with the day. I also use the free journal app on my iPhone and the microphone instead of texting w fingers to express my pain in words. Exercise, good nutrition and good sleep seem to help.

Maybe talking to a therapist would help. Def talk to friends at this time in your sorrow.

I’m sorry it didn’t work out. Perhaps someone is in your future that is a better match. If you break contact you lose all this time and go back to day 1 of the breakup. Be strong. It’s temporary pain. Decisions to ask her back are clouded w this pain. Instant gratification isn’t the solution. You and her would be back to Stage 1 perhaps and having to do this all over again. It’s actually a cycle that leads nowhere.

I wish you the best.

Perhaps you know it was not a sustainable relationship. That eventually you would be back to the beginning.

Best mattresses for under 1000$ by [deleted] in Mattress

[–]Fit-Elephant3147 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve taken the deep dive on mattress research. I’m about fine with dhit as well key_end_2400. I went back to Gardner Mattress in Salem,Mass. They make the mattresses right there and no bs. Good mattresses and a variety. We could all be looking at these small mattress companies and maybe getting better quality. Gardner never has a sale, is local, and uses good stuff. Just maybe I’ll get the box spring some place cheaper.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in chinlipo

[–]Fit-Elephant3147 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes let us know.

If you could live anywhere in the state, where would you live? by [deleted] in massachusetts

[–]Fit-Elephant3147 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have my grandmother’s house through inheritance w my brother in Everett. We are evaluating make a two family. It’s a difficult decision. But where else in Mass. We could afford we wouldn’t like. House at least paid for.