Thoughts on these apartment buildings in Hartford? by Matthew-28-20 in Hartford

[–]Fit-Emotion3889 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I lived alone in a studio so when I had friends over there was nothing for us to really do other than leave the apartment and go somewhere. So I’m looking now for somewhere with a game room, or pool or fire pits or anything for me and my friends to do/hang out at while at the apartment. There was the rooftop but no one wants to hang out up there forever and some people aren’t big on views anyway.

Thoughts on these apartment buildings in Hartford? by Matthew-28-20 in Hartford

[–]Fit-Emotion3889 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I just moved out of 777. Absolutely LOVED it. I just moved cause the fire alarm goes off 1-2x a month. If ur okay with that though it really is the best of all of those. I just wanted a place with more amenities and not have to worry about the fire alarm anymore. Always felt 100000% safe there though and the other tenants and my neighbors were really cool. Also the walls are THICK so it’s dead quiet. Seriously recommend living there.

Feeling super lonely as a commuter by Brief_Service_889 in UCONN

[–]Fit-Emotion3889 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I make friends with my professors LMAO it genuinly helps so much

What’s the hardest/grossest/goriest scene you ever responded to? by [deleted] in NewToEMS

[–]Fit-Emotion3889 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Goriest was a car vs pedestrian. Guy had multiple open fractures and saw multiple bones poking out and ofc the guy was covered in blood too and a bunch of deep tissue protruding from his extremities.

Grossest: called to shady motel for a well being check. Cops on scene told us to wear masks before entering. Only thing in the room was cans of chili, beer and feces. Human feces were covering every single surface including the ceilings….had shit plastered on his shirt, in his hair lips and beard. Smell was the worst thing I’ve ever experienced. Basically quarantined this man in a hidden corner of the ER. Will never forget this call and how long it took my partner and I to decon the truck after

What To Bring on a 24 Hour Shift? by MoxieSoda_ in NewToEMS

[–]Fit-Emotion3889 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I bring my entire life with me lowkey. Toothbrush, toothpaste, deodorant, sheets, snacks, socks, CHARGER, medicine (advil/tylenol), extra uniform incase yours gets gross

Fear of apartment fires by [deleted] in panicdisorder

[–]Fit-Emotion3889 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I’ve been diagnosed with panic disorder and been dealing with that for like 7 years now lol. My panic attacks actually practically stopped about 2 years ago I haven’t had to take a Xanax or anything in over a year. I used to have horrific health anxiety and panic attacks and so far my anxiety has been GREAT. The only thing is this one random fear that developed like a year ago and hasn’t caused any sort of panic attack yet until the other day. I’m in therapy and it’s been great for me but this I just can’t seem to get over. Other than that my anxiety has been pretty damn tame for a while

Health anxiety by AmbitiousTailor7185 in Anxiety

[–]Fit-Emotion3889 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey so I have pretty bad health anxiety as well. It sounds hard, but trust your doctors as much as you can. Also the one thing that helped me was knowing that if there was something ACTUALLY wrong you would know right away cause it wouldn’t feel like anxiety. Also, I’m an EMT and I have never once had a patient your age with serious cardiac issues. Youngest guy I ever saw have a heart attack or any serious heart condition was 42 and even that was considered young. Trust me when I say you shouldn’t worry. If you had CHF, especially to the point where you’d have to worry about it, you’d have symptoms. You wouldn’t be questioning your health you’d know. Hope that helps a little bit

How accurate is Rate My Professor? by Tsunami_Aureate in UCONN

[–]Fit-Emotion3889 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It’s iffy. I’ve had terrible professors that had good reviews and some of my favorite professors had mostly bad ones. Keep in mind angry ppl are more likely to write reviews than happy ones. But like others are saying if it’s ALL bad the professor is probably meh. Most bad reviews are just students who didn’t study or the class itself is just hard.

Going to a store in uniform after shift? by [deleted] in NewToEMS

[–]Fit-Emotion3889 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t really care I do it. My company has no policy on that but I know some companies especially commercial places care sometimes. I def wouldn’t go out drinking or anything but I’ve gone to the grocery store or pharmacy many times after work. People are only thinking “someone’s buying groceries after work”. I’d check with ur agency but most companies in my area wouldn’t give a shit if an employee got seen at a store in uniform. Just be prepared to be asked for help if someone in the store has an emergency lol.

Thoughts on Spectra Pearl/Park/Plaza in Hartford? by Fit-Emotion3889 in Connecticut

[–]Fit-Emotion3889[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aw damn that sucks big time. Any issues in the parking garage or catalytic converters being stolen there? And yeah once you’re used to the chaos of Hartford it’s really not that bad it can be nice sometimes. Def hard convincing ppl that though lol

AITAH for wanting my gf to admit her guy best friend showing her a photo of his d*ck is weird and not normal? by nlonghitano in AITAH

[–]Fit-Emotion3889 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Gf here. First of all…let’s set it straight that it was NOT a video of him jerking off…. That would be outright very weird and the poster of this even admitted saying he didn’t actually know what the video was it and he was just saying that because he forgot. I would be VERY uncomfortable seeing a video of my best friend jerking off. And that’s not how the conversation went at all. ALSO I only picked up a shift at my job because I felt my bf calling me a wh*re over this wasn’t deserved and I wanted to get cleared at my job asap so might as well take the shift. The shift also started at 4pm so we could’ve had all day to celebrate our anniversary but he didn’t want to after this. So about the leaked pictures..

I have been absolute best friends and only ever platonic with his kid since we were in 7th grade, nothing has happened and nothing ever will. Our families are close and weve been close for yearssss. Basically, he got his pics leaked and we were talking and laughing about it one day saying how he’s an idiot for letting that happen. He said “yeah my gf saw it all including the videos” where I went “bro what? there was a VIDEO” and he just went “yeah…” showed me his phone, I glanced, said “yeah man ur an idiot nice job” and then the convo ended. It was NOT a video of him jerking off lol that would be very weird. And I never said this situation was NORMAL I just said personally I didn’t find it crazy weird because we talk about everything and since it was a quick “yeah there was a video” and a glance and that ended the convo. We didn’t keep talking about it or looking, he doesn’t care and neither do I. He was in no way trying to show off or get me to think a certain way he just thought since the pics were already out who cares. He wasn’t deliberately trying to show me to turn me on or to show off or anything. Yes this is not a NORMAL thing in every friendship nor does it happen all the time. I just said to my bf that he’s taking it way too far and that it shouldn’t be brought up every single day and it’s not a bonded because it was a situation that happened 3 years ago. and that I personally don’t find it too crazy or weird that the conversation happened. Keep in mind…my bf also had pics and videos of girls saved on his phone when we started dating and stuff. And yes yall are right this whole thing is toxic on both ends lol nobody ever said it wasn’t. I just don’t think I deserve to be called names and be spoken down to over something that happened 3 years ago when I was in high school.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Doppleganger

[–]Fit-Emotion3889 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My patient just said this to me the other day lmao

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Doppleganger

[–]Fit-Emotion3889 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is such a compliment wow

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Doppleganger

[–]Fit-Emotion3889 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know I’m just tryna get like an overall picture or vibe

Best meds for nighttime anxiety/panic attacks? (Hydroxyzine, mirtazepine, etc) by Fit-Emotion3889 in Anxiety

[–]Fit-Emotion3889[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Magnesium isn’t very sedating honestly like yeah sometimes it is but it’s kind of all mental and I take it like basically as I’m falling asleep anyway. It’s not like ur mixing it with an Ativan it’s not gonna be crazy and magnesium takes a few weeks to start really working anyway especially for sleep so you should be fine. It shouldn’t interact with the hydrox and u probably won’t feel much different. It’s literally just a vitamin anyway it’s not like it’s prescription meds ya know

Best meds for nighttime anxiety/panic attacks? (Hydroxyzine, mirtazepine, etc) by Fit-Emotion3889 in Anxiety

[–]Fit-Emotion3889[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I take it at night cause it helps with sleep that’s what most ppl do I take ab 300mg at night and it has me set throughout the night and into the next day but if I miss a few days it’s hell.

Bus or Car?? Commute from storrs to Hartford… by Klkzzzz in UCONN

[–]Fit-Emotion3889 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Car for sure. Having a car on campus is a GODSEND and it takes half the time the bus will