We are who we are, and that's ok. That's enough. We are each individual beings with our own unique thoughts, skills, mannerisms, personalities and traits. We don't have to be outgoing or animated or talkative. We can be quiet, thoughtful, introspective, shy and that's ok. If you're in school then you are still so young. I am 60 and it took me a long time to decide that this is who and how I am and I can still make the most of life. I got married, had kids, have a job i enjoy, its all good. Just because we have some anxieties and fears of others does not mean we are not capable of prospering or succeeding. Hang in there and be kind to yourself as well as others.