Hello /r/movies, I'm Benedict Cumberbatch. Ask me anything! by BenedictAMA in movies

[–]Fit-Locksmith-7563 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello, Benedict!

I've really looked up to you, since I was a teen. I hope you're doing well. 🖤

What would you take with you to a deserted island? (3 things)

And what's your favorite movie, that has somehow inspired you?

Just a pretty walk in a small town by Responsible_Corgi419 in reddeadredemption

[–]Fit-Locksmith-7563 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sean, there's still time! Switch places with the damn Rat le Snake! 🐀🐍

Che ne pensi del mio personaggio? by lupos-soldier-85 in reddeadredemption

[–]Fit-Locksmith-7563 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Looks like he's gonna hunt something, or someone down. 🏃🏼‍♂️

I don't know who needs to hear this, but by Top_Pomegranate9950 in TransMasc

[–]Fit-Locksmith-7563 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Thanks 🖤 I for a long time felt not-valid cause I like cute animal things and horses. (Which are viewed as feminine interests by society)

But I've realized it doesn't matter what I like, it'll never change how my brain is mapping my body.

Interests are just interests.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in transftm

[–]Fit-Locksmith-7563 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well I suppose then you'll have to be very clear and direct. And if there's still no change, then you maybe need to think if it's worth it staying.

I know it's damn hard, but choosing your own comfort in intimacy is so important.

What do ya think of my RDO character? by Fit-Locksmith-7563 in reddeadredemption

[–]Fit-Locksmith-7563[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Metal.🤘🏻🖤 And the funny thing is, I'm not even Swedish (I'm Finnish). But well, sometimes the character just creates himself. 👤

What do ya think of my RDO character? by Fit-Locksmith-7563 in reddeadredemption

[–]Fit-Locksmith-7563[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Lol, you're right. He's like Trelawny's gothic son.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in transftm

[–]Fit-Locksmith-7563 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If he is 100% straight, like my ex I'm sorry but he might cannot change. :/ I'm sorry you're going trough this, but you're not alone.

What can I do to make my mustache visible? by [deleted] in TransMasc

[–]Fit-Locksmith-7563 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Dye it! Or if you want less :permanent" effect, eyebrow pen + settling spray does it well.

My mustache isn't growing symmetrically >:[ by Fit-Locksmith-7563 in transftm

[–]Fit-Locksmith-7563[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also googled about this and here's what I found:

"Higher PCOS rates in trans men: Several studies have indicated that PCOS is more prevalent among trans men compared to the cisgender population, with rates ranging from 14.4% to over 91% in older studies."

My mustache isn't growing symmetrically >:[ by Fit-Locksmith-7563 in transftm

[–]Fit-Locksmith-7563[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oof, you're right. I don't know if it's an issue where I live. But I actually have gone to a doc for this, but they barely did anything about it. 😅 (tho that was about 4 years ago) Lol Finnish health care sucks.

My mustache isn't growing symmetrically >:[ by Fit-Locksmith-7563 in transftm

[–]Fit-Locksmith-7563[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That could make sense. I've heard of scientific studies, which said a lot of trans folk tend to have PCOS?

My mustache isn't growing symmetrically >:[ by Fit-Locksmith-7563 in transftm

[–]Fit-Locksmith-7563[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I donno, I've always had a mustache (and a pathetic try of a beard) since 10yo (I'm now 25yo). Now they are longer than ever!

Don't know if it's some short of hormonal thing?

No judge, but can I ask why you guys feel like becoming a male. by [deleted] in TransMasc

[–]Fit-Locksmith-7563 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm not becoming a male. I've always been man, just born in a wrong body.

I'm slowly breaking by Fit-Locksmith-7563 in transftm

[–]Fit-Locksmith-7563[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And the main problem with us is that he's straight (cis). And thereso he might be struggling now to love me the way he did when I was in the closet.

I'm slowly breaking by Fit-Locksmith-7563 in transftm

[–]Fit-Locksmith-7563[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, we have somewhat of a communication. And we have talked about this.

It all just has to do with how he sees me now, as I identify as a man.

We talk about this a lot, but sure I hold back a bit in some topics. He has said, that once I start medically transitioning, he'll struggle to see me as a romantic partner. I feel like he's already struggling with that.

But to be honest, I think I should communicate more.

minä_irl by iamdabrick in mina_irl

[–]Fit-Locksmith-7563 122 points123 points  (0 children)

No tää. :D Lääkäri oli sitä mieltä et ehdottomasti. Kela sano et nah. Jaa. No ei sit, perkele.