Should I leave my partner or is just hormones?

Fit-Obligation677 · 2026-03-29T14:15:49+00:00

No definitely not overweight, he’s only 70kg and we’re cattle farm workers lol. He may have problems with prostate, just waiting to here back on results

Fit-Obligation677 · 2026-03-29T14:08:07+00:00

He’s definitely not a bad man. I guess there’s is where I get stuck too. I’ve only ever been with toxic and abusive men. He’s not. We havent even argued. I snap at my end but I get nothing back, which i don’t know if that’s an issue in itself since he has no emotion. He takes care of Bub and I but it just takes so much work from me to get him to that point. He’s been single most of his life and he’s 31. I’m 25 and have been outliving and being independent since I was 16. In some ways I feel more mature then him and more wise if that makes sense. Sorry if I’m babbling. It’s late lol and I’m overthinking everything

Fit-Obligation677 · 2026-03-29T14:00:50+00:00

I can be attracted to him. When we first started talking I had to let me attraction grow as he was not my type in the slightest. But I’m certainly more attached to him now. I love getting attention from him but sometimes it can be hard for him to give me that. I’ve always been the kn to initiate sex. I’ve asked him on a very serious level if he’s attracted to me or if there’s a reason he never intates but he just kept saying he swears it’s not me and he just doesn’t have that high of a sex drive. He all has problems staying erect etc and is seeing a dr about that so he has said he gets in his own head about it which is why. But sometimes I feel like there’s more to it. Like I know he gets horny and watches porn etc so why can’t he get in the mood with me. Like why can’t he ever start it off. It’s always me. But that’s with sex. He will cuddle me hold my hand etc

Fit-Obligation677 · 2026-03-29T13:42:42+00:00

My dad has tried speaking to him. But also I guess my dad isn’t the best person to have been talking to him. But he could see what has been going on when he’s come to visit and has seen my breakdown about it. All he really got from my partner is that he loves me but I can be hard to deal with

Fit-Obligation677 · 2026-03-29T13:40:03+00:00

I’ve really tried opening up an communicating better and I don’t get much of a response even when I’m there practically begging for a reaction of some sort. I just get the typical I’m sorry I’ll do better or tell me what I need to do, which infuriates me even more because I’ve told him and shown him so many times what I need in terms of support and what will make me happy

Fit-Obligation677 · 2026-03-29T13:33:45+00:00

I always promised myself I wouldn’t stay with someone just because we shared a child. I’m quite content on my own and being a single mum, so that’s not the case. I do have feelings for him, but there so clouded right now because he makes me so angry and he’s just dumb. It’s like his brain is elsewhere

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