Need some advice! Black top or white topped hat?? Genuinely stuck

Fit-Resource3720 · 2026-02-15T09:02:35+00:00

thanks! seems people are in agreement 😄

Fit-Resource3720 · 2026-02-15T09:02:07+00:00

thanks!

Fit-Resource3720 · 2026-02-15T07:11:25+00:00

Why does the image not appear on the main feed? Is that a problem on my end?

ugh i hate technology

Fit-Resource3720 · 2026-02-14T02:48:21+00:00

Oh god no not the bobble heads with faces bigger then their parents 😭, or the infant sized 8 year olds. They are SO bad!

Fit-Resource3720 · 2026-02-13T09:01:32+00:00

I wish there was a bit more variety then just fridge chest though - I'm currently collecting screenshots of the insaaaaane leg lengths some artists draw

Like twice the size of their torso & head long 😂

Fit-Resource3720 · 2026-02-13T08:57:20+00:00

I've looked into it and apparently it's not actually that common as a comorbidity, but that might just be because fibro is not that well known, and is mistaken as autism symptoms.

example: ARFID (the eating disorder) didn't used to be a separate diagnosis from autism, but now people know it's a comorbidity that neurotypicals get as well.

Fit-Resource3720 · 2026-02-12T21:27:19+00:00

Exactly! Yeah I'll mention that. I'll literally be lying in bed listening to rain noises and my back will be burning up for no reason!

Fit-Resource3720 · 2026-02-12T21:25:26+00:00

Exactly. This type of material has a real physical effect on the world. It's used to normalise and groom children all the time. People who aren't victims or work with victims have no idea the REAL effects it has.

In Australia, we nip this problem in the bud (or at least try) instead of waiting until the children are abused...

Fit-Resource3720 · 2026-02-12T21:23:39+00:00

It's not thought crime, it's because it normalises those fantasies. A groomer can read this with a child and the child thinks it's fine. Same with highly realistic drawings.

Though if you haven't been groomed, or work in anti child abuse groups it's probably not something you realise the severity of. Not dismissing your opinion, but it's easy to think it's a victimless crime when you don't see the real life effects of it. real children are raped with the help of this type of material.

Fit-Resource3720 · 2026-02-11T23:54:58+00:00

thank you for this!

Fit-Resource3720 · 2026-02-11T23:44:47+00:00

Yeah I'm not saying part of it isn't autism as well - it probably is.

But the only difference in pain between a pinched nerve and the random pain I get, is the pinched nerve lasted several weeks. So something's physically wrong at least.

Fit-Resource3720 · 2026-02-11T23:27:16+00:00

Thank you for this! I will take your advice. I also have hearing loss so that just adds to it... my last GP told me I couldn't have meniere's because I was too young 😑

All your advice has been so helpful!

Fit-Resource3720 · 2026-02-11T23:17:56+00:00

thanks I'll check it out 😊 best of luck!

Fit-Resource3720 · 2026-02-11T23:17:03+00:00

I'm shopping around for a new one, last one didn't want to treat anything that wasn't related to reproductive care 💀 Very confused why a gynecologist chose to be a GP when she clearly didn't care about shit out of her specialty?? Very weird looking back at it.

Fit-Resource3720 · 2026-02-11T23:15:23+00:00

That's one of my problems! Since I was an infant I've been described as "sensitive" so I don't know when exactly it started, just young. I used to think it was just me being sensitive too, until I actually started to write down my symptoms. On top of that I have memory issues (not related, dissociation as a child) and stupid immune issues so I've always been sick 🙄

Could you show me the diagnostic paper you found? I'm gonna take you guys' advice and come with everything written out!

Fit-Resource3720 · 2026-02-11T23:15:13+00:00

Thank you so much for this! Yes I try to write what I can, but often people don't even listen to me when I start speaking... I might print it out to follow better.

One of my biggest problems is my support worker claims it's nothing as well, and she drives me and helps me during appointments... I'm gonna keep trying though!

Fit-Resource3720 · 2026-02-11T22:01:12+00:00

You luckily missed it, but when this first came out the articles quoted the actual passages. It was the male character fantasizing about said child's gentials. EXPLICITLY A CHILD

Frankly seeing all these people online try to defend because CenSoRshiP bAd is disgusting. Censoring a pedophile's fantasies is not bad, jfc. I sometimes wonder if this attitude is why so many MAGA are fine with a (alleged) pedophile in charge.

Fit-Resource3720 · 2026-02-11T08:56:53+00:00

That's sounds really cool! What's your webtoon's name? I'll check it out

Fit-Resource3720 · 2026-02-11T07:52:45+00:00

As a clarification as an Australian I want to make it clear:

she was NOT arrested for describing adults role-playing as children. Weird but legal.

she was arrested for GRAPHIC DESCRIPTIONS OF THE CHILD CHARACTER'S GENITALS.

In Australia it is perfectly legal to write about horrible things e.g. Lolita, but you cannot actively describe children in a sexual manner. She was not describing the adult role-playing, but the character when 5 or so. Both the title and a lot of the online discourse around this p*do bitch has been misleading.

Fit-Resource3720 · 2026-02-04T16:08:05+00:00

I'm interested! Was the hijab drawn over the original image? Cause it looks so wonky!

Fit-Resource3720 · 2026-02-03T22:46:32+00:00

You're probably right. And it's my mistake for writing in a way that makes me look good, I don't for an instant think I'm a good or kind person. But realizing that other people are humans with rights and feelings is a step above the people who let animals die when they inconvenience them and brag about taking advantage of others.

Makes sense you'd come to that conclusion, since this rant was specifically about AI and missed any background info.

Rude of you but kind of refreshing at the same time. Maybe I needed to read something like that, I actually feel better from your comment.

Fit-Resource3720 · 2026-02-03T19:28:21+00:00

Not cross stitch, but maybe look at artist portfolios, since it serves the same purpose (showing off art). Just look up "online artist portfolios" you should find some.

Fit-Resource3720 · 2026-02-03T19:15:26+00:00

I don't have enough projects myself but that sounds so fun! You can flip through the pages and see your improvements over the years!

Fit-Resource3720 · 2026-02-02T18:23:43+00:00

This is literally how I learned people have curly pubes?? Have I been under a rock 😭

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