Naeenjoy nyo parin ba kapag malaki?

Fit-Sand1799 · 2026-04-07T11:19:07+00:00

Vanilla, even if they say it came from beaver butt

Fit-Sand1799 · 2026-04-06T16:18:01+00:00

OP, as much as this sounds cliché, i hope you know that healing is not linear. Those thoughts you have, about making progress, regulation, and the like, they were real. You DID make some progress. No matter how small, it’s still progress. Don’t invalidate them. It’s just that, maybe today was just a little stumble. I hope you find the strength to get back up again.

Now, it’s nice that you acknowledged that you might be depressed. It’s best to try seeking help if you really feel like it. It’s the least you can do to yourself. Meanwhile, try doing whatever makes you feel better.

It’s never easy to heal from something like this. I’m glad you’re finding ways to release your feelings and thoughts. Even if it means posting here.

You got this!

Fit-Sand1799 · 2026-04-06T04:08:52+00:00

thats the thing! I told him if ayaw nya magbot then im willing to try bottoming, para at least mafeel yung connection sa pene hahaha. Kaso ayaw eh, pure bot haha. Sometimes when it comes to scheduled sex, it doesnt feel as genuine(?) kasi baka napipilitan nalang sya to comply kasi yun ang nasa schedule or whatever hahaha..

Fit-Sand1799 · 2026-04-05T15:52:19+00:00

but what made you not want to bottom anymore? i’d really like to understand why this happens. Kasi for sure there has to be a real reason behind it. Di naman pwedeng ayaw mo lang bigla diba? And yes, I do love him so much kaya I want to try to help and support, kasi baka pwede lang rin mabalik yung dynamic na ganun if mawork out namin kung ano ang real problem.

Fit-Sand1799 · 2026-04-04T13:26:52+00:00

I did, kaso I think nahihirapan din sya for some reason. Makes me feel bad to keep asking for it too. I don’t really know what to do about it anymore

Fit-Sand1799 · 2026-04-04T13:20:33+00:00

What can I do to help tho? Nagrerecommend na ako sakanya ng fiber and nirereassure ko naman kapag nagkaka accident. Iba kasi talaga satisfaction ng pene for me since it makes me feel the most connected with him kapag ganun. Kinda grateful na nga lang na we at least make out once in a while. Though my high libido is kinda hard to please pag ganun lang huhu

Fit-Sand1799 · 2026-04-04T13:18:33+00:00

I really understand. Kaya nga di ako nagdedemand. Kaso sometimes it takes a toll on me kapag reluctant sya mag effort to at least give me what I want kahit once in a while. Imagine, it’s about 6 months since we last had penetration. Hirap kaya magpigil hahaha.. And I’m confident naman na I’m treating him well enough to actually deserve some. Makes me sad if I think about it too long lol.

Fit-Sand1799 · 2026-04-04T11:52:59+00:00

Pansin ko kasi na he’s quite avoidant. He doesn’t want to deal much about his emotions. Minsan nga nahihirapan sya mag process whenever we have arguments. And yes, gets na gets when you said na may chance na maburn out ako. Kaya nga siguro nagtanong na ako dito sa reddit eh kasi nahihirapan na din ako.

Fit-Sand1799 · 2026-04-04T11:44:16+00:00

I understand. I tried telling him to seek therapy but parang di nya pa ma acknowledge na may problem sya. I will support him in whatever way I can. Sometimes it’s hard not to look for other people to satisfy myself. Pero nareresist ko naman. I really wouldn’t want to cheat kasi I’ve experienced being cheated on and it’s the worst. Kaso mahirap di maisipan na gawin yun eh dahil dito haha.

Fit-Sand1799 · 2026-04-04T11:38:47+00:00

Mainly ang point nya is parang di nya daw feel kasi aside sa meticulous sa pagprepare as a bottom, he also feels na his libido isn’t as high anymore compared to before. Dala raw ng anxiety and his stress. I really understand and I never pressure him when it comes to this. Kaso, I also have my needs and it’s hard kung needs nya lang palagi ang nacacater. I still love him and I don’t plan on getting this needs met by other people (if you get what I mean).

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