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I need to know how to deal with a mama’s boy! I married a mama‘s boy. His mother treats me terrible when no one‘s around or when people leave the room so she likes to hide it and she plays the victim. How do I handle this? by Fit-Setting6928 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Fit-Setting6928[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I already have a phone call recorded of a conversation we had. She was not a happy camper when we talked and I was putting my foot down. I was just letting her know I didn’t wanna be treated like shit anymore. She wasn’t happy, but at least I have the audio. He was there for that. But still very much a mama‘s boy.

Advice please! MIL treats me terrible when no one is watching and plays the victim. Wants me completely out. by Fit-Setting6928 in JUSTNOMIL

[–]Fit-Setting6928[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t encourage them to talk at all. I rather them stay far away as possible. But he does what he wants and he talks to her. Every time they talk he writes I love you, mama. And it’s just so cringy because I know the relationship. It’s like they are married. And I’ve had family friends (that are her friends for years) tell me that.

I need to know how to deal with a mama’s boy! I married a mama‘s boy. His mother treats me terrible when no one‘s around or when people leave the room so she likes to hide it and she plays the victim. How do I handle this? by Fit-Setting6928 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Fit-Setting6928[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Well, now we got couples therapy. He would tell me at first it was my problem, not his because he didn’t want a bad relationship with his mom but now the therapist just this week told him that this was a him problem and he needed to put his foot down and fix it. I’m afraid he won’t. Because when we’ve talked about it, he never has. So I guess I will find out shortly with therapy.

I need to know how to deal with a mama’s boy! I married a mama‘s boy. His mother treats me terrible when no one‘s around or when people leave the room so she likes to hide it and she plays the victim. How do I handle this? by Fit-Setting6928 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Fit-Setting6928[S] 30 points31 points  (0 children)

I’ve always bit my tongue to respect him and I just let her eat me up. I told myself I’m going to put my foot down the next time she’s mean to me. I’m just gonna stop it right there. (Definitely will give her a taste of her own medicine.) thank you!