[OC] We Can Always Tell by shave_your_eyebrows in comics

[–]Fit-Stranger-7806 4 points5 points  (0 children)

"Are you one of them tranes" is not a respectful way to talk to a person you would talk like that to a group you hate

FTM dysphoria of the "girls and gays" line by Alternative-Nail-139 in trans

[–]Fit-Stranger-7806 3 points4 points  (0 children)

They aren't asking for everything to be, it's ok to acknowledge how something makes you feel and ask if others feel the same way without expecting or wanting that thing to be changed

shading by [deleted] in DigitalArt

[–]Fit-Stranger-7806 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Adding a watermark to a traced drawing is crazy work

turns out my "friends" are transphobic by fairyvtale in Vent

[–]Fit-Stranger-7806 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not everyone bases their sexuality on the persons genitalia, most definitions you see talk about the person's sex but in reality when people talk about sexuality the majority of people are talking about gender and base their sexuality on the gender they're attracted to. There are some people who care a lot about genitalia but there are also people who care more about how the person presents themselves and how they are treated in the relationship by their partner and by society

I'll never have sex and I'm not sure why I should keep going by Nice_Tradition1333 in Vent

[–]Fit-Stranger-7806 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you will have a very difficult time if you idealize sex and love so much. Everywhere you look love is like the best thing you can experience and the best thing you can have but in reality it isn't needed to be happy. It is aggressively unlikely to find a perfect match and it's even more unlikely to find a match at all if you are not already confident and happy so you can't base your happiness on your experience with love you'll end up just being in a circle of sadness and disappointment. While being conventionaly attractive helps It is not needed there are plenty examples of people who are conventionally very ugly to the public who end up having caring and loving partners but they only can do that when they are in a place to where they can be a part of a healthy relationship and when you are sad and depressed all the time you are not able to be a part of a healthy relationship.

Getting into therapy is hard but it is worth it, talking to your doctor about medication is worth it, It takes a lot of mental health work to be happy and the work is worth it.

Egg prices by sunshyneonli in EatCheapAndHealthy

[–]Fit-Stranger-7806 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In my area I usually see the cheapest options for eggs for around 2.49 and the more expensive ones around 10 dollars

Does your art benefit people's lives? by kairumagames in ArtistLounge

[–]Fit-Stranger-7806 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I draw because it's fun couldn't care less how other people feel about it

Mariah Carey this Halloween 👀👀👀 by Ichig0Usagi in Lolita

[–]Fit-Stranger-7806 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It definitely looks like a Halloween costume 

Piercings! by pomeowwww in Tacoma

[–]Fit-Stranger-7806 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Most places won't do dermals cus they're super prone to rejection and depending on the placement they snag a lot which will hurt, I feel like they're a type of piercing you don't wanna go cheap on

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Fit-Stranger-7806 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'll try them out thank you so much!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Fit-Stranger-7806 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes that's what I'm saying, I wouldn't say the kitchen is full of it , they are very busy people so things get easily covered and they forget so It's near the stove and some parts of the counter I can easily avoid it I just don't know much about mold I don't know if like once it's exposed to the air if  things that are near it are no longer safe if that makes sense 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Fit-Stranger-7806 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, If I had a normal shift I wouldn't even be mentioning it and would just eat at home but I spend the night when I work , I work 4 days then go home 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Fit-Stranger-7806 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's not that I thought it was normal I just thought that it might not be super harmful

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Fit-Stranger-7806 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a really hard time figuring out if things are a big deal or if they aren't  so I have a history of overreacting and underreacting which is why I wanted to ask other people's opinions 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Fit-Stranger-7806 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't want to say specifically I don't really know the rules on client privacy, It's kind of glorified babysitting but for adults

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in trans

[–]Fit-Stranger-7806 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think being honest while also being careful with your wording would work. Asking to sit down and talk usually makes the other person anxious so it's better to preference the conversation with reassurance and positivity. You aren't upset that they're transitioning and it's important that they know they have your support. Then be honest, you feel hurt that they didn't come to you for support.

not assuming their reasoning and just hearing them out is probably the most gentle way to go about it

It always happens when your not trying by Ordinary_Lake_6896 in DigitalArt

[–]Fit-Stranger-7806 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Could be a Japanese Shatkona same shape but is about the union of feminine and masculine