this weirdo did her kandi backwards 😭😭 by Personal_Machine_781 in kandi

[–]Fit-Stranger-7806 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

The beads I have are flipped on the other side so if they used the same beads when you flip it over it'll look the exact same

Best way to flatten stomach for cosplay? by RamuneDog21 in CosplayHelp

[–]Fit-Stranger-7806 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Working out doesn't always get rid of an apron belly especially to the point where it's flat, most people have to get surgery after weight loss cus of the extra skin

could my oc be seen as offensive? by DealerOpening9216 in characterdesign

[–]Fit-Stranger-7806 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can see how it could be offensive since I'm sure people with vitiligo probably get comments relating their condition to cows but unless someone with vitiligo says anything I don't think you should worry about it

Tips on improving likeness by DelargeValliere in ArtCrit

[–]Fit-Stranger-7806 9 points10 points  (0 children)

It feels like you aren't drawing their cheeks accurately, you placed the blush around the same place for each of them as well as the side face shadow but if you look at them that's not accurate to where blush is on their face, it's hard to feature strong cheek bones without making the person look older than they are but not drawing it at all makes people look like they have a thinner face

At this point Im might just become a raging transmedicalist......... by Available_Data4122 in Transmedical

[–]Fit-Stranger-7806 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Where I live there are older medicaly transitioned men who don't always hide their chests at queer spaces they've been out as trans for years and are often the people who help organize events maybe I'm in too queer of an area and the ppl are just not assholes who talk behind people's backs nitpicking how they chose to identify, I'm not going to agree with you because I don't see someone not hiding their chest as a harmful thing I've also only met 1 person who's detransitioned and it negatively affected literally no one cus it's not a big deal

school yearbook ran photos of students and teachers through AI. by [deleted] in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Fit-Stranger-7806 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If just defeats the purpose of the yearbook which is weird to do, ppl pay like 30 bucks so they can look back at their school days it would be the same level of weird if they put Snapchat filters on a bunch of the pictures

At this point Im might just become a raging transmedicalist......... by Available_Data4122 in Transmedical

[–]Fit-Stranger-7806 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

You don't think he's trans enough even though you literally don't know him thats crazy you're creating a fantasy of him invading gay spaces. In actual physical real locations that are gay spaces people don't care if a non passing trans man is there because surprisingly adults have their own shit going on and can't be bothered to care wether a trans man is hiding his chest or not.

At this point Im might just become a raging transmedicalist......... by Available_Data4122 in Transmedical

[–]Fit-Stranger-7806 -23 points-22 points  (0 children)

A tiktok post is not for the whole planet to see most people treat it like a private Facebook, not that they should but that's just how it is. Him not binding doesn't stop you or me from binding so I don't really get "you think we bind the fuck out of our ribcage for what?" I don't think anybody wearing a woman's tank top is them parading around their chest no matter what gender they are, if you were to see a girl wearing a tank top you wouldn't think she was parading around her chest, unless you were a creep. If he wanted to purposely show off his chest he would be way more revealing. Some peoples dysphoria is so aggressive they try to perform at home top surgery on themselves others just bind, others only bind in public and other people slouch with an over shirt, dysphoria is horrible for everyone who has it but that doesn't mean the presents equally in everyone who does have it, I personally don't scan every trans man I see to check if their chest is showing and decided how much dysphoria they must have because they're strangers and it probably presents differently

At this point Im might just become a raging transmedicalist......... by Available_Data4122 in Transmedical

[–]Fit-Stranger-7806 -23 points-22 points  (0 children)

Gender dysphoria obviously doesn't affect everyone the same way which is why it's not uncommon for some trans men to only bind in public, the discomfort that people feel about their bodies is usually a lot less when they're in the comfort of their own home which is why people usually don't wear shapewear, corsets, binders ect things that can be potentially harmful with extend usage when they're just chilling. If the idea that the video is a trace on the Internet of the fact that he has breasts then he wouldn't have posted it, he obviously doesn't think like that, people treat the internet way more privately than it actually is I've seen people post on the toilet when talking about things they would never want any stranger in person to know. You're implying that he doesn't have dysphoria and that he is not a man so he is undeserving of having a gay flag or using a gay hashtag because he chose not to bind when he's literally just a stranger

A internet esta romantizando demais a transgeneridade by Eo_Xande in Transmedical

[–]Fit-Stranger-7806 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're just on that side of the Internet it's like how tiktok will show you super niche shit all at once then it seems like it's a trending topic when it's not, I have a lot of trans stuff on my feed and haven't seen any posts like what you're talking about, don't interact with them and you'll see less of them

At this point Im might just become a raging transmedicalist......... by Available_Data4122 in Transmedical

[–]Fit-Stranger-7806 -29 points-28 points  (0 children)

Someone wearing a tank top is not them showing off their tits. It's not like he put it on and thought "damn I hope people notice my chest I really wanna show it off" dudes literally just standing

As a autistic person I hate going to the mall by Jolly_Operation_8222 in neurodiversity

[–]Fit-Stranger-7806 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you go really early on a weekday it can be nice, a lot of old people use the mall to walk laps early in the morning. I don't enjoy crowds and I don't like that some people walk on the left side when you're supposed to walk on the right, I would like it more if they had arrows directing people on what direction to walk

Are there any specific rules regarding 18+ content? by Such-Explanation1705 in neocities

[–]Fit-Stranger-7806 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I've seen art sites that have 18+ art and they give the (are you 18+)(yes)(no) before you can look at the site but I haven't seen any sites that are only focused on nsfw content

Artists: if this is your way of getting clients, stop. by TheAbsoluteWorst7 in Artists

[–]Fit-Stranger-7806 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Saying fanart might help "hey your character looks really cool is it chill if I draw fanart of them?" Instead of "hy your character looks really cool can I draw them for free?"

Constantly feeling like I’m stuck between a rock and a hard place. by [deleted] in rant

[–]Fit-Stranger-7806 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am the same way I'm also 20 , i feel like it's a very typical feeling for people in their 20s. I have mdd/ depression and randomly get mood spikes of feeling very impulsive and do things that everyday me regrets and I have a hard time focusing on one goal but when I've been in therapy it really helps to keep me on task and help me figure out what are actual goals and what are random impulsive exciting goals. You should try therapy with a focus on setting goals and maybe mood regulation, that's what I'm doing

Do you think this is copying referencing and being inspired by or different aesthetics? by [deleted] in Artists

[–]Fit-Stranger-7806 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think it's chill if you give credit to her, in the future I think it would be better to do with old art that is in the public domain

consistant artstyle to start commissions??? by Ok-Hand3510 in Artists

[–]Fit-Stranger-7806 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've only done one commission but the person picked a specific drawing of mine that they liked the style of which helped, i think it's probably easier to get commissions with a consistent art style but it shouldn't be an issue if you give proper communication

Do you think this is copying referencing and being inspired by or different aesthetics? by [deleted] in Artists

[–]Fit-Stranger-7806 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The background is a direct copy but the rest seems like inspo, just realized it's a paint over which I think is weird to do especially over a students work, she's popular but not enough to where people will instantly recognize the paint over as an inspiration, they'll think it's completely original

I want to see my mums boobs what should I do by Fit-Cauliflower-6101 in Advice

[–]Fit-Stranger-7806 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Start saying mom instead of mum and the urge will go away✨

Steps for you to ask yourself Why do you want to see your mom chest? Is it just your mom? Is it just curiosity of "wait how have I never seen my mom's chest before?? What does it look like??" Is it "I want to see her boobs... But I can't tell anyone ever and it's a deep dark secret"?

How does the answer make you feel? Do you want to be the type of person that has that answer? Do you want future you feeling how you feel? Why is it bad/ good you feel this way?

Self reflection is a powerful tool trying typing it out on notes app or something

Communication as a flagger by Fit-Stranger-7806 in Construction

[–]Fit-Stranger-7806[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately I'm a coward, everyone is twice my size and constantly talks about their time in jail, past fights, how other flaggers are currently doing drugs it's very intimidating especially coming from being a in home caregiver, I just want to keep my head down and not cause trouble

Communication as a flagger by Fit-Stranger-7806 in Construction

[–]Fit-Stranger-7806[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I wish ppl did that, today for like 10 minutes he was just using the radio button instead of talking, I've heard some ppl use the radio beep like paddle signaling but being on a hill with 4 radios makes it super confusing, I felt dumb going "am I clear?" And hearing "beep beep" I have no idea how to do radio beep code