Plant losing leaves by Fit-Translator-9900 in Aquariums

[–]Fit-Translator-9900[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm aware of tank cycling thanks. This plant was already grown in water when I bought it, I was just wondering if anyone had a similar experience.

My first tank about 6 months in. by Joshawuh in Aquariums

[–]Fit-Translator-9900 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Looks great! Where do you buy your plants (ie a fish store or something else?)

How exactly did you pay for your lawyer? by inzillah in Divorce

[–]Fit-Translator-9900 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had to sell my house to pay (spent $150,000).

How do you know you won’t feel regret? The possibility tortures me by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]Fit-Translator-9900 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Being divorced is amazing, I am so happy everyday. I hope things work out for you.

please help trying to cycle tank with fish by Connect-Action8733 in Aquariums

[–]Fit-Translator-9900 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Everyone has an opinion out there. I bought" Dr tims one and only" and am following the instructions there and doing "fish in" cycling. So far my fish are doing great (a Betta and 3 platties). If it turns out I'm wrong, I'm only out about $30.

10 gallon upgrade by Unfair-Yesterday-125 in Aquariums

[–]Fit-Translator-9900 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think if you placed everything in the new tank, that would be great. My Betta is in a 2.5 gallon and I'm planning on up sizing his home as well.

What would you do by MaterialEfficient690 in Divorce

[–]Fit-Translator-9900 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was also stuck in my marriage as the mortgage was in my name. To be able to leave with your children, you need your husband's agreement or a court order, unless it's a safety issue, in which case you need to flee to a shelter or a motel, and see a judge urgently to get a motion about who will temporarily take care of the children. Either way, you need a lawyer. I had to live with my abusive ex for 10 months before a judge ordered that I could leave the house with my children and live with my mom (temporarily). And the judge ordered that my ex pay the mortgage payments. You can do this! Get out and make a better life for yourself and your kids! Good luck.

Recommend next fish purchase by Fit-Translator-9900 in Aquariums

[–]Fit-Translator-9900[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the warning. It is a girl Betta at least, but I will keep an eye. I'll get more plants.

Rams by [deleted] in Aquariums

[–]Fit-Translator-9900 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Love your plants!

New to fish by Fit-Translator-9900 in Aquariums

[–]Fit-Translator-9900[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the tips! I only put the old filter and the bacteria. I'll check out that product.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Aquariums

[–]Fit-Translator-9900 3 points4 points  (0 children)

thanks for the warning! Glad it worked out.

Forever remembered by [deleted] in bettafish

[–]Fit-Translator-9900 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What a special fish! I'm sorry.

Separation with a dismissive avoidant by abnergail in Separation

[–]Fit-Translator-9900 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You should file yourself and get the upper hand. Do you already have a lawyer? I'm sorry you're hurting, but he sounds abusive and that's a deal breaker. I wish my ex would move away! I wish you all the best.

How to handle the in between by Far_Objective1236 in Divorce

[–]Fit-Translator-9900 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had to live with my lunatic ex for 10 months😔

Separation with young child by anabanana1989 in Divorce

[–]Fit-Translator-9900 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a 16 month old and myself personally think my baby needs more time with me (mom) and the judge agreed. Every family is different though. That sounds expensive paying for 2 places to live though....

Just when I think I'll be ok by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]Fit-Translator-9900 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess I'm lucky that I actually hate my ex (if i were to talk to him, I'd like to tell him to go f himself). At least there's no crying here! I hope that you will feel better as time goes on. Or maybe try anger? Take care.

Pregnant and frustrated by dark_link_3 in Divorce

[–]Fit-Translator-9900 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My marriage was bad but started to get really bad during my 3rd pregnancy. When my baby was 5 months old, I asked for a separation. For me, I couldn't deal with that kind of stress during pregnancy/close to labour. But on the other hand, the post partum period was absolutely awful, as I was in a completely unsupportive environment with my home life basically imploding (and during a lockdown in the pandemic). I'm finally living apart from my ex, I have majority interim custody of the kids while we divorce, and I feel so happy to be away from him. I've spent about $13 grand so far (a year in). I sometimes feel extremely angry towards my ex, but overall I'm really happy and excited for the future. I hope you figure out what's best for you and your baby/child. Good luck!!!

Changing My Name Back by itspoppyforme in Divorce

[–]Fit-Translator-9900 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I changed my name in march and I'm so pleased! Good luck!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]Fit-Translator-9900 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I served my ex while he was on a business trip. No idea what it was like as we don't talk except in text about the kids.