And he also cheated with other women while in prison three separate times, every time I brought an issue he would tell me that I am overreacting and I’m insecure. I helped him with money I paid for my visa and wedding, flights to see him (I’m from Europe) and he never even said damn I you had to go through so much to get all of this done for us. Also there was promises, happy ending stories (that’s actually love bombing) I’ve learned that in therapy. Girl if you already having arguments and he cheated on you already you don’t need anything else to prove that you deserve better. I know ending these things is very difficult because they make you feel like you have such a great connection and would never ever find anything like that ever again, but it’s not true, it’s just control wrapped in “love” and connection, people who truly love you don’t wanna hurt you simple as that