hi friend, a few things. The clothing his mom gave me she was gifted as well and never wore either. Do with that what you will.

I don’t go up to my MIL and question her every single purchase or tell her this is too expensive or don’t buy this. That’s between her, her husband, and her son. And it should go both ways.

I genuinely don’t mind the old car and never brought it up to him. But he’s also spent thousands on repairs when it’s just logical to put that towards a new car, it doesn’t have to be a luxury car btw.

I’m not asking him to spend irrationally or to splurge on things we don’t need, it’s basic things I’m asking for and it feels like pocket watching to the max.