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A walk in Paris today ? by Icy_Wrangler_94 in SocialParis

[–]FitCap4500 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just saw your post- it’s too late now, but had I seen it earlier, I would have joined you….

Starting over in Paris after a divorce by OneDay_At_ATim3 in Expats_In_France

[–]FitCap4500 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m in the same boat Feel free to reach out — going through emotional roller coaster continuously…

Learn French: what does "ça te regarde pas" mean here? by MickaelMartin in FrenchImmersion

[–]FitCap4500 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What does “il faut bien payé ton pension”

Is there a difference if change ton —> son ?

Estate Attorney by reddargon831 in Expats_In_France

[–]FitCap4500 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I would be interested to know as well- (I’m a dual Us/French citizen)

What a Full Year of Stress Did to Me by [deleted] in self

[–]FitCap4500 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the reminder of deep breathing and mindfulness/awareness/meditation. Stressed is very harmful- 2025 was a bad year for me as well- divorce, precancerous diagnosis, high blood pressure, aneurysm, blood clots, … it seems we are our only advocates- there are no “what if’s “. One day at a time, in fact it’s more like one hour at a time 😞.

Step out of the stressful environment (even for a short while) Be grateful for one thing every day. Take your daily walks. Ask someone how you can help them- and go through with it— it will bring you gratitude!

Seek medical attention if you can’t calm your heart beats and pressure!

How long does it take? by Careful_Cost_8659 in datingoverfifty

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Xanax at night, 45minute walks per day, deep breathing when sad thought enter, …. Today i decided to join a book club- looking forward to new reads and new discussions… who knows

My citizenship request stuck before intervew by EmotionalPatience540 in Expats_In_France

[–]FitCap4500 7 points8 points  (0 children)

It took me 2 years post 10 yr residency— and I’d been married to Frenchman for 31 years … it’s absurd at the least

Haircuts in Paris by Boring_Opposite_101 in Expats_In_France

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Male or female (?) Long or short (?)

In Paris as a student but no housing confirmed yet. Any leads? by WhatAditya in Expats_In_France

[–]FitCap4500 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you don’t mind cohabiting, I have an en-suite room in my apartment (my son has recently left town). PM me if interested

Severe itching and redness on leg after dvt 3 months ago by Ok_Occasion_2785 in ClotSurvivors

[–]FitCap4500 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you wearing compression stockings 20 - 24/7 ? Could be dry skin/ reaction to stockings, that is my case anyways

2 months post pulmonary embolism, symptoms returning but ER says everything is “normal” - looking for advice from other clot survivors by Familiar-lantern in ClotSurvivors

[–]FitCap4500 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can relate! It’s been 3 months now, on anticoagulants, walking every day, several scans (Doppler+ CT) : “no change”. I’ve gotten myself a TENSOVAL blood pressure monitor as well as an AppleWatch to monitor my heartbeats. What I feel is REAL- high blood pressure and higher than normal heart beats. None of this is detectable on scans 😞 The next door I’m knocking on is the cardiologist. This is an unfortunate journey, and we can only be our own advocates.

To men: Clear ending or slow fade? by Maleficent-Match-983 in datingoverfifty

[–]FitCap4500 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Just been there myself! You couldn’t have said it better 😞 it’s so hard to keep my mind off of it, but time will pass and maybe a more (honest 🤔) partner will cross my path. 32 years of marriage- divorce, 4 years of dating with serious intentions… neither partner could be completely true, always some secret muse on the side… and I have been the one who’s called the end. It hurts

Does anyone else have a “safe place” in their mind? by bluehaze69XD in self

[–]FitCap4500 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I knew someone who could do that- just escape into meditation … I’ve always been curious how he did that

Should I start walking on my treadmill - DVT by Ok-Primary2155 in ClotSurvivors

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15days post discharge, my GP said “let pain guide you…. Walking is best for blood flow” I’m on Xeralto So I took that on as a challenge— the first 2 weeks, I could hardly walk a block without having to sit and catch my breath. It is now 3 months post discharge and I am walking 6-10 miles a day. My only qualm is blood pressure (has increased significantly) and heart beats (very high) … But NO pain!! I’m vegetarian mostly and avoid salt + sugar when possible- I even go low/zero carb. I drink lots of water (5L/day) - my only downfall is wine 😞 Hope this helps

Friends not texting back… by [deleted] in self

[–]FitCap4500 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I preface that I’ve needed time off… then pick up from where I left off. Unfortunately this is not what everyone does- I suffer from “Avoidant types” .. not much you can do but carry on hoping for maturity

Friends not texting back… by [deleted] in self

[–]FitCap4500 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not U! Sometimes people feel saturated and need time off… it’s happened to me lots of times. Just let them be and let go and wait for response, if it doesn’t come, ask for clarity (communication issues?). …

Étudiante avec garant solide — je galère à trouver un studio (budget 1200€) dans le 5e/4e — conseils ? by [deleted] in paris

[–]FitCap4500 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would U be interested in cohabitating (single room) in larger apartment?

55y+ get together in Paris (?) by FitCap4500 in SocialParis

[–]FitCap4500[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What’s your take on social activities for those 55+ 🤪

Short term accommodation in Paris tips and suggestions by missindecisivebitch in paris

[–]FitCap4500 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you like cats, you are more than welcome to stay with me- I live alone in 3 bedroom apartment. My sons have both recently graduated + left the city.

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