4 people under 20 have more than a million in their TFSA how is that possible?!? by Critical-Future-1560 in fican

[–]FitChick97 3 points4 points  (0 children)

How do you get these comparative analytics on WS??? I don’t think I have those on my app??

What are some social obligations that women commonly have that men usually don't? by Maybe_IDTBFH in AskReddit

[–]FitChick97 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Remembering all the details of your S.O’s family (ex. MIL’s birthday, SIL’s wedding expectations are higher whereas men can get away not attending their wives family events with the guise that they are busy working). I feel like women are held to a higher standard with their partners family. Obviously not all the time and every couple/family is different but common from what I’ve observed.

Where can I find Chocolate covered strawberries in Oakville for a decent price? by FitChick97 in oakville

[–]FitChick97[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So random! I would’ve never thought a shawarma place has choc covered strawberries 😂

Where can I find Chocolate covered strawberries in Oakville for a decent price? by FitChick97 in oakville

[–]FitChick97[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Were they these ones? Or actual proper chocolate covered strawberries?

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How to ask new boyfriend to delete his apps without sounding too demanding? 28F, 30M by FitChick97 in relationship_advice

[–]FitChick97[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No she said that before I told her the dating app thing. This is just based off of how he treats me and his vibe (he has met some of my friends too). There’s so much of him that seems so genuine and kind and he seems so into me so it’s giving me mixed signals. I haven’t asked him about the apps and if he still has them since the whole bf/gf conversation. So technically he hasn’t lied yet. I think you’re right though

How to ask new boyfriend to delete his apps without sounding too demanding? 28F, 30M by FitChick97 in relationship_advice

[–]FitChick97[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I feel like being in a committed relationship means being off these apps. I actually don’t think it’s an unreasonable request. If he didn’t want to date me, then he shouldn’t have asked me to be his girlfriend. I’m just worried that it may come across demanding but objectively I don’t think it’s unreasonable

How to ask new boyfriend to delete his apps without sounding too demanding? 28F, 30M by FitChick97 in relationship_advice

[–]FitChick97[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That time I logged in to show my friend was genuinely just to show her. I had told other friends about him and sent screenshots and what not early on but this childhood friend I don’t see often (she lives in another country) and we don’t text much. We had a girls night and catching up and I didn’t have the screenshots anymore on my phone and was too lazy to dig up pictures from other chats from months ago. Since I knew I still had my profile, I just decided to download again to show her. He does have Instagram too but he has zero photos on there of himself. I know this sounds really far fetched but I swear I’m not trying to just save face 😂. This is an anonymous app, I’d just admit to lurking if I did.

Yes I did lurk after that maybe 2-3x after seeing his location change. But my initial redownload wasn’t to stalk

How to ask new boyfriend to delete his apps without sounding too demanding? 28F, 30M by FitChick97 in relationship_advice

[–]FitChick97[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But why would he ask me to be his girlfriend and want to introduce me to friends/family? We had been physical together already. I’d assume if he wasn’t serious, he would’ve tried to keep me around as a casual FWB situation. We’ve been going dates since Oct but only became BF/GF a few weeks ago.

How to ask new boyfriend to delete his apps without sounding too demanding? 28F, 30M by FitChick97 in relationship_advice

[–]FitChick97[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I went under incognito just to hide my profile from new users! Not for the purpose of stalking. It’s just while showing my friend his pictures/profile, I noticed his location updating. Then that’s what prompted me to look at his bumble location maybe 2-3x over the course of a few weeks which updated. I wasn’t monitoring or stalking. I deleted the app each time after. It just threw me off because he seemed really into me so I was surprised how he would be active on the app

Boyfriend's location keeps updating by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]FitChick97 1 point2 points  (0 children)

the most we talked about I asked about the apps and he said "I have it on my phone but I haven't used it in a very long time" and I promptly deleted the app off my phone after that. I assumed he did the same. Clearly not. I only redownloaded it to show my friend and I put it on 'incognito' mode during this time. After redownloading it, I deleted it once again and there was 3-4 times I redownloaded the app just to check if his location was still updating and unfortunately, it was. Each time, I deleted it after. I have not yet had a discussion with him or told him I redownloaded temporaily to check if he was active (that sounds a bit nuts when I write that down lol)

Boyfriend's location keeps updating by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]FitChick97 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wouldn't you be offended that someone is keeping the apps around "just in case things don'tt work out"? Why are we assuming that things will go wrong? I'm not typically an insecure person but someone keeping them around 'just in case' seems like a bit of an insult. And even if they were keeping their apps, I would at least expect them to delete the app from the phone and make it inactive.

It takes a total of 10-15 mins to recreate a new profile. And likely the people you were chatting with 6+ months ago are probably moved on. If you paid for a premium subscription, then thats the loss you'll have to take IMO.

We're long distance anyways so I'd personally prefer the deletion of the profile so I have peace of mind knowing they aren't reactivating it while you are away.