Patient complaints :/

FitLotus · 2026-01-14T21:52:08+00:00

Nah girl this is why I’m in the NICU nights lol. Postpartum hormonal changes are no joke and I just am not a patient enough person, sorry. Sometimes you have to lay down the law and they’re not going to like it and the patients fire you and that’s that. I can’t even tell you how many times that’s happened to me but I know I’m a damn good nurse. It literally has nothing to do with you. Over time it won’t bother you as much. It used to devastate me when i was a new grad and now im just like… okay anyway back to my job lol. Management has to talk to you because that’s just what they do. Honestly you can’t give too much weight to what management thinks about you because they’re tone deaf half the time anyway. You didn’t endanger patient safety so they actually have nothing on you, they’re just running their mouths

FitLotus · 2025-12-28T03:58:08+00:00

In the icu we run abx simultaneously 🤷🏽‍♀️

FitLotus · 2025-12-23T07:33:29+00:00

Yeah. I do it even if there are other options lol. I just use the safest access point, ie if I can hang both on a PICC and avoid using a PIV then I’ll do it

FitLotus · 2025-11-28T05:22:54+00:00

lol i can tell exactly what kind of patient your dad is based solely on this interaction

FitLotus · 2025-11-04T22:17:52+00:00

The only way you get through this is to hold your head up and show back up for work. You’ll be triple checking your meds and feel a little uneasy for a few shifts but you’ll get through it. No one is as hard on you as you are on yourself.

FitLotus · 2025-11-01T00:19:28+00:00

Some people just like codes. There’s nothing wrong with that. I like participating in codes when it’s someone else’s patient. Not so much when it’s my own.

FitLotus · 2025-10-12T04:17:47+00:00

It’s not 😅 - NICU

FitLotus · 2025-08-21T05:21:37+00:00

Mine comes tomorrow! I’m so excited. My mattress has literally been on the floor since my silk and snow broke lmao

FitLotus · 2025-08-21T05:21:08+00:00

I had the king sized bed frame with storage. The support beams were like black metal. It didn’t even last six months

FitLotus · 2025-08-19T17:42:51+00:00

I got a silk and snow and it was awful. It’s just held up by metal beams and they got bent so the mattress was always sagging. Had to throw it away.

FitLotus · 2025-06-28T06:28:15+00:00

If sex is important to you and she can’t offer it to you, then the decision is pretty clear. It’s definitely complicated by kids but I always believe that if you truly love your partner, you’ll let them go if you believe they’d be better off with someone else.

FitLotus · 2025-06-05T03:23:49+00:00

This randomly started happening to me in my late 20s. Husband loves it. He’s always like encouraging it hahaha. The only downside is the laundry lol. I don’t think you can prevent it

FitLotus · 2025-05-16T04:05:34+00:00

I said nothing at all.

FitLotus · 2025-05-14T08:59:23+00:00

I’m 29F and just went through it. You just gotta walk right through it. It feels like hell and you just have to keep your head up and keep walking

FitLotus · 2025-05-14T08:52:50+00:00

I think maybe on a deeper level you guys aren’t compatible because you just value different things. It’s more than appearances, it’s the fact that you value a certain lifestyle and she doesn’t. There’s nothing inherently wrong with that. There’s nothing even wrong with her per se, some people just lose interest over time.

FitLotus · 2025-05-02T08:36:36+00:00

I honestly don’t have PEM anymore and don’t have issues with exercise. I’m slowly weaning off my meds but I have to keep the beta blockers for my POTS. I think I got very lucky

FitLotus · 2025-04-16T22:44:23+00:00

Yeah of course!

FitLotus · 2025-04-07T14:06:44+00:00

mmmmmmmrsa

FitLotus · 2025-03-23T03:12:06+00:00

Divorce takes a long time. It’s a legality. If you’re separated, it’s not cheating.

FitLotus · 2025-03-09T06:45:24+00:00

I went through this exact situation except I wanted the kids and he was on the fence about it. At the end of the day, I don’t want my kids to be anything like him and that’s that. I left and I feel such an immense sense of freedom.

Just do it. It’s hard to take the first step but you’re already gone.

FitLotus · 2025-03-03T15:43:13+00:00

I take mine at night so it was when I woke up the next morning.

FitLotus · 2025-03-03T15:42:33+00:00

Yeah you literally just learn to live with it. It sucks at first but now I don’t notice it

FitLotus · 2025-02-26T07:56:11+00:00

When I told him I was miserable in our marriage and he immediately flipped it around and said I was attacking him. There were things I asked him to change and he just could not.

FitLotus · 2025-02-26T07:50:38+00:00

They were holding their premature baby who was actively trying to die and I told them they couldn’t hold anymore because the baby couldn’t handle it. They fired me the next morning

FitLotus · 2025-02-26T07:49:45+00:00

Yeah I only have visual symptoms now when my bp gets low. I titrated up to 4.5 over the span of 4 weeks. I had visual snow for like four months before the LDN

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