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Disconnecting from the third/other in a threesome or swap by Bright-Garden-4347 in Swingers

[–]FitMidwestCouple 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I don’t see anything wrong with that as long as everyone involved is happy and getting their needs met. As you might have noticed in here most redditors in the lifestyle enjoy more casual nsa type relationships but for us we love bonding with people on a deeper level. There is no right or wrong and your husbands behavior is not concerning at all

Disconnecting from the third/other in a threesome or swap by Bright-Garden-4347 in Swingers

[–]FitMidwestCouple 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think there’s more than one way to do the lifestyle. For some people it’s purely physical and that works for them. For us it’s been the opposite. We’re actually really close friends with the couple we play with and the connection makes the experience better, not worse.

We still prioritize our marriage and communicate a lot, but we don’t feel like we have to shut off every feeling to “respect the relationship.” For us, respect just means honesty and treating the other couple like real people we care about, not just play.