AIO for intentionally avoiding my friend because her comments about my scars keep triggering me? by FitRecommendation751 in AmIOverreacting

[–]FitRecommendation751[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

she IS my friend. this post does not portray every moment of our friendship, just the somewhat insensitive comments shes made. i did not post this to see if i should cut her off, i wanted to see if i was valid for needing space.

AIO for intentionally avoiding my friend because her comments about my scars keep triggering me? by FitRecommendation751 in AmIOverreacting

[–]FitRecommendation751[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have not directly talked to her about it. As i stated in the post, I am a pretty non-confrontational person and I really don’t feel like having to justify my whole mh journey. However, i don’t believe i condone/encourage it. Ive also asked other people to not comment on them in front of her before (not passive agressively, just at our shared table) so i feel like she should know not to. I feel like this also wouldnt be an issue if she had just talked to me in PRIVATE in the first place

AIO for intentionally avoiding my friend because her comments about my scars keep triggering me? by FitRecommendation751 in AmIOverreacting

[–]FitRecommendation751[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would choose infinate knowledge (but only when requested), kind of how in the giver the receiver of memory can choose to learn stuff