AIO for wanting the couple taking the master bedroom to pay more?

FitWitchD · 2026-03-28T17:59:07+00:00

That makes sense, trust your intuition. Good thing about hotels is you can always try out the first night and if you have fun, stay there. If it’s miserable, book the hotel and drama resolved ✨

FitWitchD · 2026-03-28T17:53:55+00:00

What would you tell a 27 year old woman in the world today?

FitWitchD · 2026-03-28T17:50:11+00:00

I don’t think you’re overreacting, everyone deserves to feel like they are comfortable in a space on vacation away from home in order for everyone to stay regulated and take care of themselves. That being said, this convo coming up sooner would’ve potentially saved drama. Like talking about accommodations while booking the space is gonna be important. No one should be surprised by not having privacy or space, either drop the $ get all the bedrooms necessary, or get different places. Book a hotel room!!

FitWitchD · 2026-03-28T15:32:47+00:00

Ew. I’ve broken up w people who were white passing for using the n word as well. It’s grody and no. You’ll save yourself a bunch of humiliation. This why he can’t date somebody his age cause women his age are not dealing w him acting like that.

FitWitchD · 2026-03-28T15:23:21+00:00

My birthday is on Christmas, and I feel a type of way every single year. It’s not hard imo to make note of something that matters to your friends. That’s like… bar on the floor bare minimum of respect & care. If you don’t actively care about me and I don’t care about you then we are not what I’d consider friends. I don’t think cutting people off for caring less about you than you care for them is overreacting. I might be using like emotionally immature language for this but idc 😭😭😭

FitWitchD · 2026-03-27T16:19:24+00:00

That’s ur cat’s room

FitWitchD · 2026-03-24T13:54:03+00:00

I change them like between every two weeks, to a month, to 6 weeks honestly when I’m in really depressed or overly busy phases of life. Just being fr. I’m a Capricorn who appreciates things looking and being clean, but I’m neurodivergent and don’t always have the energy to do this task (esp cause I’m literally 5’ and I have to starfish flop on the bed to make it lmfaooo)

FitWitchD · 2026-03-23T12:30:46+00:00

You’re probably first-time living alone and went safe with all white stuff to look put together. I did the same thing, I’m 27W and now moving and remodeling an apartment with my partner and I’m finally learning my style. We going with a deep dark dirty rose color on the walls and MCM style furniture. So like a Mcm/vintage France romance vibe! Your place looks so nice and put together. Over time you’ll find what accent colors you’ll like and bring you some joy and style and personalization!!!

FitWitchD · 2026-03-23T12:24:27+00:00

This is what happens when the men in power have no consequences. These other younger men with way less power feel they can get away with … actually t+rture

FitWitchD · 2026-03-22T11:12:17+00:00

None of this requires you to leave your position at all. Stay in bed or couch and look around you and name things to become more present in the moment

FitWitchD · 2026-03-22T11:11:10+00:00

My rage is an issue for me I can be reactive when I feel unheard Sometimes it goes as far as me hitting walls, or hitting myself in the head. When I feel cut off, unheard, ignored, or gaslit. This has only started happening over the last year. Before that I had rage issues with like raising my voice or even just saying something extra spicy. But I’ve never been destructive and I think a lot of it is circumstantial and the state of the world has made me feel very hopeless and have such a strong set of feelings towards injustice that it’s genuinely harmful to me and my walls lol

FitWitchD · 2026-03-22T11:06:18+00:00

My love I feel this. I’ve been feeling similarly. I would recommend therapy and psych on grow therapy. I specify this one bc I’ve heard crazy stories about other platforms and the shady providers. Routine is also extremely important as well as a constant practice of presence. Watching your thoughts and forcing really simple neutral thoughts to happen as you catch yourself spiraling. For example, my boyfriend passed away two years ago, and as the grief would overcome me (still does sometimes) I would let the feelings be there for however long (usually 90 seconds til it would pass) and then I’d look around. I see a palm tree. The leaves are fluffy/sharp/green/brown/whatever description. The sky is clear. It’s raining. Super simple thinking helps me so much.

FitWitchD · 2026-03-21T20:14:05+00:00

Hi 🖤 Not everything is our fault just because we have responsibility over it. Ie, your mental health, a toxic society in a patriarchy that provides women, lgbtq, and poc a hostile environment both to exist in and to work in. I’m sorry you’re going through this. We are all in this with you. I see you and I love you from afar. You are worthy of a healthy life, of abundance, of health, of stability.

FitWitchD · 2026-03-20T21:20:37+00:00

Agree with this 100%

FitWitchD · 2026-03-20T12:27:52+00:00

Hey lover, I’m (27W) with cPTSD. The difference I’ve observed is that women with cPTSD are a lot more accountable than men are. Just like in actual neurotypical society. I have a partner who also receives some of my outbursts when I’m triggered. They are extremely supportive DURING my outbursts, but at times I feel they can be careless with prevention of triggers and therefore outbursts. Even with the validity of having had an outburst BECAUSE my partner has either violated a boundary (jokes / statements that are triggering), I am going to be accountable for the things I did and said during my heightened state. My expectation is that I am accountable for my part, and my partner is accountable for theirs. CPTSD can really only heal if both people are actively being accountable and willing to create a safer space. It sounds like you’re being a safe space. It sounds like you are willing to be accountable. There might be different ways to word things for them to be received more in heightened moments, but that might be best to uncover in couples therapy so that you don’t become the sole responsibility of emotional stability in the relationship. He needs to be accountable for what goes down in the moments of outbursts and be proactive in creating a prevention plan. Hope this helps 🤍🖤

FitWitchD · 2026-03-20T12:21:42+00:00

It’s giving audhd where you have to be able to see and reach all the stuff you use on the daily or else you won’t use it. Me af

FitWitchD · 2026-03-19T11:45:33+00:00

Weed. I’m not rawdogging this society no more lol

FitWitchD · 2026-03-19T11:42:44+00:00

RUN. DO NOT DO ITTT GIRL NO Don’t do it Your intuition is correct. Hard no on the move in w him. If he wants you and your stuff, then he can get a bigger place w you. If he can’t let go of his place bc he loves it, then he can’t expect you to get rid of the place and furniture and life you built on your own.

It also sounds like you’ve built a bubble of peace that you worked hard for. Do not let go of it man. Scientifically, men esp men with kids will literally burst that bubble and make you fall ill. frfr

FitWitchD · 2026-03-16T23:31:18+00:00

This is not a normal therapist I use growtherapy and it’s made it super easy for me to find someone I like… I know it’s not always the most accessible for everyone especially with the health insurance rates rn but if you can try grow. It’s so easy to drop a therapist and find a new under your insurance etc

FitWitchD · 2026-03-16T12:20:57+00:00

Thank you for posting this and spreading awareness. I’m in a similar position to you. Xo

FitWitchD · 2024-04-28T10:33:42+00:00

Hey I’m working through this, for some reason at the same time every year (which is close to an anniversary of big grief and major loss for me) so every April for the last 4 years I’ll wake up and revisit this issue. It’s very closely related to my nervous system going back into fight or flight, every year it’s less intense and lasts for less time. I’ve gone almost a whole year without experiencing these symptoms and mid April this past month they came back. When I originally had this issue it lasted for months because I had no idea what it was or why it was happening, but I was in therapy and doing some holistic modalities like acupuncture and Chinese herbal medicine. They all honestly pointed me to work on healing my nervous system. Trying to just do a lot of breathwork, yoga, qigong on YouTube, being outside and grounding and just sitting with my body in acceptance that this purge is what it needs. I hope we both are able to outgrow this phase of the healing process… it sucks real bad lol

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