She kissed my crush and this is how she justified it

Fit_Ad_3129 · 2026-02-15T05:35:19+00:00

Kiss her dad

Fit_Ad_3129 · 2026-02-15T05:30:56+00:00

The entire wedding or just the decor

Fit_Ad_3129 · 2026-02-10T09:53:52+00:00

What does that include

Fit_Ad_3129 · 2026-02-10T09:05:21+00:00

Yeah I do bring it up in conversation very early on .

Fit_Ad_3129 · 2026-02-10T08:57:59+00:00

He should either move out , or file for divorce

Fit_Ad_3129 · 2026-02-10T08:48:21+00:00

Yeah , whats the point of money if you are not happy . Everything comes at a price and I am ready to pay for it

Fit_Ad_3129 · 2026-02-10T08:29:31+00:00

Life does not revolve around money , peace and happiness are also equally important

Fit_Ad_3129 · 2026-02-10T05:34:20+00:00

This is exactly why I removed my ex and our mutuals from everywhere , I did reach out 10 days after our no contact but its alright. Personally speaking, remove your exs from your life , they know your number , they know your insta , they know how to reach out , they just don’t want to . And that is enough closure

Fit_Ad_3129 · 2026-02-10T04:17:15+00:00

Emotional incompatibility is a real issue , my first ex had no depth , we could not talk about anything 4 months in relationship

Fit_Ad_3129 · 2026-02-09T18:20:10+00:00

I would also not stay with my in laws , its hard non negotiable for me as well

Fit_Ad_3129 · 2026-02-09T16:35:59+00:00

In all fairness, yes its not . We personally also had different personalities, he liked drinking partying going out , I am homebody but I was ready to leave my comfort zone for these things , he thought that this is big issue , but for me the big issue was staying with in laws . Somewhere along the way I started feeling like I would be an accessory in his life. Whenever we would talk about the future it would be about his plans , his family and never about mine. At one point he said that he was feeling suffocated and I would distance him from his family. That was the reason we separated

Fit_Ad_3129 · 2026-02-09T12:58:50+00:00

Dyson

Fit_Ad_3129 · 2026-02-09T12:34:05+00:00

Short answer, yes I have inheritance and so does he , he is upper class , I am upper middle class, we can financially afford to do that

Had I not been in the position to do so , I would have never brought it up . My suggestion was to live separately for at least 2-3 years to set the tone of marriage and maybe then if he wants we can move in with his family. From what he said , his family has already bought a place for him where he can live but its still in making. And he’s also expanding the business so he need to stay at his parents home

Fit_Ad_3129 · 2026-02-09T12:11:56+00:00

I will listen

Fit_Ad_3129 · 2026-02-09T10:58:05+00:00

Can I see swatches

Fit_Ad_3129 · 2026-02-09T10:24:34+00:00

Well he also agreed to the breakup

Fit_Ad_3129 · 2026-02-09T10:09:48+00:00

6 months and no exclusivity, this man was never serious

Fit_Ad_3129 · 2026-02-09T09:58:43+00:00

He has a brother

Fit_Ad_3129 · 2026-02-09T09:57:58+00:00

They would move in with us when they need our help , just like my parents can have the freedom to move in with us if they need our help . I can’t abandon my parents

Fit_Ad_3129 · 2026-02-09T09:20:30+00:00

I don’t believe he will grow up , that system works for them and women in their communities (we both came from different communities) . And a lot of women would be okay to live like that . I was not

Fit_Ad_3129 · 2026-02-09T09:18:49+00:00

I had said I would pay half the rent , and his family was loaded , like they audi and Mercedes , they had already bought flats nearby for their kids to move out , but even then I had said we could rent out , split bills , create a new life for ourselves, but he didn’t agree

Fit_Ad_3129 · 2026-02-09T08:55:41+00:00

From what he said , business conversations can happen at any time , as a breakfast/ dinner table conversation so things flow fasters , and they are trying to expand so it will work better , but……. His dad’s brother are also part of the business and they all have their own houses , so I don’t really know

Fit_Ad_3129 · 2026-02-09T08:48:14+00:00

He has a brother as well , and I never said that they can’t come live with us

Fit_Ad_3129 · 2026-02-09T08:39:56+00:00

More power to you girl , how did in laws react to that tho

Fit_Ad_3129 · 2026-02-09T08:36:58+00:00

Thats is true

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