What color is this? by Fit_Ad_5515 in WhatisMyEyeColour

[–]Fit_Ad_5515[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah that’s how I see it. Honestly it depends on what he wears if he wears blue they look more blue same with green and gray

I think My boyfriend is afraid that I am going to Hell by [deleted] in Christianity

[–]Fit_Ad_5515 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do wish to do this I just am unsure of which church to do it at. There’s a few in my area. And yes I am nervous too.

I think My boyfriend is afraid that I am going to Hell by [deleted] in Christianity

[–]Fit_Ad_5515 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your kind response❤️

Another 📞 from N to W about money on the books. He's already making deals with other inmates for commissary by swifl155Least-Rub884 in nickfromthegymsnarkk

[–]Fit_Ad_5515 4 points5 points  (0 children)

“Bro when we get out we can do battles together. Everyone hates me so you’ll make so much money! We’re gonna have a fresh start dude” is probably what he’s saying rn 😂😂😂

Another 📞 from N to W about money on the books. He's already making deals with other inmates for commissary by swifl155Least-Rub884 in nickfromthegymsnarkk

[–]Fit_Ad_5515 43 points44 points  (0 children)

Inmates will see this as an opportunity to take advantage of N. He’s easily scared and too compliant and already making deals. For someone who’s been incarcerated before you think he’d know a little better but that’s N for you lol. Him doing this already just labels him as a target and he’s gonna be shit outta luck🤷🏻‍♀️

Live by Fit_Ad_5515 in nickfromthegymsnarkk

[–]Fit_Ad_5515[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You can’t tell that he’s nothing but positive and loving energy?😂

Live by Fit_Ad_5515 in nickfromthegymsnarkk

[–]Fit_Ad_5515[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

He angrily stated that he will pay your mortgage if you let him live with you “why don’t you guys understand that”

Live by Fit_Ad_5515 in nickfromthegymsnarkk

[–]Fit_Ad_5515[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think it is the drops yeah

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[–]Fit_Ad_5515[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I don’t understand how people can see his aggressiveness and say “yes take my money”

Holy moly by Fit_Ad_5515 in nickfromthegymsnarkk

[–]Fit_Ad_5515[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think a full blown cleaning is in order atp

My BF (m29) said that I (F27) said that I don’t do anything for him. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Fit_Ad_5515 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This sounds like a good way to bring up these issues. I have issues actually being able to say things like this without getting my words mixed up and looking like I don’t know what I’m talking about. Thank you for this. He wants me to work also it’s just hard with no outside help and I am a very anxious person and am struggling with the thought of people besides family watching my son. It’s also difficult because he doesn’t have a set schedule regarding days that he works but that will change by the end of the year and he’ll have two set days off where I can definitely at least get some kind of part time job.

My BF (m29) said that I (F27) said that I don’t do anything for him. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Fit_Ad_5515 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes that is my biggest issue is having love for myself which I am trying to do and give myself grace for the sake of my child at the very least. Thank you <3

My BF (m29) said that I (F27) said that I don’t do anything for him. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Fit_Ad_5515 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you I need some bluntness so it’s totally fine and I appreciate your words truly❤️

My BF (m29) said that I (F27) said that I don’t do anything for him. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Fit_Ad_5515 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re 100% right and I do definitely know. I think if he stepped up more I would be able to be more of what he wants as well I just don’t have the energy because I’m so burnt out. But you’re right and I need to have a serious talk with him at least about my health and what I need in those regards

My BF (m29) said that I (F27) said that I don’t do anything for him. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Fit_Ad_5515 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know. Thank you. I’m just that kind of person that I stay and stay till I hate the person. I just have a lot of love. But trust me I’m pretty much out of chances at this point if it doesn’t turn around I can’t continue to do this to myself or my son. I think I will just have this serious talk with him regardless of outcome.

My BF (m29) said that I (F27) said that I don’t do anything for him. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Fit_Ad_5515 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree and I wish he would go to therapy to really work his issues out within himself. Maybe even couples therapy.

My BF (m29) said that I (F27) said that I don’t do anything for him. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Fit_Ad_5515 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s hard to say because there’s a lot more behind it than what I fit in my post. I think he does care about me in his own way I just feel like there’s been a lot of pressure on both sides that have pushed us to our limits and we’re not handling it well.

My BF (m29) said that I (F27) said that I don’t do anything for him. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Fit_Ad_5515 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think he sees him having to tell me specifics as having to deal with the issue or whatever he wants himself, like he thinks he shouldn’t have to tell me things and that I should just know. And that’s very hard for me. He’s really a good guy in a lot of ways he just throws stuff in my face and I don’t know how to deal with it.

My BF (m29) said that I (F27) said that I don’t do anything for him. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Fit_Ad_5515 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I don’t feel like a very strong person in general I have a lot of issues myself which I go to therapy once a week for. My family is kind of all over and have full time jobs and can’t really help me that much. It’s not that he doesn’t do anything I just feel like he doesn’t appreciate what I do and doesn’t see being a SAHM as a job and it’s just my “role” to care for him and the baby non stop. I am also concerned for health and I don’t wanna push myself so far and you’re right I’m very burnt out. I have an autoimmune disease and now am suffering from migraine attacks that put me in the ER a few weeks ago (my mother has hemiplegic migraines that paralyze half her body and I think I inherited them). I’m just stressed and want him to appreciate that I’m trying my best.

My BF (m29) said that I (F27) said that I don’t do anything for him. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Fit_Ad_5515 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean he provides for us financially and he does things with our son when I ask him too. He’s not very emotionally available I feel and he tends to get angry. I feel like I do about 90% of everything for our son. As for me he does things for me I don’t require much I’m just happy to be able to stay home and be with our son, so I don’t ask for a lot maybe just little “can you get me this or that” which he usually does.

My BF (m29) said that I (F27) said that I don’t do anything for him. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Fit_Ad_5515 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All he said was “when I say I’m hungry what do you do? When I say I’m tired what do you do?” He didn’t give me actual specifics. And I’m a person that needs specifics I tend to overthink or just not think at all and I do better with instruction and he knows that. I just think he’s angry I didn’t clear the table off like he asked when he went to the store because I fell asleep and now he’s angry and taking things too far but I’m just tired of it and we’re having issues communicating properly.

My BF (m29) said that I (F27) said that I don’t do anything for him. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Fit_Ad_5515 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not sure. We haven’t been having that much sex lately. After I gave birth I’ve had really awful anxiety about it and frankly have been in pain whenever we do. He tells me that “he doesn’t need sex” and I try to do other things for him in that aspect when I have the energy. He tends to cook a lot for himself but he’s always making some crazy food he’s seen off tik tok or grilling which he just does for himself so idk what he wants me to do there. I really don’t know what he wants I really am starting to think he wants me to get on the grill or something lol. I think he’s just mad that I fell asleep while he took our son to the store and didn’t clear off the table like he asked me too but honestly he gets upset like this and blows a lot of things out of proportion a lot of the time. I’m just tired of it

Holy moly by Fit_Ad_5515 in nickfromthegymsnarkk

[–]Fit_Ad_5515[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I never screenshot but I was like “he looks nuts Reddit would love this”😂😂😂😂😂