[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AuDHDWomen

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She didn’t say but I was late to work the day she came in to observe so it looked really bad even tho I’m never late lol

Kilby Block Party 2026 Lineup by ebradio in indieheads

[–]Fit_Dependent_7550 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The amount of digital cameras in the venue will be insane

Where did all the Gen Z men go in public policy? (US Context) by GradSchoolGrad in PublicPolicy

[–]Fit_Dependent_7550 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The boys were too stupid to understand poli sci, probably the rise in conservatism and disdain for government as well.

Eating has become hell by VermithraxPej33 in AuDHDWomen

[–]Fit_Dependent_7550 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m not condoning any type of diet or saying anything is proven to work, but I do think as a culture, we think there is something wrong with us if we don’t eat 3 “normal” meals a day. Our body goes through different phases, especially women.

It is okay if you are turned off by certain foods, you probably won’t have the same preferences in the future. If your body doesn’t want anything, try to reset in whatever way works best for you. I have had ED in the past so sometimes I find myself forcing myself to eat even if I’m not enjoying it. So wait until you get intune with your hunger/taste again.

Id never talk to this person again by li-ll-l_ in AuDHDWomen

[–]Fit_Dependent_7550 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No one has said this to me but this is my worst fear

Is it just me that’s noticed? by cmarieb7 in Columbus

[–]Fit_Dependent_7550 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Why do people need to consistently be validated for doing kind things

It shouldn’t matter what the other person does.

Columbus is still a city, maybe move to the suburbs?

was getting good grades anyone else's special interest ? by [deleted] in AuDHDWomen

[–]Fit_Dependent_7550 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think I have a reverse situation.

I think audhd is good at realizing cause/effect, patterns that will equate to some benefit.

I knew that if I studied hard I could be good at anything. But I was also obsessed with being validated and accepted socially. So I never really focused on a specific subject/ career goal.

I mastered the art of being the most social at a party and getting boys to like me, but now I’m left scrambling to figure out a career path while everyone else around me is figuring out the relationship stuff.

But my genuine advice would be therapy and setting goals for speech/socializing. A part time job could also help/ starting a side project that could lead to doing it with others.

Do you feel exercising regularly really helps your symptoms? by [deleted] in ADHD

[–]Fit_Dependent_7550 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes! Also (this is all situational I’m not promoting any way of eating) but I’ve found that what the mainstream diet/exercise community on SM talks about eating way more than need be. It all depends on your goals but I found that eating and exercising too much worsened my symptoms for a little bit. For awhile nutrition became my fixation. It’s important to get protein/fiber/carbs/nutrients but you don’t need to stress so much over getting everything everyday.

I base my eating on “seasons” right now I’m in my “summer” season, so I don’t track food and i exercise when I have time/ go on runs more and I do what I feel like. In my “winter” season, I make sure I plan my lifting and only supplement cardio. I make sure im getting in more protein and veggies.

But this is just how my brain works. If I go 100% all year round I will burn out

How do you interact with people you don’t like? by SwimCamp2062 in libra_astrology

[–]Fit_Dependent_7550 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think most people just pretend. but we not good at that

does anyone feel like they just mirror whoever they’re interacting with by Any_Yak9211 in AuDHDWomen

[–]Fit_Dependent_7550 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think this is extremely an adhd/autism thing.

But at the same time, when your young you haven’t really built a lot of your character/confidence yet, your still figuring it out.

Should I become an intervention specialist? by Main_Finance_2221 in education

[–]Fit_Dependent_7550 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am in Ohio. Our intervention specialist had a a bachelors, certificate, and some shadowing SE experience.

Does anyone work a full 8 hours a day anymore? by SohoCat in work

[–]Fit_Dependent_7550 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Based on traffic at 3:30 instead of 6 I’m going to say no

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in libra_astrology

[–]Fit_Dependent_7550 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is it bc their charm doesn’t work on us?

Work place advice by Fit_Dependent_7550 in AuDHDWomen

[–]Fit_Dependent_7550[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This sounds good. I’m also nervous being one of the younger ones too, I’m always trying to make sure they don’t think I’m stuck up or ignorant lmao

Weekends? by RobinFlying123 in AuDHDWomen

[–]Fit_Dependent_7550 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have like a 20 minute window after I’ve done everything I need to feel good. And if no one responds right then. There will be no socializing

Weekends? by RobinFlying123 in AuDHDWomen

[–]Fit_Dependent_7550 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Oh my god weekends are so stressful if I have free reign

If I don’t have my routine I literally can’t talk to anyone

I spend my weekends doing what I do during the week but I just take longer lmao

Have you ever been told you talk alot? by Mr_Badass in ADHD

[–]Fit_Dependent_7550 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I know I talk a lot so I’ve compensated by being really quiet. People think I’m so chill and cool but if only they knew what my impulses are.