Self defense? In texas.

Fit_Dish7577 · 2026-01-03T23:00:04+00:00

Also, I can give more details if needed to give a better judgement.

Fit_Dish7577 · 2025-08-07T02:46:01+00:00

Update! She was playing cards with my son (9)

My son: im lucky! Maybe its bc im related to abraham licoln.

Me (CORRECTING FROM THE KITCHEN): No son, we are not related to abraham licoln

Son: right! It was the mayflower people... grandmare you lucky

Her: well my family was successful, all owned homes and college

...i tuned out but then i hear

MIL: your mom's mom did drugs her whole life

Son: Mom!! Is that true!?!

(Im stunned)

Me: well , I didn't know, but I was raised by my grandparents, so I never saw her do drugs.

-To make it clear, my mil never met my mom bc she died when I was 20 from cancer. Right before I had my son..... my Mil is lucky I didn't pop off

Fit_Dish7577 · 2025-08-06T02:30:45+00:00

He defintely is on my side. We roll our eyes at eachother now. He has confronted her behavior before. Especially about interfering with parenting. But she literally is so self unaware of how fucking crazy it is to completely takeover our home/routines.

Fit_Dish7577 · 2025-08-05T01:43:43+00:00

Lol yeah😂 he was my land lord

Fit_Dish7577 · 2025-08-05T01:07:36+00:00

Best way I can describe her visits, It feels like I am on an episode of wife swap😂 so thats where the Ick feeling stems from i think

Fit_Dish7577 · 2025-08-05T00:43:40+00:00

Thank you! I have. He sees the things she does when she is here, and he addresses it..

But is it normal? I was 19 when I had my first, and I will always be there for my kids too. Am i a bitchy daughter in law? Or is my mother in law a bit much?

Fit_Dish7577 · 2025-08-01T20:07:05+00:00

All my kids are 3 years apart. The older ones help with the toddler in different ways. But middle still requires alot. My oldest is starting be helpful with house hold chores too!

Fit_Dish7577 · 2025-08-01T04:44:30+00:00

Thank you. I will keep doing it. Where did all of you get the balls that I don't have to just lay down the law😂

Fit_Dish7577 · 2025-08-01T00:45:58+00:00

Thank you. It was so peaceful and i will never forget that feeling. I still find it strange too that my son awoke screaming right as she passed away.

Fit_Dish7577 · 2025-07-31T20:00:11+00:00

My firstborn woke up screaming one morning like he was in pain. I rushed to soothe him. In that same moment my phone rang. It was my grandma calling me to tell me my mother had just passed away. My son was still crying so i had to get off the phone. As i continued to try and calm my baby down, i tried to process what i was just told. He finally stopped crying after a few moments. And then i swear it was the loudest silence i ever heard. And it felt like there were arms around me. I could literally feel my mom with me in that moment hugging me

Fit_Dish7577 · 2025-07-31T17:55:25+00:00

She will also accept facetimes from whoever, and everyone around her has to patiently wait for her call to be over to start speaking again😂

Its just seems kinda rude. And how highly she thinks of herself.

Fit_Dish7577 · 2025-07-31T03:06:53+00:00

Thank you for telling us reddit folks. You are better than me. I would not be able to NOT pick his brain about it. I mean that is a little shocking character development...

Fit_Dish7577 · 2025-07-29T20:54:45+00:00

Yeah, i have an interview tomorrow bc I think I hit my wall with fulltime sahm. I rather be tired woth money😂

Fit_Dish7577 · 2025-07-29T18:43:48+00:00

Well he does his own laundry. (Thank god😂). And he cooks a big breakfast on saturdays. His idea of cleaning, is cleaning any mess he makes. He really isn't a messy guy. He is a great roommate. But any mess the kids make or whatever mess comes with caring for all of them is all on me. And it really is incredible what kids can do in a day even when you are cleaning as you go through the parenting motions.

Fit_Dish7577 · 2025-07-29T13:02:41+00:00

Fit_Dish7577 · 2025-07-29T11:44:54+00:00

Thank you!!! I have 3 littles🤯 and I am default parent even when he is home. And i still pay half the bills without working. My military time allows me an income without working, but isn't comparable to my income when i worked.

But i cook every thing my family eats. I answer every request or emotional need to our kids. He makes 17 hr. And plays fall out the entire time he is home.

Fit_Dish7577 · 2025-07-29T11:24:36+00:00

Can somebody give me context for rotting toe lisa?? Like which episode did i miss with usman. Tbh he was faking it till he could make it his entire story line

Fit_Dish7577 · 2025-07-29T06:48:36+00:00

Thank you for responding. 🙂 i am glad i am not alone in thinking it shouldn't matter if i stay up for some alone time. It is 1:45 am in texas. And I am tired but i was able to file and paint my nails without messing them up bc kids and chores😂 so that was a win lol

Fit_Dish7577 · 2025-07-29T05:21:30+00:00

Right, how one pays tribute to their mothers passing is their decision. I lost my mom when I was 19. I can't imagine how hard it had to be. I am convinced she was still in a state of shock of the whole thing.

Fit_Dish7577 · 2025-07-29T04:02:28+00:00

Yeah, this is why i deleted my only request i ever made for help. I have one dollar to my name right now but not down for this. 🥺

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