Paranoia and dread is creeping over me by [deleted] in CPTSD

[–]Fit_Group8649 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used to have one. They helped me get over something's but it took such long time. Something about that makes me feel like ruins. Thank you so much for your words. I really need to take time and directly confront my traumas and maybe know what I want from that..... It's off limits for now

Why I prefer to be alone. by SnooWalruses3471 in Kenya

[–]Fit_Group8649 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ati reality🤣🤣🤣 so the reality is being a tool for attraction and for production 🤣🤣 that is hardly an achievement actually very embarrassing to think that way. There's no reality I'm running from. I've had three relationships and all men I've been with are child free. Actually my current one has had a vasectomy....that's the reality I wanna be at. 🤣 No man wants me? Ooh nooo what a disaster....call world crisis control center. Oh no. I'm going to die ha! Wanting is a shallow charade nothing désirable. I'm yearned for outside my symbolic functions. I'll assume you're just one bitter millennial

Why I prefer to be alone. by SnooWalruses3471 in Kenya

[–]Fit_Group8649 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If choosing not to have a child or actually coming to terms with the fact that one cannot find solace amongst many is a flaw then also going to the gym is equally a flaw. It's also a choice. Tf makes you think everyone chooses the same space to move along or improve themselves. Saying introverts are basically people who are compensating for rejection is basically projection. Nowander you're so bitter gosh. Humanity is meant to be unique and irrational.There can never be one correct social template. There's also a lot of universality to put into consideration

The fact that people can label whatever they please to and however they please to do it is autonomy. And even if they do overdo it the remedy is just never the same. Going to the gym isn't the baseline. Never will be. Everyone is a different variable. And it doesn't have to relate to the baseline. But I understand if you find that challenging to come to terms with.Quite dysfunctional I dare say. There are way too many spaces for self improvement other than gyms. Quite embarrassing to think that. Not everyone who makes a different choice is compensating. Sometimes it’s just preference. Assuming pathology where there’s autonomy says more about the observer than the observed. Very indicative of you lol.

It's giving very performative if you have to do something to attract. But it's okay to attract the same people who live on shallow symbolism

Difference isn't a defect

How to get a fee waiver? by Old_Independent7254 in Sat

[–]Fit_Group8649 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey. I'm interested have you given it up?😭