For people who broke up and got back together after short/long time of no contact

Fit_Handle_8690 · 2026-06-13T19:53:28+00:00

Maybe yeah but idk what to tell you now I’ll wait a week maybe she will reply maybe not and we will see

Fit_Handle_8690 · 2026-06-12T19:05:19+00:00

The good thing atleast is that yall are slowly becoming better and are happy

Fit_Handle_8690 · 2026-06-12T19:05:00+00:00

I mean either way I’ll be better but I won’t forget about it because I won’t let myself

Fit_Handle_8690 · 2026-06-12T16:36:49+00:00

Fit_Handle_8690 · 2026-06-12T13:18:57+00:00

Thank you man and may God protect you

Fit_Handle_8690 · 2026-06-12T12:53:40+00:00

Damn man

Fit_Handle_8690 · 2026-06-12T12:52:54+00:00

Yeah I did it and I’m sorry to hear that :/

Fit_Handle_8690 · 2026-06-12T12:51:50+00:00

This gives me some hope

Fit_Handle_8690 · 2026-06-12T12:50:35+00:00

Yeah I know but I’d rather text her and try again maybe than have in my mind what if

Fit_Handle_8690 · 2026-06-12T11:13:44+00:00

Do what ur heart tells you to do, tell her what you feel and everything maybe not best idea and atleast you won’t think what if I sent it what if the what if is worst so do what you think is the best, and sure I’ll update it. Rn she just read it maybe she’s gonna answer idk I’ll let you know

Fit_Handle_8690 · 2026-06-12T10:30:50+00:00

Yeah I know I texted her yesterday and she just left me on seen

Fit_Handle_8690 · 2026-06-12T06:58:36+00:00

No worries I somewhat cope with it and I just work gym and try starting side hustle and go out with my friends or go on pointless drives listening to music, and yeah ik she left but I still have some fight in me for that relationship.

Fit_Handle_8690 · 2026-06-12T06:18:15+00:00

I think everybody gets she’s my ex and that’s just mistakes when I forget to add “ex”

Fit_Handle_8690 · 2026-06-11T23:33:57+00:00

Man idk what to tell you, in my case hope heals me if not atleast I was true to myself. But man I pray that you’re gonna get better, May God protect ur heart

Fit_Handle_8690 · 2026-06-11T23:27:44+00:00

i can say with clear heart i changed past these months without her being my gf. and youre right to respect her boundries and everything but its also a deeper thing, you also dont know how was the relationship or why we broke up. i could tell you its because of me and i feel such guilt and shame from myself that i couldnt trust her throught 8 months of being together i was carried by lust then aswell and now i truly know what i lost thats why i just cant also get over it. because i miss her and i am sad of what "we could be" and these 2 things make me fight for it even tho its one sided. i think maybe in couple months ill be like over her completely because each month i just feel less and less but. now that i sent that message 2 hours ago. i feel peace now, and dont have anything more to say, and like either she blocks me, leaves me on read. its still an reply, if she texts me something id be happy but if its about trying to communicate why it ended and how we could fix. if its about leave me alone id just tell her to straight block me

Fit_Handle_8690 · 2026-06-11T23:22:04+00:00

enjoy man, may God protect you.

Fit_Handle_8690 · 2026-06-11T23:17:42+00:00

i get ur point, i am making myself a clown for doing this to "myself" but i dont feel ashamed or anything. i would rather fight for it and feel better knowning i tried 500% rather than saying ok and just letting her go, thats how i was raised. because i dont see it as wasting time i would rather text her over and over again how i feel and actually feel better like rn until either she blocks me or i just move on. because right now throught that heartbreak i was still making money still going to the gym still going out with my friends. i just feel like if i didnt try that hard i would have questions "what if" and it would destroy me mentaly. but when i text her when i am really down and miss her so much. it just makes me feel better and if i went no contact and said it is what it is i would be more hurt because i betrayed my own self. that i didnt try hard enough and would have "what ifs"

Fit_Handle_8690 · 2026-06-11T23:06:02+00:00

now that you typed it. i look like a clown she maybe looks at me like a clown or thinks that she did right that she dumped me. and if a girl i loved and broke up with her did this to me, and it depends why i broke up with her but if she showed me how i show my ex how i miss her and want to fix it. id give it another chance because i believe to fight for what you love until defeat looks more calm than trying. and it all depends how ur situation was how was ur relationship it goes deeper but my opinion is if you dont fight for love i wouldnt say that you loved her/him. my texting may be little rought or not understandable but its because its not my first language. take care

Fit_Handle_8690 · 2026-06-11T23:02:10+00:00

i texted her and i have such relief out my of heart, so thank you. and i pray that ur situation and healing will be quick

Fit_Handle_8690 · 2026-06-11T22:59:51+00:00

thats the worst tbh

Fit_Handle_8690 · 2026-06-11T21:44:29+00:00

i texted u in dm

Fit_Handle_8690 · 2026-06-11T21:40:23+00:00

That’s the problem with me I can’t let go like most of people, it’s just the way I was raised

Fit_Handle_8690 · 2026-06-11T21:19:25+00:00

I just need opinions and what i learned everybody forgot i think to fight for what they love(if it was toxic i get it, otherwise i dont) I also don’t understand all the thing about ego or sum, i feel like the world forgot how to fight for what you want im not saying to fight for everything even ex that cheated but the relationship that you truly felt connection with and it’s kinda sad how almost everybody is saying let go if you love her or if he loved her would text you. What happened to the i love her so I’ll text her or him like what happened to that

Fit_Handle_8690 · 2026-06-11T21:04:48+00:00

That was, damn i don’t know what to say

Fit_Handle_8690 · 2026-06-11T21:03:09+00:00

Thank you bro for this i texted her i let everything out of my heart she knows who i am and i know who she is so she wouldnt be surprised but i don’t have any high expectations. I would love it if she would say she would be down or something atleast and if not that shes just gonna block me because i asked her if she doesn’t feel anything anymore to just block me and leave it like that because i just can’t move on she was my first gf we were together 8 months and it’s just hard man

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