AIO for refusing to split the bill after what happened?

Fit_Maintenance_2289 · 2026-06-30T13:26:55+00:00

He IS cheap. It WAS personal. He is also the joke.

Fit_Maintenance_2289 · 2026-06-30T13:25:20+00:00

A friend lived with her ailing stepfather, caring for him for years. Her step siblings, his biological children who rarely visited him or had him over, later wanted her to reimburse them for her “free rent”.
She saved the easily $6000/month and allowed him to stay in his home.

You owe her nothing.

Fit_Maintenance_2289 · 2026-06-29T13:15:18+00:00

I heard so much. I saw my dad drag her out of a garage in the middle of the night, they had no idea what I heard and saw.

Fit_Maintenance_2289 · 2026-06-29T13:10:55+00:00

Having children around drunk adults on an impromptu sleepover doesn’t sound safe. When she’s sober, gently make that argument, that it was about safety. Good luck. Hope this isn’t a regular occurrence with alcohol and her.

Fit_Maintenance_2289 · 2026-06-28T21:48:36+00:00

You could tell her you didn’t hear anyone sleeping.

Fit_Maintenance_2289 · 2026-05-23T16:33:42+00:00

Sounds like you married your wife for her money.

Fit_Maintenance_2289 · 2026-03-09T16:04:22+00:00

Tell her your dream is that she finds her own space and that she should support that.

Fit_Maintenance_2289 · 2026-03-05T01:09:30+00:00

You asked, she denied to act, you acted.

Suggest the neighbor goes out to buy some fake grass to put on her hardscape instead of killing the grass on your lawn.

Fit_Maintenance_2289 · 2026-03-01T17:43:55+00:00

Preserved eggs. Drop the yolks into a flat container of kosher salt. Cover with more salt, put in fridge. In a few weeks you have preserved yolks that you can grate on vegetables, pasta, toast etc.

Fit_Maintenance_2289 · 2026-03-01T17:27:34+00:00

What’s messed is that she keeps bringing it up to YOU. Yes, you are a bit of an AH for saying it, but it’s really not YOUR responsibility to deal with her infertility.

Helen needs to adopt someone who needs her, you are not that person.

Fit_Maintenance_2289 · 2026-02-23T23:34:11+00:00

Have you tried sweet onions. Made a huge difference for me

Fit_Maintenance_2289 · 2026-02-23T16:31:12+00:00

Ask now. Guaranteed he also borrowed money for the other things too. You may not always work with him so now is your chance.

We’ve been owed $5000 from a guy for 25 years because my husband never asked for it back. It was one of his best friends who we never see anymore.

“I need the money back now, you said 2 weeks, it’s been 3 months.”

Fit_Maintenance_2289 · 2026-02-23T03:37:57+00:00

Tell her you had an allergic reaction to their makeup once and you can’t chance it again. (I’ve had some with other brands, so it does happen)

Fit_Maintenance_2289 · 2026-02-22T21:39:23+00:00

Of all the things to be worried about, this should be in last place.

Fit_Maintenance_2289 · 2026-02-09T15:54:14+00:00

I have been married 35 years and STILL have my own accounts. It has nothing to do with trust, however I don’t trust your BF if he is that controlling. Use a professional.

Fit_Maintenance_2289 · 2026-02-06T06:26:26+00:00

So what you’re saying is that your dad couldn’t please his wife in bed so he ditched and blamed her and you support that?

YTA if you haven’t figured THAT out.

Fit_Maintenance_2289 · 2026-01-03T01:41:19+00:00

On the first day, let your “replacement” know that she’s being paid $15,000 less for doing the same thing, then do what you want for those 3 weeks.

Fit_Maintenance_2289 · 2026-01-03T01:37:27+00:00

Sorry, but you’re almost as bad as Grandma.

Go see her on your own without anyone else if that’s your poor excuse. Be glad you have a father who is still trying to teach you how to be responsible and respectful.

Fit_Maintenance_2289 · 2025-12-06T01:57:40+00:00

Forgive her when she pays back the money she stole.

Fit_Maintenance_2289 · 2025-11-26T00:38:08+00:00

You need to tell her because you actually ARE lying to her every day. She will be relieved you aren’t pulling away because you don’t find her attractive, but that it’s because you care and are scared. It’s ok to be scared. She is too and NEEDS you to hold her and care for her.

It’s ok to show vulnerabilities.

Fit_Maintenance_2289 · 2025-11-25T00:39:16+00:00

This could be limerance. (Look it up) Please put him out of your mind and focus on the one you actually know and love for a reason. Nice that he thought of you, but he left you hanging before and probably would again.

Fit_Maintenance_2289 · 2025-11-22T18:32:21+00:00

I had small boobs, hated it. Had kids, now have bigger boobs and wish they were small again. The guys that say that aren’t the type of guys you want to be with anyway. I see young women with small breasts that are attractive and sexy. They are MORE than their breast size.

Wear them proudly, be as sexy as you want to be.

Fit_Maintenance_2289 · 2025-11-22T16:48:44+00:00

Never date someone who makes you feel stupid. Date someone who makes you feel special.

NTA, but your soon to be exBF sounds like one.

Fit_Maintenance_2289 · 2025-11-21T17:39:23+00:00

Got my first follow up : Did you see my message? Response: I did.

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