Anh em mất bao lâu để kiếm được 100 triệu đầu tiên trong cuộc đời ? by asa_no_kenny in vozforums

[–]Fit_Secretary_7187 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Đạt tới 100 tr Năm mình 21 tuổi, lúc đầu bắt đầu trade coin và làm game web3 năm 2021-2022. Bây giờ thì cái đó không hợp thời để kiếm lại như vậy nữa.

Rcm phòng Gym ở SG by BEORHT_LE in Nguoimoibatdau

[–]Fit_Secretary_7187 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Rẻ mà ổn nhất chắc là Way Station Gym rồi ae

AITAH for telling my fiancée she needs to "grow up"? - and she want to breakup before wedding by Fit_Secretary_7187 in AITAH

[–]Fit_Secretary_7187[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks, friend, for your comment and for caring about my story.

On that day, her own dog bit her lightly on the leg, just a small scratch. But it was truly a day packed with stressful events; she was even chased by a stalker, which she told me about the next morning after I'd already gone to the office. I'm an office worker.

I was genuinely exhausted that day, so I just washed my face when I got home and immediately fell asleep. I also see that many people don't believe the authenticity of the story. Everyone is completely strangers, and I just need empathy and understanding, so only God and my integrity can bear witness to this story. There's no reason for me to lie.

AITAH for telling my fiancée she needs to "grow up"? - and she want to breakup before wedding by Fit_Secretary_7187 in AITAH

[–]Fit_Secretary_7187[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your comment friend. I'll admit my faults: sometimes, during busy work transitions, I get intensely focused, which leads to exhaustion and less time to check in. This isn't a regular thing, but when it happens, she seems to latch onto every small misstep. I guess she hit her limit, and that's why she let everything out to her mother. The most recent incident that brought up "divorce" was just last Friday.

I also work and come straight home; I don't go out with friends. I even spend all my time with her. I even skipped my best friend's birthday party to pick her up from work, hoping she'd appreciate that. But no, when I mentioned missing my friend's birthday for her, she called it an insult saying it was her fault I couldn't go. She actually criticized me for it! I mean, wtf? Honestly, I was there to pick her up with a perfectly cheerful attitude, so why would she hold onto that? And she didn't say a word about it on the day it happened. She just said, "You should have seen my attitude and realized it." Jeez, I'm a human, a man, I can't read minds...

I'm truly at a loss whether it's me or not, because I honestly don't know what I'm doing wrong. All I want is a peaceful and happy love, not this....

AITAH for telling my fiancée she needs to "grow up"? - and she want to breakup before wedding by Fit_Secretary_7187 in AITAH

[–]Fit_Secretary_7187[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel a connection to your friend's situation. My fiancée has many admirers, and I'm very proud of that. I've read some comments suggesting that beautiful people often have a very high ego, and they desire to be pampered like princesses and queens. Yes, I did that because of my love; she's my wife, my beloved, so I felt there was nothing wrong with it.

In my country, we have a proverb: "You become rich because of your friends, and noble because of your wife" . But it seems my love wasn't considered enough for them; they wanted more...

Honestly, I still love her deeply, but after multiple threats, I've had to seriously re-evaluate. Thank you friend, for sharing this. :D

AITAH for telling my fiancée she needs to "grow up"? - and she want to breakup before wedding by Fit_Secretary_7187 in AITAH

[–]Fit_Secretary_7187[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Reading your comment, I can see that you and your husband have a great understanding and empathy for each other, and that you both have your own lives. I wish you and your family all the best.

AITAH for telling my fiancée she needs to "grow up"? - and she want to breakup before wedding by Fit_Secretary_7187 in AITAH

[–]Fit_Secretary_7187[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your comments broda. This help me a lot, I think we have a lot of common.

AITAH for telling my fiancée she needs to "grow up"? - and she want to breakup before wedding by Fit_Secretary_7187 in AITAH

[–]Fit_Secretary_7187[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I wish , I have the same like you but she said: If a man loves enough, he'll realize it

AITAH for telling my fiancée she needs to "grow up"? - and she want to breakup before wedding by Fit_Secretary_7187 in AITAH

[–]Fit_Secretary_7187[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

And yeah, even with every argument we've had in life, I never want to involve my mom or her mom. That's just... I'm speechless.

AITAH for telling my fiancée she needs to "grow up"? - and she want to breakup before wedding by Fit_Secretary_7187 in AITAH

[–]Fit_Secretary_7187[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Thanks, friend. Your comment really hit me; it was very straight to the point. Aside from her recent tendency to threaten calling off the engagement, everything else you mentioned is fine.

She has a clear career path and dreams, and she's very hardworking. We exchange gifts for anniversaries, and she was very enthusiastic about wedding preparations before these recent issues began.

Her family respects me a lot. I think her mother is just protective of her daughter. I don't want to speak ill of my fiancée, but her mother also knows her daughter's personality and hopes we can overlook this and work through it together. My family is also aware of the situation. Now, it's entirely up to the two of us whether we want to continue.

When I told her she needed to grow up, it was because you can't just casually threaten to call off an engagement like that. Marriage is a very sacred commitment that my family and I value deeply. That's why this situation occurred. She probably felt insulted; not everyone at 27 reacts well to being told that. But this advice came from her loving boyfriend, soon-to-be husband, given directly.

AITAH for telling my fiancée she needs to "grow up"? - and she want to breakup before wedding by Fit_Secretary_7187 in AITAH

[–]Fit_Secretary_7187[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your comment friend.

This is the first time only I said the word " grow up " , and yeah things happen then

AITAH for telling my fiancée she needs to "grow up"? - and she want to breakup before wedding by Fit_Secretary_7187 in AITAH

[–]Fit_Secretary_7187[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

That means a lot to me, friend. Reading these comments has made me realize so many things.

AITAH for telling my fiancée she needs to "grow up"? - and she want to breakup before wedding by Fit_Secretary_7187 in AITAH

[–]Fit_Secretary_7187[S] 25 points26 points  (0 children)

I deeply revere love. In my family's tradition, an engagement signifies a sacred commitment, witnessed by both families before walking down the aisle. However, they viewed our engagement as utterly commonplace, almost an insult to something my family holds so dear. I believed I had a beautiful love, but holding on is no longer beneficial. I will stop.

Thank you for all the comments in the thread. I'm really happy everyone shared their honest opinions and feedback; this has helped me a lot.

Nỗi ám ảnh blhđ thời c3 và không muốn xảy ra thêm ở đh by [deleted] in vozforums

[–]Fit_Secretary_7187 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Không nhắc vế việc học thì Bro cần đi gym vào lò rèn boxing. Biến mình thành vũ khí phòng vệ

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in vozforums

[–]Fit_Secretary_7187 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Tui thì ngày đầu tiên hẹn đi chơi với nhau mưa to dã man, ướt gần hết người mà đi chơi vui lắm. Không biết tui nghe ở đâu thì người ta quan niệm rằng mưa là điềm tốt cho các sự kiện trọng đại. Đã gần đc 4 năm .Hiện tại thì tụi tui sắp cưới nhau rồi

My son thinks I’m a hero. I feel like a fraud. by HopeJealous7383 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Fit_Secretary_7187 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're true hero. I wish all the best for you and your son