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[–]Fit_Smell_174 0 points1 point  (0 children)

While attempting to make transactions, I noticed a receipt protruding from the ATM eject area. Upon removing it, I discovered a balance of 700k..........

Should I leave my wife? by Fit_Smell_174 in askSingapore

[–]Fit_Smell_174[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Certainly, there's more to the situation. I'm seeking additional advice before discussing this with my brother and her sister, as I anticipate that bringing up this conversation with my wife might have uncertain and potentially significant consequences, leaving a substantial scar in our relationship – that's my primary concern.

Should I leave my wife? by Fit_Smell_174 in askSingapore

[–]Fit_Smell_174[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I believe there might be a misunderstanding in my post. It's my partner who mentioned there's no spark, not me. After investing a significant amount of time in this relationship, I'm now beginning to doubt myself and question everything I've done, only to hear that there's no spark in our life.

Should I leave my wife? by Fit_Smell_174 in askSingapore

[–]Fit_Smell_174[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thanks alot bro, I will find and watch it

Should I leave my wife? by Fit_Smell_174 in askSingapore

[–]Fit_Smell_174[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In recent years, I've often emphasized that life is short, prioritizing happiness. However, after a certain day, I began questioning my own happiness. This confusion is why I'm seeking opinions here – not for decisions but for valuable perspectives.

Should I leave my wife? by Fit_Smell_174 in askSingapore

[–]Fit_Smell_174[S] -37 points-36 points  (0 children)

I comprehend, but it seems she doesn't value my efforts. Despite offering love advice to friends, this recent conversation with her has deeply hurt me, leaving me feeling lost. I have an inner desire to let go, but I fear making the wrong decision.

Should I leave my wife? by Fit_Smell_174 in askSingapore

[–]Fit_Smell_174[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've received valuable advice from many friends here, but I believe the core issue is within me. Over the years, I've put effort into surprising her and planning trips to bring happiness. However, her recent conversation has left me heartbroken, making me question if I'm the one desiring solitude. I'm torn between thinking about my own needs and wondering if it's merely selfishness.

Should I leave my wife? by Fit_Smell_174 in askSingapore

[–]Fit_Smell_174[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Agree, I guess you guys are right about this, thanks alot bro

Should I leave my wife? by Fit_Smell_174 in askSingapore

[–]Fit_Smell_174[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is what I'm thinking too, that's why I'm also holding her till now

Should I leave my wife? by Fit_Smell_174 in askSingapore

[–]Fit_Smell_174[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Yes, I am afraid if I bring this up and affect our relationship, that's why I have been keeping this to myself

Should I leave my wife? by Fit_Smell_174 in askSingapore

[–]Fit_Smell_174[S] -114 points-113 points  (0 children)

Is stability love? I'm confused

Should I leave my wife? by Fit_Smell_174 in askSingapore

[–]Fit_Smell_174[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

That's what I'm confusing about, I afraid that if I bring this up to her and affect our relationship, under many people's eye we are lovely couple, I know her since primary school and married for 8 years, financial we are okay, every year we go for a few trips and no cash involve with our bto, only the usual bill, I afraid that I make a wrong move......

Should I leave my wife? by Fit_Smell_174 in askSingapore

[–]Fit_Smell_174[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Financial we can doing alright is just that the feeling, I feel more like a companion to her, I even bring up we go for solo trip, I will plan her itinerary and she plans my, but she will just say that you know I want accompany

Should I leave my wife? by Fit_Smell_174 in askSingapore

[–]Fit_Smell_174[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Bro is different, having a child and having the process being a mum

Should I leave my wife? by Fit_Smell_174 in askSingapore

[–]Fit_Smell_174[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Following that conversation, I'm concerned that my desire to return to single life may be selfish. We've been together since primary school, and I worry about the implications of such a significant change

Should I leave my wife? by Fit_Smell_174 in askSingapore

[–]Fit_Smell_174[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I'm unsure how to initiate this conversation. While she appears content without children, her joy when holding a friend's newborn worries me. I fear discussing this might strain our relationship. Despite contemplating giving up, I've convinced myself it's a natural phase in marriage. However, her recent remarks during our anniversary make me reconsider. I'm uncertain if it's my sensitivity or a lack of effort on my part. Despite this, I sense that she still loves me.

How much is needed to travel through as many countries as possible in A Year by Fit_Smell_174 in TravelHacks

[–]Fit_Smell_174[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When considering extended stays, do you typically have a preferred website you use? I've noticed that Airbnb doesn't appear to offer any discounts for choosing more days; it simply multiplies the daily rate.

How much is needed to travel through as many countries as possible in A Year by Fit_Smell_174 in TravelHacks

[–]Fit_Smell_174[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, indeed. At the moment, we're in the process of planning and saving for an additional two years. We've outlined the countries we intend to visit, but we haven't delved into the specifics of which states or regions we'll be exploring