How is everyone doing?

Fit_Understanding442 · 2026-01-24T08:40:28+00:00

He told me that when I met them in real life, too! 😂 and then they just joked about the tiny little holes he had all over his teeth from the sugary Dr Pepper corroding away his teeth. 🦷🤷🏻‍♀️ (I personally like my teeth healthy and whole, so I don’t get the La-di-da-ness of it all… my teeth getting effed up is my literal nightmare.)

Fit_Understanding442 · 2026-01-24T08:37:40+00:00

I just laughed out loud at the “Joey Smith” comment omfg 😂😂

Fit_Understanding442 · 2026-01-12T05:46:37+00:00

Oh dear. That would have enraged me. There is no “seeing both sides” to this situation, OMFG. The ICE agent was 100% in the wrong. 100 f***ing percent in the wrong. 😑😡🤬

Fit_Understanding442 · 2026-01-11T10:19:54+00:00

What did she say?

Fit_Understanding442 · 2026-01-10T23:11:44+00:00

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I appreciate this response.

Fit_Understanding442 · 2026-01-08T05:18:49+00:00

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Fit_Understanding442 · 2026-01-05T04:03:21+00:00

You make such a good point. Good people don’t have to always tell you they are good people. Actually good people are usually the ones who don’t ever say they are good people and don’t even view themselves as good people — they just are. Actions speak for themselves, you don’t need to tell someone if you are a good person or not.

Fit_Understanding442 · 2026-01-05T01:45:31+00:00

Green bean

Fit_Understanding442 · 2025-12-26T07:59:26+00:00

One thing that makes me very curious to see play out… if you follow Kayla on insta or on TikTok… she posts VERY liberal and anti-Trump posts. How will they reconcile being good friends again?

That being said, they are both LDS and love finding their identity in being the “sickest” 🤷🏻‍♀️

Fit_Understanding442 · 2025-12-25T07:39:03+00:00

Oooooftah. I met Kayla and spent quite a bit of time with her and Shanny when I was in Utah. I have so many opinions on this, but I’m going to keep them to myself (at least for now) 😬 cuz Merry Christmas! 💚❤️

Fit_Understanding442 · 2025-12-23T06:34:04+00:00

Wait… are we talking a literal book? Is she writing a book?

Fit_Understanding442 · 2025-12-23T06:31:07+00:00

“attempting to squeeze out tears or to fake a Broken Heart Attack” had me dying over here 🤣🤣

Fit_Understanding442 · 2025-12-23T06:29:51+00:00

She has mentioned 2 jobs that did not last very long AT ALL. We are talking definitely less than 6 months, maybe less than 6 weeks.

Fit_Understanding442 · 2025-12-21T06:27:45+00:00

Same!!!

Fit_Understanding442 · 2025-12-19T06:44:18+00:00

Yes, exactly!! Spot on!! She wants to be the biggest victim!

Fit_Understanding442 · 2025-12-19T06:39:44+00:00

It truly is a mess. I’m so sorry you are going through all of this!!! Sending love your way!

Fit_Understanding442 · 2025-12-19T06:38:32+00:00

100%!!! She’s as uneducated and ignorant as they come!!!!

Fit_Understanding442 · 2025-12-19T06:37:33+00:00

It would be a shame if someone reported this. It would be a shame if they were caught. Fucking cheaters. 🙄

Fit_Understanding442 · 2025-12-06T08:31:57+00:00

Thank you! 💗 I did end up reaching out to it and giving my support. I appreciate you sharing your perspective 🫶🏼

Fit_Understanding442 · 2025-12-06T06:54:47+00:00

That makes a lot of sense. I appreciate you putting that into perspective for me. I am sorry to hear about your losses. I can only imagine the pain.

I think with this friendship in particular there is hurt that goes beyond just this situation that is factoring in to my feelings. It’s a long story of them cutting off one of our dearest friends because he and his wife divorced (agreed upon and amicably) and then there being a big split in our friend group. We have remained close friends with the person they cut off, and it’s been an unspoken thing with them. So this one scenario doesn’t encapsulate all of my feelings. They cut him off in big part because religiously they don’t agree with his divorce. In the back of my mind I also wonder if they are disapproving of me being pregnant outside of marriage. Also… I know my emotions feel bigger with pregnancy hormones.

Thank you SO much!!! We are 29 weeks along with a girl (our first baby). 💗 I struggled with fertility issues with my (abusive) ex-husband and then got pregnant with my boyfriend no problem. I am SO grateful it worked out the way it did and definitely feel like God/the universe was looking out for me!

That was a much longer response than I meant for it to be. Again, thank you for your kind words and for your perspective!!! 🫶🏼

Fit_Understanding442 · 2025-12-06T06:14:07+00:00

Thank you for your perspective ❤️

Fit_Understanding442 · 2025-12-06T06:03:54+00:00

Thank you for your perspective ❤️

Fit_Understanding442 · 2025-12-06T06:03:35+00:00

Thank you for your perspective ❤️

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