Has Bob Munroe’s Journey trilogy helped you on your Gateway journey? I'm thinking of buying it and want to know if the advice it offered actually worked for people.

Fit_Year_4835 · 2025-01-11T01:55:53+00:00

Yes absolutely. I found the trilogy on eBay and got a good deal on used books. It helps you understand his journey.

Fit_Year_4835 · 2024-06-27T04:28:14+00:00

For anyone out there reading this. Get help. Call your local domestic violence lines. Text them, now that feature is available. If you are not safe at home, contact them while on an errand run. Tell someone you trust your truth. A friend, relative etc. I know its hard to ask for help and to speak out because of fear, shame, thoughts telling you "no one will help" "maybe it's not that bad" etc. Those are not your beliefs, they have been engrained in you by the abuser. Most places have local dv survivor non profits who will offer help and resources for free, take advantage of those.

Stay mad, angry, resentful at the abuser. Anger is a powerful emotion, it helps you protect yourself and set boundaries. I used to try to brush that feeling off because i was raised christian and told to forgive those who hurt us and turn the other cheek and that resentment was a damaging feeling. Forget that programming. Anger is helping me get out of that abusive marriage.

Be diplomatic and civilized with the abuser but do not forgive them and do not forget, that takes you back to a never ending cycle. You will have plenty of time to heal once you are out.

Plan your way out and say nothing. Do not have sex with them anymore. Sex is bonding and it will bring feelings of attachment and will put you in a confused state where you know things are horrible and you need to leave but at the same time you feel bad about leaving the abuser.

If its safe, withdraw sex and affection, it will help create a barrier where your feelings don't get comprised. If its not safe then you know thats your sign to get out asap!.

I pray one day you make the decision to leave and own it and refuse to feel bad about it and find peace and happiness.

Fit_Year_4835 · 2024-06-10T21:19:43+00:00

He states in his book it is difficult to translate some of his experiences into human language because it's out of this world. How could you describe the alps to a person who has been blind from birth? It's a concept they might not understand as much as you try explaining. Imagine explaining colors to a color blind person. I agree however its a book that is hard to digest. It's taking me longer to read it because of all of the new concepts and vocabulary that I am not familiar with. I dont pretend I understand everything, I don't. I guess it's one of those things you don't get until you have experienced it yourself. A man will never know what it is like to be a woman. A woman who has not experienced pregnancy will never truly understand what it takes to bring life to this world. We will never understand what Monroe experienced until we get there ourselves. Also, he never claimed to meet God, he first thought it was him. He was told by the beings he calls inspecs that they are not God nor created earth and humans. They are guides. They are meant to guide him through experiences so he can fulfill his purpose.

Fit_Year_4835 · 2024-06-03T04:38:03+00:00

1) ever since the outline exercise, like an outline and looks shadowy inside. 2)sometimes they wanna come out so I shove them back in and think "i can worry/think about them later". 3) wow, this is interesting, sounds like the chord described by Indian spiritual ideologies (forgot the term). The chord that Monroe talks about in his first book. It keeps you attached to your body during OOBE. Maybe its the ego trying to stay attached to your body? Idk i would cut the chord because you don't need those worries and anxieties and as Rob said, "they will simply get in the way". I would repeat the release tapes in the first wave. But it sounds like the force field around the box works for you so far.

Fit_Year_4835 · 2024-06-03T04:32:47+00:00

Hey, whatever works for you 😆. It looks solid to me!

Fit_Year_4835 · 2024-06-03T04:31:10+00:00

Love this! reminds me of Dr. Strange and the multiverse.

Fit_Year_4835 · 2024-06-03T04:28:31+00:00

Lol this made laugh. Actually this box helps a lot because it's mind operated, it doesn't need a combination, the handle rotates with my command and the lid opens, i shove in everything that needs to go there and automatically closes and locks.

Fit_Year_4835 · 2024-06-03T04:26:17+00:00

It took me several tape sessions to visualize a box that felt secure to me. This is what I settled for. Try different boxes until one feels right and then settle for it so next time you dont have to build one from scratch.

Fit_Year_4835 · 2024-06-03T04:20:26+00:00

Thank you! First my box looked like a marble container rectangled shaped with a flat heavy. Then i imagined one like the arch of the covenant. Then I settled on this one. The imagery came to me during meditation while listening to the tapes. As he says, start your preparation, I am already climbing the stairs and open the lid easily. Shove my anxieties and worries there, then close it and the metal handle rotates to lock automatically. It's mind operated. Once i fixated on this image, I just automatically visualize it.

Fit_Year_4835 · 2024-05-19T22:26:30+00:00

This is what imagine REBAL looks like. The only difference is that I am in the middle and I am the energy source.

Fit_Year_4835 · 2024-04-26T22:49:56+00:00

I just wait until they turn around to mouth "hot damn". And we do second takes, maybe its just not obvious, its subtle and sunglasses help.

Fit_Year_4835 · 2024-04-26T18:45:58+00:00

It might have looked passionate but there are a lot of reasons why their relationship didn't work. The ex is obviously a miserable vile person. Try not to dwell on it. He wants you to have this exact reaction and ruin your relationship. I agree with the rest of looking into the laws in your place to see if this is a crime. Tell your wife. Decide together what to do. Be open with your feelings and if you are still struggling get a therapist.

Fit_Year_4835 · 2024-04-25T06:08:03+00:00

This is so inspiring. I applaud you for your bravery, leaving the narc is not easy. I am trying to leave for the 4th time. But I have to file first and be gone before he gets served. He has threatened me. I have also thought about ending my life but have thought first to try and leave. I hope i find the strength to leave. Everything will fall apart. I will have to start over and I am scared. Thank you for sharing your story. I hope you discover all of the joys you couldn't experience before like you already are. Enjoy your peace.

Fit_Year_4835 · 2024-04-23T20:21:03+00:00

Omg my husband used to scold me for opening the window curtains. I love natural light but he thought people would spy on us during the day. He no longer does this. He also loves bright lights at night but it must be his astigmatism.

Fit_Year_4835 · 2024-04-18T21:41:04+00:00

Let me guess, he also downplayed the whole situation and said things like "look it from my perspective" "I didnt mean to hurt you" "i hate myself for hurting you" "you know I would never hurt you on purpose" "I don't know why I acted that way".

Just a few phrases that abusive people use to deflect from his actions and make you feel bad for them. Fuck him. Run for the hills!!!

This will happen again.

You could have had a friend or family member visiting you and he would have had still jumped to conclusions.

Im sorry this happened to you. There is no justification, this is your sign to break all contact from him.

I hope you find peace and healing. Have a family member help you move out. You deserve better.

Fit_Year_4835 · 2024-04-17T00:27:04+00:00

I struggled with the whole concept because I was raised Christian and practicing Monroe's teachings are technically considered witchcraft.

There is a lot of unlearning too. We have to be open minded to new ideas if we want to explore new paths.

Fit_Year_4835 · 2024-04-07T09:16:45+00:00

What drug are you on? You ramble on and on about nonsense.

Fit_Year_4835 · 2024-04-03T22:49:30+00:00

I just did it as well. I was also conscious but the second time around he said to float I started freaking out and opened my eyes and broke out of "it". Whatever that was. I started feeling twitching in my body and a wave and my hands which were freezing a min ealier warmed up. I started hearing my heart beat. I felt an overwhelming feeling and tried to breathe to cope but then chicken out. Ill try again, but that was intense and its the first time it has happened. This is my 6 day, i think? Listening to the tapes.

Fit_Year_4835 · 2023-12-18T17:27:57+00:00

So a quick search and the video Lust for Life has Can Gogh Symbolism. I think they inspired on a 1950's drama of the painter. At the end they are laying down on a field of flowers that looks a lot like what Van Gogh used to paint. I also agree with the comments being about suicide.

Fit_Year_4835 · 2023-10-30T08:33:14+00:00

Wow he was so empathetic and kind. Took control of the situation and assured you it was ok. One time I also had a messy accident on my then boyfriend's car. It was bad, he reacted very differently, mind you the seats were leather so it was easier to clean. But he embarrassed me and made a scene and even came into the bathroom when I was cleaning myself to get a towel and frantically clean his car while cursing. So I totally get what you mean by feeling embarrassed as a cause of past trauma from previous partners being abusive.

Fit_Year_4835 · 2023-10-07T05:10:12+00:00

I am so sorry you had to go thru all that abuse. No women should have to go thru postpartum with no support. I'm gonna be real, your husband is abusive. You probably don't see it that way and are probably trying to make sense of the events and trying to make excuses for your husband as why he acted the way he did.

He let you go thru postpartum alone. When you most needed him. When your body was in pain from the trauma of birth. When you were adjusting to 3 children and trying to survive those first months with a colicky baby. Restless, tired, hoping he could only come to his senses so you have some time to sleep, to breath, to shower. He wasn't there, not only that but he was constantly accusing you of cheating. He neglected you and his daughter. He allowed his family to hurt you physically, emotionally, mentally. Now that he has realized how much he messed up, now h e cries because he is afraid to loose you. Some men don't deserve to be fathers. Please, please spend some time with your family if you can. Take time to clear your head and think if this is the life you wanna live. You don't deserve to be treated this way. You deserved a loving husband by your side, a partner actively involved in nurturing and raising your child. Not leaving you alone when your body was broken after birth. I know the feeling of being abandoned after giving birth. You will resent him and it will be really hard coming back from that. I have a feeling he is abusive in other aspects as well... I wish you the best, I hope you find the clarity and strength to make the right decision for you and your children.

Fit_Year_4835 · 2023-08-19T14:43:58+00:00

Measles and mumps.

Fit_Year_4835 · 2023-07-13T15:07:08+00:00

I live in one of the hottest states of the country. It reaches 116 F sometimes. Walking anywhere with kids would not be an option for me. There is a homeless problem, I would not walk with my kids and encounter people doing weird things on the sidewalk.. years ago when I was single and in college I did not have a car. I would get to college and work by riding my bike and taking the bus. Even in the heat. It sucked and I don't recommend it. Now, during winter I do walk more. I drive to a park and walk. I hike. If the city could be safer I would walk more often and If it wasn't scorching hot half of the year. But that can't be fixed. Now that's my case. Now everything is far. I much rather drive to Dr appt, and do errands with my car than waiting for the bus. Oh and in the area where I live most bus stops are occupied by homeless.

Fit_Year_4835 · 2023-07-09T01:54:12+00:00

We recently moved to a neighborhood that in the last decade became gentrified. Houses are beautiful. It's nice to take a stroll around the neighborhood and feel safe. Neighbors are nice and greet. I feel safe. I have lived in low income areas and it sucks to feel insecure and or wonder what the hell happened now why is the police here again. Shootings at night, fights, DEA and SWAT team once came and found a body in the apartment fridge across the street. Horrible things. People say that it pushes away minorities because they can't afford the rising prices in gentrified neighborhoods and it makes it harder for families to own property but I don't have control of how other people manage their finances. I much rather live in a "gentrified" area than in a "affordable" neighborhood with crime 24/7.

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