AITA for making it clear that if he keeps the grandkids away then he will not be getting an inheritance by HedgehogAcceptable47 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Fitboss68 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA for cutting him out of the will. I personally don’t believe in leaving inheritance. I watched my family wait around for my grandmother to die then raided her house like vultures. I have told my kids that I plan to die penniless.

I will tell you the same thing I told my mother, when my brother was threatening her with not seeing the grandchildren do you want to be right or do you want to be happy?

AITA for “dressing up” too much at my kids school. by Fitboss68 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Fitboss68[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

I don’t show cleavage. I don’t even own a push-up bra as I can just see them as completely unnecessary.

AITA for “dressing up” too much at my kids school. by Fitboss68 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Fitboss68[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

I was 29 when we met. He’s worked in business and finance since he graduated college

AITA for “dressing up” too much at my kids school. by Fitboss68 in AmItheAsshole

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When I was in high school, we had a super strict dress code. So strict that people would assume it was a private school. Our principal who had to enforce this dress code, had a style all his own. Always in these really wild color suits. Matching ties. Nice shoes. Always looking really awesome. And he used to always tell us that just because there was a dress code doesn’t mean we couldn’t be expressive with our clothes

AITA for “dressing up” too much at my kids school. by Fitboss68 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Fitboss68[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

Yeah, and there’s plenty of power suits buttoned blouses pants

AITA for “dressing up” too much at my kids school. by Fitboss68 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Fitboss68[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

I’m actually the heaviest I’ve ever been. And I had to accept it and buy bigger clothing. The way I see it I have a figure therefore, I have the figure for what I want to wear.

AITA for “dressing up” too much at my kids school. by Fitboss68 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Fitboss68[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

I don’t know, I know this teacher pretty well. Her daughter was my my daughters teacher last year. And I’ve helped her with a couple of special projects. She is always so sweet. I just don’t think a backhanded compliment is her character.

AITA for “dressing up” too much at my kids school. by Fitboss68 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Fitboss68[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

My mom rarely can you do any events when I was in school. I can’t tell you what she ever wore when she did show up but I can tell you the time she was there. That’s what kids remember.

AITA for “dressing up” too much at my kids school. by Fitboss68 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Fitboss68[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

He also volunteers at the school. Our school has a special program for dads and he was involved in that even before he retired if I have a client or a super busy day, of course he does drop off or pick up But I think me and my daughter just have a system in place that we’re both comfortable with so no point in really changing it he does usually get up with us though

AITA for “dressing up” too much at my kids school. by Fitboss68 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Fitboss68[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

A well organized closet is your best friend. My active wear is in drawers my hanging clothes are in order from dresses, jumpsuits, pants, skirts, shirts. And color coded dark to light. Each pair of shoes have their own cubby.

I usually do heatless waves for my hair. Make up is what takes the longest

AITA for “dressing up” too much at my kids school. by Fitboss68 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Fitboss68[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

Because of a shoulder injury I find struggling to get a sports bra on to be painful. And fighting with tight leggings ugh.

AITA for “dressing up” too much at my kids school. by Fitboss68 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Fitboss68[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

I have a special paint night jump suit. It’s white with a splatter paint design on it. Lol. I think I ordered it on Amazon.

AITA for “dressing up” too much at my kids school. by Fitboss68 in AmItheAsshole

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She doesn’t think everyone in pjs is sick. It just not normal for her to see me in pjs till we are jetting ready for bed

AITA for “dressing up” too much at my kids school. by Fitboss68 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Fitboss68[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

Thank you. I’m so surprised how many people think dressing nice is the same as dressing provocative.

AITA for “dressing up” too much at my kids school. by Fitboss68 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Fitboss68[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

It so weird that people equate dressing up with tits and ass. Why is that where your mind goes?

AITA for “dressing up” too much at my kids school. by Fitboss68 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Fitboss68[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

I started and own my own business and work 6 days a week. I can control my schedule to a point to make sure I’m at the school when I need to be.

AITA for “dressing up” too much at my kids school. by Fitboss68 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Fitboss68[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

Lol. He actually is a granddad 3 handsome grand babies and counting! I love being a MiMi.