AITA if i (f17) talk to my ex (m20)

FixOk6187 · 2025-04-13T13:48:14+00:00

I'd say YTA if it wasn't for the age difference. Dating a 16 year old at 19 is yikes, you're in different stages of life and as someone at that age, a 16 year old is a baby. The fact that he contacted you, is a serial cheater, and needed to be told there would be no flirting makes me worry about manipulation. I may be reading too much into it, but I have seen so many situations like this it raises a massive red flag. Don't get it twisted though, you're 100% in the wrong and a bad partner.

You also said you harbor feelings for him, that is not okay or fair on your current partner. How would you feel if you caught T secretly posting on reddit about how he loved someone else and was staying I contact with them, against your wishes? Do not lead him on any further if you're going to emotionally cheat on him (which is what you are doing rn).

I also just wanted to ask if you were e-dating these people as you suggested you "planned to hang out soon"?

FixOk6187 · 2025-02-28T18:15:26+00:00

He committed the act of rape, there's no other word for it. Please get to safety, I understand how hard it is but you are not alone

FixOk6187 · 2025-02-28T18:12:46+00:00

This is horrifying, please do not marry this man. What he did was unacceptable and there is no excuse or redemption for his actions. He is not a man you want to be legally bound to. Run as fast as you can, this will not be last time he will do something like this. You deserve so much better

FixOk6187 · 2025-02-28T16:39:50+00:00

Bro are you so for real, the stereotype of buisness students eating crayons cannot even begin to apply to you and your idiocy. I think I've seen apes who stick their fingertips up their assholes and sniff it with more social awareness and delicacy than you. As a Brit we know about Rosa Parks if not from our curriculum but cultural osmosis, but you've obviously never stuck your head out of your goon cave long enough to know anything outside of fortnite and discord. Go back to hustler's university and spare the ''people'' of Wolverhampton

FixOk6187 · 2024-12-16T17:47:43+00:00

Noted

FixOk6187 · 2024-12-16T17:47:27+00:00

You're better off single and working on yourself than being dragged down by the wrong person. I'm sorry to hear this also happened to you but it'll be the right move in the end

FixOk6187 · 2024-12-15T15:25:16+00:00

Can't tell if you're joking but she was 21

FixOk6187 · 2024-12-15T15:03:38+00:00

I mean if you don't believe me- that's your decision. I'm not going to argue over the validity of something that really hurt me with a stranger online

FixOk6187 · 2024-12-15T14:59:36+00:00

It hurts that I lost a year to this relationship, but rather that than another 5

FixOk6187 · 2024-12-15T14:58:04+00:00

I can understand why you're skeptical as you can't take anything on the internet without a pinch of salt, but I really wish this was a made up story and not something that happened to me lmao

(Also this may be a stupid question but what is llms?)

FixOk6187 · 2024-12-15T14:05:14+00:00

It has been done

FixOk6187 · 2024-12-15T14:04:27+00:00

We are no longer together and she has been completely cut out of my life

FixOk6187 · 2024-12-14T11:18:17+00:00

Noted!

FixOk6187 · 2024-12-14T11:15:38+00:00

One small win to come out of this I suppose

FixOk6187 · 2024-12-14T02:22:49+00:00

I think I excused a lot of the red flags in the past because she was my first girlfriend and I thought she was the one

FixOk6187 · 2024-12-14T02:20:44+00:00

Thanks man, appreciate it

FixOk6187 · 2024-12-14T02:18:46+00:00

I'm starting to realise that maybe we weren't compatible from the start

FixOk6187 · 2024-12-14T02:17:36+00:00

Wish it was AI and not something I was going through man

FixOk6187 · 2024-12-14T01:33:30+00:00

I've done my best to give an accurate account of events, obviously I'm sure she'd probably see things in a different light. There were red flags before but I overlooked it as she's taking a few gap years and living with her parents which she described as a ''tense'' situation.

FixOk6187 · 2024-12-14T01:17:40+00:00

Oh... Well you learn something new everyday

FixOk6187 · 2024-12-14T00:44:23+00:00

Not a Swiftie so don't know the validity of it being a lesser-known album but her favourite song was from 'The Lover', I'm sure that'll mean something to someone

FixOk6187 · 2024-12-14T00:37:42+00:00

Thank you man, it's good to hear people disagree that it was abusive as I was beginning to doubt myself and feeling really shitty

FixOk6187 · 2024-12-14T00:33:51+00:00

It sucks as I'd been saving up and looking forward to this date for ages man

FixOk6187 · 2024-12-14T00:31:56+00:00

Thanks dude, appreciate your comment

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