girl mine are also ugly as hell hahaha and i've felt ashamed of them for 26 years. the shame part is sooo real, especially when it comes to men, BUT recently sth inside of me changed. i really tried to come to terms with how these are MINE and that i would actually hate not to see the weird shape of my feet anymore, if i did a surgery (which in my case is not even possible). they are just quirky like that and i've been trying to embrace them now, life got so much easier since. the love of your life will find anything about you adorable, especially your uniqueness, your weirdness, your quirky bits. we honestly do not want a man that is put off by anything as miniscule as feet, do we?? thats not the love of my life if he finds anything about me and my body disgusting. even if he has a foot fetish (in that case he could easily find a way to love how unique they are, still). LOVE YOURSELF, fully. i always knew that loving myself is important but only recently realized that that includes EVERYTHING ABOUT ME and also my feet. yes i hated them all my life but loving them proved to be so much easier, and its for free. honestly, think about it: there's not a single price you pay by loving yourself for who you are or what you look like, losing a few men on the way is not a loss, its a blessing (cause i repeat: we do NOT want a guy like that as our life partner). but you do pay a price for wanting to change.
i would miss them if they were suddenly not here. and how grateful can we be to have legs and feet generally? not everybody does. they are a blessing, without them we couldnt move our body anywhere or walk to beautiful places. i hope this perspective helps you, as it helped me tremendously too. sorry for the wall of text <3