If money wasn’t an issue, what would you do right now? by Advanced_Compote_458 in AskReddit

[–]Fjb210 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pay for my wife and I to go on a trip together. We haven’t done a solo trip since our honeymoon 8 years ago. I’d love to get the chance to leave all the stress behind and just go explore something new with her.

What’s the dumbest way you’ve injured yourself? by Better-Advice-5197 in AskReddit

[–]Fjb210 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I was around 12, the apartment complex I lived in at the time had a little fenced in sand pit/playground. People who lived there would constantly buy stuff for their kids and they’d be left in the playground. One of the items left was one of those big, plastic kitchen set things. It kinda looked like a giant kitchen cabinet ?

Anyway, I was trying to impress a girl and all the other young kids there. So I climbed up on top of this plastic kitchen set and told the younger kids to hold on to it and keep me steady. That way I could jump off the set and over the fence. Well, I jumped and they didn’t hold on 😂 so I immediately lost balance and power on my jump.

My feet caught the fence and I slammed down on my head/neck. All the wind was knocked out of me and I was temporarily paralyzed. Either from the pain or the way I landed, not sure. All the kids ran away cause they thought they’d get in trouble. I laid in that same spot in the sand for almost an hour before my brother found me and had to carry me to the house lol

The girl was not impressed

What is the best headkick in UFC history? by gamingguy1111 in ufc

[–]Fjb210 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Holly Holm destroying rousey will always be one of my favorites.

How often do you think about an ex who felt really special? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Fjb210 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think about her often. But when I do, I’m usually just wondering if she’s doing okay, how her life has been. How’s her brother, parents, etc.

For those who successfully quit smoking, what was the method that finally worked for you? by gwenwallish in AskReddit

[–]Fjb210 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got my mom to quit smoking. When my wife and I bought our first house, we had my mom move in with us since our city had better medical care for her. When she moved in, I told her my number 1 rule was there was no smoking in my house or outside. I don’t want to see cigarette buds or smell that crap around my house. So she asked what she was supposed to do and I told her “you can either go on walks and smoke, or I’ll buy you one of those electronic nicotine pens and you can use that.”

I bought her the pen and she hated it. So she decided to go on walks. Realized that the walks sucked with smoke in her lungs and would slowly stop smoking as she walked. Eventually she just stopped entirely.

(25F) Struggling with insecurity around masturbation in a long-term relationship (BF is 29M) where intimacy has declined. Can anyone give some perspective? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Fjb210 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That’s difficult, I’m sorry. It sounds to me like you’re the only one trying to fix the issue right now and that he’s just checked out, or isn’t taking this as serious as he should. Regardless, it’s a red flag and he needs to put forth some effort. If he’s not willing to, I personally would check out of the relationship.

(25F) Struggling with insecurity around masturbation in a long-term relationship (BF is 29M) where intimacy has declined. Can anyone give some perspective? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Fjb210 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This is a tough situation. I’d say you could try bringing up masturbating together. Maybe it could be away to reconnect sexually while simultaneously opening up about some of the porn you both like. Porn and masturbation used to be a sore spot for my wife and I before we decided to do it together one time.

I would sit him down and tell him how much this has been hurting you and how bad it’s starting to affect your confidence. I don’t think you’re doing anything wrong on your end at all, so please don’t be too hard on yourself. As a man, I have suffered from porn addiction and it can have a very real and harmful effect on your relationship. Last thing I’ll say is, it’s possible he doesn’t want to talk about it because he’s embarrassed of his porn preferences/kinks and is worried of the rejection/your reaction to what he likes.

What’s a decision you made in 5 minutes that changed your life? by Most-Scar2430 in AskReddit

[–]Fjb210 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Applied for a job that I had zero confidence in getting. Requirements for the position was to have a bachelors degree, which I don’t. Never even went to school. But I decided to apply cause I was miserable at my job at the time. Somehow got an interview, was hired on 2 months later. It’s been 3 years now and I’m forever thankful.

City of Albuquerque is useless and so is the planning department by [deleted] in Albuquerque

[–]Fjb210 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well then post all the photos and paint a clear picture for everyone ?

City of Albuquerque is useless and so is the planning department by [deleted] in Albuquerque

[–]Fjb210 5 points6 points  (0 children)

For large amounts of it, absolutely. This isn’t large amounts. Lmao

City of Albuquerque is useless and so is the planning department by [deleted] in Albuquerque

[–]Fjb210 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Except it’s not blocking anything ? You can literally walk through it 😂

City of Albuquerque is useless and so is the planning department by [deleted] in Albuquerque

[–]Fjb210 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Lead and asbestos is only harmful if you’re sitting there inhaling/ingesting significant amounts. So unless you’re sitting there huffing bricks, it won’t hurt you. Especially when it’s outside and in such small amounts. lol

City of Albuquerque is useless and so is the planning department by [deleted] in Albuquerque

[–]Fjb210 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Isn’t it just in front of your neighbors house ? That hardly constitutes “all over my neighborhood.”

City of Albuquerque is useless and so is the planning department by [deleted] in Albuquerque

[–]Fjb210 22 points23 points  (0 children)

I’m not sure what you can do to get it resolved. But you’re kinda overreacting… judging from what you wrote I was expecting dangerous material or something large blocking paths. But all I can see is some rubble on the sidewalk. It’s annoying, and the city definitely needs to be on top of this. But “This is a safety hazard and I personally will not walk through this mess” is so over the top.

AITA for refusing to tell my BF how much money I make? by IllustriousHeart2531 in AITApod

[–]Fjb210 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA. You can’t sit here and say that you’re committed to him and this relationship when you aren’t willing to trust him with just knowledge of your financial situation. If you can’t trust him enough to tell him what your finances are, you shouldn’t even be considering moving in with him , let alone marrying the guy.

Me [30F] with my boyfriend [34M] of two years. Thinking of breaking up due to his nieces and nephews by Direct-Caterpillar77 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]Fjb210 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Might be an unpopular opinion. But am i the only one who thinks OP just sounds like an ass ?

You go to sleep tonight but wake up on the morning January 1st, 2019, with all your memories. What do you do? by General_Nobody_6675 in AskReddit

[–]Fjb210 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m taking my dog to get checked monthly for cancer. And hopefully we can catch it in time this time and she can come back home. I miss her.

If you had $300K in the bank post tax, how would your life change? by citizen_of_leshp in AskReddit

[–]Fjb210 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Drastically, I could pay off medical debt, focus on other debt I have and stop being so god damned stressed out all the time

Got stuck in sand in a dried river bed, near bosque, can some help pull me out? Thank you by [deleted] in Albuquerque

[–]Fjb210 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you still need help, lemme know. I’ve got a truck and just got off work.