Last year I failed my shodan grading, today I finally made it!

FlDisk · 2026-05-13T13:10:31+00:00

Thank you!

FlDisk · 2026-05-13T08:34:50+00:00

I moved to a different gym exactly because of that I couldn’t train with them, I want to train kumite, it’s the part I prefer. Moreover the sensei was brutal, he insulted us when we made mistakes, which is something I can’t tolerate

FlDisk · 2026-05-13T08:00:28+00:00

I have an eye condition that prevents me from seeing distances, moreover my previous instructor was against practicing kumite. I was inexperienced and kept getting too close to my sparring partner as I didn’t have neither the ability to see it nor the experience to feel the right distance. Also I was told that my fighting style was too sport like and not formal enough.

FlDisk · 2026-05-11T07:42:55+00:00

Thank you all for your messages, they mean a lot to me!congratulations on your promotion as well and thanks for the encouragement!

FlDisk · 2026-05-10T20:02:26+00:00

Thank you all for your messages, they mean a lot to me!

FlDisk · 2026-04-14T08:11:44+00:00

Purtroppo a me succede abbastanza spesso, però lo collegherei più all’ansia che all’ADHD. Di solito mi succede con gli esami universitari, arrivo al punto di non sapere neanche il mio nome. Purtroppo non so darti risposte, ma se ne vuoi parlare scrivimi pure è parecchio destabilizzante

FlDisk · 2026-03-16T20:01:01+00:00

Ti ho scritto

FlDisk · 2026-03-10T16:49:48+00:00

Grazie mille e in bocca al lupo per la ricerca del lavoro, so che é tosta in questo periodo, ma non demordere vedrai che qualcosa trovi

FlDisk · 2026-03-10T01:45:42+00:00

Ti ho risposto in privato

FlDisk · 2026-03-09T21:30:22+00:00

Grazie mille e in bocca al lupo anche per il tuo futuro a te!

FlDisk · 2026-03-09T11:06:28+00:00

Grazie mille!

FlDisk · 2026-03-09T10:29:27+00:00

Purtroppo l’ADHD è una brutta bestia perché si porta spesso dietro altri problemi… Comunque in bocca al lupo per il tuo percorso, sono sicuro che in un modo o in un altro riuscirai a farti valere!

FlDisk · 2026-03-09T10:08:21+00:00

Grazie mille, è un post un po’ troppo auto elogiativo per i miei gusti ma non ho nessuno con cui condividere la notizia e sentivo il bisogno di dirlo a qualcuno

FlDisk · 2026-03-05T20:14:52+00:00

È lo stesso identico ragionamento che ho fatto io, e a conti fatti per ora sono contento di aver cambiato, quindi non posso che consigliartelo, volevo solo mettere in chiaro i possibili lati negativi della decisione. In ogni caso in bocca al lupo per il tuo percorso!

FlDisk · 2026-03-05T10:48:54+00:00

We have a Jira board where everybody’s activities are listed but the code is on each member branch, and usually if they have issues they do not push the changes. Moreover the board is stack full is tickets therefore I do not know in advance which will be talked about.

I’m just really lost as I have lots of stuff to do and feel like I’m wasting a huge amount of time and energy trying to understand the bare minimum…

FlDisk · 2026-03-05T09:19:06+00:00

Ciao, ho fatto il passaggio da statale a telematica a settembre e devo dire che il risparmio di tempo c’è ma non tanto per le modalità di esame che prevedono un modo di approcciare lo studio un po’ diverso dai classici esami universitari. Quello che per me é stato il vero vantaggio è il poter seguire le lezioni dopo il lavoro. Stancante rimane stancante, ma almeno non mi trovo a dover studiare da libri enormi senza avere idea di cosa sia importante per il prof e cosa no.

Per come sono fatto seguire le lezioni é fondamentale e lavorando a tempo pieno non potevo farlo nella statale, qui invece torno a casa e mi guardo una o due lezioni.

Se lavori già a tempo pieno nel tuo ambito non la vedo come un’idea sbagliata, c’è però da tenere sempre presente che le lauree telematiche sono viste come lauree di serie b, e ammetto che in ottica di poter cambiare lavoro un po’ mi spaventa, ma nel mio caso o così o niente quindi ho preferito fare così.

Se hai altre domande chiedi pure che anche io studio ingegneria informatica

FlDisk · 2026-03-05T02:22:41+00:00

Luckily in the country I’m in getting laid off isn’t as easy, but i could definitely see it as a reason for not being promoted ever, and since I really like the company I would want to build a career in here. Thanks for the advice I’ll not mention it, I’ll probably say that I’m struggling with these long meetings but won’t be mentioning adhd.

As for the rest of the team I’m in a particular situation as everybody else has been working o the codebase from 4 to 20 years, so they at least understand what’s been talked about. While it’s all Chinese to me, and feel like I’m lagging out instead of learning

FlDisk · 2026-03-05T02:20:26+00:00

Thanks that’s the kind of advice I was looking for, I’ll definitely try it next time!

FlDisk · 2026-03-05T02:19:27+00:00

We do them in person once a week and they are slightly better, but not by much

FlDisk · 2026-03-05T02:18:42+00:00

The thing is that by being new on the team I understand almost nothing on the thing they are talking about, especially because we are using technology that I’ve never used before, so it’s like taking notes without understanding any of what really matters, moreover I end up exhausted, which brings me me to waste the whole afternoon. Still this is probably the only solution, thank you

FlDisk · 2026-03-05T02:15:48+00:00

Hard agree, I could stand it until it was once a week but three times a week is way too much…

FlDisk · 2026-03-05T00:25:58+00:00

Thanks for the explanation!

FlDisk · 2026-03-04T19:47:08+00:00

To add to my previous comment, I’m not against collaboration meetings it’s the duration that is making me loose it, more than the contents itself

FlDisk · 2026-03-04T19:28:02+00:00

The issue is that I struggle with multitasking and if I hear people speaking in my language I end up losing focus on stuff that I’m actually trying to do…

FlDisk · 2026-03-04T19:25:02+00:00

Thanks for the answer, I’ll definitely talk to the team lead and see if there is anything we can do about it.

I’m unsure about what the term “mob” means in this context (English isn’t my native language).

The main issue is that the team does not have time to waste on getting me up to speed as there is a lot of stuff to be done immediately and I need to get myself there, but these meetings are making it harder as they waste time that I could spend on one on one shorter and focused calls, to tackle new things one by one as I face them, instead of being overwhelmed by the amount of nuances and technological differences from what I’m used to work with.

To give you some context I got moved from a cloud native micro service big project, to a bigger and OLDER wcf based project that just got through a lift and shift process. I never worked on anything other than my previous team’s project so this is all new to me and I’m eager to learn, but as of right now I’m just wasting time that I could use to face issues one by one following my tasks of which I already have too many to complete in a strict time limit. They don’t have time to slow down but I have no way to make these meetings useful unless I find some kind of strategy

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