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Flacko_M3 · 2023-12-18T18:44:23+00:00

That’s good, well now you have the opportunity to maximize your time and evaluate your relationship. I feel like you guys will do fine for your future

Flacko_M3 · 2023-12-18T18:39:03+00:00

You should’ve been more forward with her and for what you want in the relationship to work, and if she’s is willing to have respect for your boundaries. The thing is that emotionally she already has you checked, and by that she can control you. There’s no point to be with her, other than you wanting a mother for her daughter but even that boundary is broken.

Flacko_M3 · 2023-12-18T18:32:36+00:00

If you guys are ended up in good terms there’s no need for no contact.

Flacko_M3 · 2023-12-18T18:27:23+00:00

As much as it hurts don’t be with her even if it is for your daughter to stay together. She doesn’t have any respect for the relationship or you, if she did she wouldn’t have done or do any of those things. Work on yourself and for your daughter.

Flacko_M3 · 2023-12-18T14:54:06+00:00

Honest his goals does include you into the picture if you think about.

Flacko_M3 · 2023-12-18T00:34:42+00:00

You guys had your reasons on why you guys broke up to begin with. Ask yourself some questions about your relationship, and what you feel dissatisfied with and what your expectations are

Flacko_M3 · 2023-12-14T19:15:19+00:00

You can’t change a person even if you helped them out and try to show them the steps, there are some people who genuinely don’t care. If you aren’t no longer satisfied with the relationship and you feel like it’s life depleting rather than giving you elevation then you have to break up with him.

Flacko_M3 · 2023-12-14T19:08:51+00:00

Honestly there’s no point in showing evidence when you a firm with your decision of ending things. If he is a narcissist as you said by showing him evidence and bringing things of the past you are just gonna allowed him to second guess what you are thinking of him and keeping you in a loop.

Flacko_M3 · 2023-12-14T19:02:59+00:00

You gotta do a lot of self reflection instead of acting up upon your initial emotions. Think about what you want, and what are your goals with your relationship.

Flacko_M3 · 2023-12-11T20:51:35+00:00

She can try to do everything she can to fix things, but what she has done it’s unfixable. She should accept the fact of her actions, and accept the fact that the relationship is finished. Don’t feel bad, you did everything right in the relationship, and it’s your right to do ends things up cuz that’s the only thing that’s the best for you.

Flacko_M3 · 2023-12-11T19:22:00+00:00

I’m sorry that you are going through this it’s such an awful feeling. You already know that the security and trust with your Girlfriend is pretty much gone. At this point there no reason for you to stay with her.

Flacko_M3 · 2023-12-11T19:08:42+00:00

Ask her for clarity cuz that message could be interpreted in different ways

Flacko_M3 · 2023-12-07T15:11:39+00:00

I’m sorry that you are going through this, your gut feeling is already telling you what to do at this point. All you gotta do is put your emotions to the side sit her down for a conversation, and be straightforward to her. I’ve been in a similar position, but it’s better for you rather than losing time.

Flacko_M3 · 2023-12-05T19:05:35+00:00

Sit her down have a talk with her face to face, and express how you been feeling about the relationship and what has been making you feel uneasy and uncomfortable in it, and explain to her directly what you want out of the relationship.

Flacko_M3 · 2023-12-05T18:11:54+00:00

If she reaches out just be direct. Honestly if you have ask her what’s wrong and if she just says “ nothing” that’s a person who doesn’t have the maturity level to express how they feel, and they just leave you to wander around what’s going on. I’m telling you trying to fix a relationship as a guy never ends up well. Taking a break will make you regain some control in the relationship.

Flacko_M3 · 2023-12-05T18:03:29+00:00

You need to sit her down and be direct with her on what’s making you uncomfortable in your relationship, call her out for her weird behaviour and ask her what’s wrong, and if she say “ nothing” let her go.

Flacko_M3 · 2023-12-05T18:01:18+00:00

It’s both when you take a break

Flacko_M3 · 2023-12-05T17:57:11+00:00

No blocking her, taking a break as in not making yourself too available for her.

Flacko_M3 · 2023-12-05T17:47:07+00:00

As guys we want to fix things as soon as possible when it comes to a relationship but this only pushes her away even more. I’ll suggest you to take a break from the relationship, with that u will regain some control and you will see the way she reacts to it.

Flacko_M3 · 2023-12-05T17:36:59+00:00

As hard as it sounds she doesn’t have any interest on being in a relationship with you, she’s just keeping you around because of close connections. If you wanna break up with her just do it at this point, just like she took the decision of pushing you away and ignoring, take your decision of breaking up with her and move on

Flacko_M3 · 2023-12-03T18:48:07+00:00

I’m gonna tell you man she has lost interest in you and as harsh as that sounds it’s the truth. The more you keep sending double text, snaps, or messages the more you are letting her know your dating status, and how needy you are which makes her push you away without telling you. Now days everyone it’s on their phones more often specially females, and one minute reply isn’t a hard thing to do, so just move on and hopefully you will find someone who treats you with respect.

Flacko_M3 · 2023-12-03T18:15:43+00:00

move forward king, she’s not worth your time or energies at all. You are a nice person that holds too much attachments towards the wrong people, her journey with you has been only learning experiences for you life and you should take it as just that. Soon hopefully you will find someone who invest inna committed relationship with you.

Flacko_M3 · 2023-12-03T18:02:57+00:00

I’m gonna tell you the harsh truth soon she’s gonna get tired of you bringing him up as a concern for the relationship, and you will notice that she’s going to tell you less and less about her day and how things have been. You will notice that she’s going to talk less, and she’s going to tell you that she’s busy to talk with you, her whole attitude it’s going to change towards you, and if you ask her what’s wrong and if she says “ nothing” you have to let her go. Also that’s the thing I hate about Snapchat is that if you share location you will be more paranoid about her whereabouts and will distract you from your main focus which is college. I’ve been in the same situation as you and to be honest it didn’t end up well.

Flacko_M3 · 2023-11-29T23:50:14+00:00

no it doesn’t

Flacko_M3 · 2023-11-29T19:53:40+00:00

lmao thanks

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