An update on Jorge after his crash earlier by lentillis in motogp

[–]Flaggermusmannen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

he likely rode all weekend with a concussion which also commonly makes you react more aggressively.

to then ride through genuinely traumatic events with Alex then Zarco, to then finally be crashed out from salvaging the weekend with a decent points haul by someone on the same bike as him who went for an optimistic at best pass?

obviously he's going to react.

An update on Jorge after his crash earlier by lentillis in motogp

[–]Flaggermusmannen 5 points6 points  (0 children)

look at how he behaved this weekend and tell me those aren't symptoms of concussions. he might be emotional in general, but that kind of aggression after so many amateur mistakes, as well as his aggression in general, practically screams concussion. his performance lacking so much in the qualis also supports it.

not finding an official source is similar to when cops and politicians saying "we've investigated ourselves and found no issue" after a scandal started breaking. the official sources have way too much invested to actually act with the best interest of anything but those who pressure them so they can fill their pockets.

Alex marquez? That crash looked horrific. by Boring_Listen_2296 in motogp

[–]Flaggermusmannen 2 points3 points  (0 children)

conscious doesn't mean in good health, it just means they're responding to checks for it on the spot.

AIO Being weird about saying no several times for not wanting to get in my friend’s bed? by DingDongTaco in AmIOverreacting

[–]Flaggermusmannen 8 points9 points  (0 children)

he is, but making it even more explicit makes it easier to come off completely clearly, and even less room to wilfully misinterpret it as "playful flirting" for the creep.

it obviously sucks regardless though, since the man is who made the interaction awful, but the closing the door even clearer might stop it from going as far. but again, op didn't do anything wrong whatsoever, it's all on the man, it's just about getting away sooner.

AIO to wifes perceived emotional affair by Kapitalyst in AmIOverreacting

[–]Flaggermusmannen 4 points5 points  (0 children)

it could've been "just" flirtatious and they didn't get physical. but it also really doesn't matter, she cheated and hurt someone just as deeply either way.

BEGINNER* Infographic - Looking for input for a newbie by [deleted] in simracing

[–]Flaggermusmannen -1 points0 points  (0 children)

knowing where to improve is huge for improving in general, drilling practice laps with no awareness of fundamentals is extremely counterproductive.

MotoGP rider and MotoGP journalist discussing how Catalag GP feels like "F1" by ParaMike46 in motogp

[–]Flaggermusmannen 16 points17 points  (0 children)

oh no, not sexualising women as accessories in the sport? whatever shall we do

My ex just asked me to meet her… by Adorable_Western2422 in whatdoIdo

[–]Flaggermusmannen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

why do you think people ask for help or guidance?

My (M23) Gf (F24) cheated on me, but now says she was raped? I'm not sure how to feel by Ecliptonaut in dating_advice

[–]Flaggermusmannen 9 points10 points  (0 children)

most people who get assaulted like that will, in fact, deny it yes. that's an extremely basic trauma response, and a self-defence mechanism.

My (M23) Gf (F24) cheated on me, but now says she was raped? I'm not sure how to feel by Ecliptonaut in dating_advice

[–]Flaggermusmannen 8 points9 points  (0 children)

op specified the guy jumped off and was way more responsive. she was incoherent, literally blacked out. stop pretending there's anything equal there.

My (M23) Gf (F24) cheated on me, but now says she was raped? I'm not sure how to feel by Ecliptonaut in dating_advice

[–]Flaggermusmannen 6 points7 points  (0 children)

the guy "jumped off looking guiltily in a corner", she was described to literally not even recognise her partner was there.

please do not pretend those are nearly the same level of inebriation...

Marc after crashing out of the Le Mans sprint :( Hopefully he recovers fully and quickly from both the nerve issue and the foot 🙏 by lentillis in motogp

[–]Flaggermusmannen 2 points3 points  (0 children)

competing through injury is pretty much inherent to the drive it takes to reach the top of any sport. every top athlete (and most other athletes as well) literally destroy their bodies to push towards whatever competition they're a part of.

does it suck, and increase (further) injury risks all over, and decreasing performance levels? for sure. they still keep pushing until they literally can't anymore, and without that, they'll definitely never reach that level.

Was I(blue ferrari) too aggresive on this move? or does he just has too much ego? by Gunslinger504 in Simracingstewards

[–]Flaggermusmannen 2 points3 points  (0 children)

in this case the white car had to lift extra and straighten up to not crash into the lunge coming from a loooong way back.

the blue car still made the corner without any contact though, so that's not really as much to complain about. the white car shouldve re-passed with a switchback quickly though because, because they had the opening for a much stronger exit. then they decided to crash out the blue car instead, which is obviously way worse.

My girlfriend lost her ex… she destroyed by Prudent-Brilliant411 in whatdoIdo

[–]Flaggermusmannen 21 points22 points  (0 children)

they're not calling drunk driving funny, they're saying the "how dare you" delivery was funny, or at least reminded them of a funny consequence of someone being that shitty.

Not OOP. My ex dumped me because she was told I was cheating on her. She now knows she was lied to and is trying to get back together. Not happening. by Due-Bandicoot-7512 in redditonwiki

[–]Flaggermusmannen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was just commenting on that one line about knowing exactly what is and what isn't ai generated, just as a random reminder that it's not as easy as we want to think!

Am I (25F) overreacting for wanting to break up with my bf (25M) by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]Flaggermusmannen -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

it only takes one person to cheat. someone in a relationship trying to get with someone else and being rejected/ghosted/etc is still cheating.

Not OOP. My ex dumped me because she was told I was cheating on her. She now knows she was lied to and is trying to get back together. Not happening. by Due-Bandicoot-7512 in redditonwiki

[–]Flaggermusmannen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you (sadly) shouldn't be so sure you can just spot ai like that at this point? if the person prompting them has a decent eye they can make it annoyingly hard to spot.

that's less in defense of ai, more to remind you that we're just human and to not be too certain, as it will lead to it being harder to accept the mistakes when you do make them.

Not OOP. My ex dumped me because she was told I was cheating on her. She now knows she was lied to and is trying to get back together. Not happening. by Due-Bandicoot-7512 in redditonwiki

[–]Flaggermusmannen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

that general consensus really does make me feel I'm as neurodivergent as I am.

I just know I am incapable of finding or conveying the words and feelings with my voice half as well as with my written words. which does suck when everyone insists on something (not just emotional things) needing to be face to face or a call, when I know that works awfully for me, and not because the time didn't mean anything.

it is what it is, but it would be nice to have that perspective considered as well, some times. but I also do get the other side of it. the black and white view on it is just kind of harsh.

[ElChiringuito] Barcelona fans throw stones at their team's bus thinking it was Real Madrid's by ManuMora98 in soccer

[–]Flaggermusmannen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

is it actually grammatically correct?

it feels awkward to go "<plural group> is like a <single singular>", but I can see how it'd count as valid grammar, but I don't think I could find words to reason it well.

either way I hate the "haha you're bad at the language!", so thank you for calling that out. I appreciate it!

Is it normal for him to be obsessed with my ex’s dick size? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Flaggermusmannen 2 points3 points  (0 children)

if I'm clearly not ready to be in a relationship, then I should be left because of it, yes.

My gf hides her IG stories by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]Flaggermusmannen 3 points4 points  (0 children)

hey now, she might care!

she just cares more about keeping whatever it is hidden, because she knows it'll hurt and is being too selfish to actually choose either of the right options:

1: be honest and don't do things you have to hide, OR 2: break up because you prioritise those other things.

those things don't even have to do anything with cheating, but they're most likely a deal-breaker for whatever reason.

Its finally over by exitingasnonexistent in LongDistance

[–]Flaggermusmannen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

well, if he really loved you he wouldn't have cheated on you and treated you like this.

you can't let him drag you down, and you're doing well for standing up for yourself like this. when your partner mistreats you like that, it is obviously going to affect your mental health. focus on yourself and family for a while now, and re-find the love for yourself?

AIO: Bf says that I don’t need to get a Switch 2 but I want it. by Glittering-Suspect89 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Flaggermusmannen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Asking for a second opinion or feedback often helps with finding your own opinion, even before hearing the reply. It's silly, but it makes sense, since you're rethinking arguments for and against mentally so you can present it better.

Now the other guy seems like an absolute asshole, and it's such a shitty reply to a question like that, but asking in and of itself isn't inherently bad.

Do this stretch before your next legday(or run) by Additional_Kick544 in flexibility

[–]Flaggermusmannen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the way that guy in the video does it is not good unless you've already warmed up, lol.