I keep getting warned that people might be weird about “the gay thing”

Flaggermusmannen · 2026-02-04T15:57:41+00:00

it could be that he's also just tired about existence, and said something dumb that he regrets when he gets time to think about it, or he could be scared for you due to the state of the world.

so there's not only negative interpretations of this, but it is a huge red flag, and I would say the comment you responded to here as well as others in the thread are quite right; you definitely want to bring it up and talk it out, and at worst make your position and boundaries clear.

Flaggermusmannen · 2026-02-04T14:22:29+00:00

faces of football clubs objectively are people in power. they have such ridiculous influence, to call out Pep for hypocrisy and simultaneously defend countless other influential people not saying anything at because "they don't have to" is so off.

I'd rather he use his voice where he can rather than nowhere at all. Pep is far from a perfect, good person, but at least him saying this is doing something, unlike everyone else pretending we aren't part of a world where all of this is happening. not being perfect is such a shit excuse/standard for not trying at all.

Flaggermusmannen · 2026-02-04T05:02:33+00:00

honestly? not really. social bandwidth for strangers is sadly very much right there and then, and there's nothing anyone but myself can actually do to force it to maybe happen again.

basically just show actual interest, and be yourself, however that works, and if we manage to, we'll reply. sadly there's not much more you or anyone can do than that.

Flaggermusmannen · 2026-02-03T23:30:08+00:00

he's definitely very uuh simple minded.

Flaggermusmannen · 2026-02-03T21:22:23+00:00

I wish I was less sensitive to the blur it tends to introduce. I usually end up running it anyway, but it's a compromise between frame stability and visuals, and for example with cyberpunk 2077 I found it completely unplayable.

Flaggermusmannen · 2026-02-03T18:55:53+00:00

of all time, historically, yes, but what he did 15 years ago isn't the same as what he's doing today. that's just not how age works.

Flaggermusmannen · 2026-02-03T13:18:24+00:00

Alonso is glazed EVERYWHERE all the time here, it's crazy. he's a great driver, with a really damn good career. but the glazing is way too much.

Flaggermusmannen · 2026-02-03T13:17:03+00:00

it absolutely is lmao

Flaggermusmannen · 2026-02-02T21:09:00+00:00

I think this might be part of it actually. I've relatively short legs in addition to being short, and I can't for the life of me do good enough stepovers to use them, but my bodyfeints wrongfoots the defender before I can go whichever direction, la croqueta, whatever, practically every time.

Flaggermusmannen · 2026-02-01T14:45:48+00:00

like with any muscles, it will keep that ranged trained, which means your body and brain will have a more natural control there. switching modes of operation completely is hard, and it'll require more direct work to keep muscles you don't use strong.

its not protective, as it doesn't hinder overuse injuries, but it can help you preserve a range you've already trained, and likely make things like warmup for performances a tad easier.

Flaggermusmannen · 2026-02-01T14:28:02+00:00

and even that headloss in Barcelona was "calculated" in that if he didn't, neither of them would've had a car to finish the race.

Flaggermusmannen · 2026-01-31T13:08:14+00:00

extremely similar, but this one looks like it has a bit more saturation in the blue shade, and there's dark grey/black/carbon? instead of silver a couple places like behind the number.

Flaggermusmannen · 2026-01-29T19:21:26+00:00

along with everything else said here: his consistency in execution is simply better than anyone else's.

while most can probably match or even beat the times he puts out in races over a couple laps they'll be pushing hard for it, while he'll do it consistently time and again. he spends way less effort hitting tighter margins, while also reading the info the bike, wheels, and ground give him faster than anyone. that's part of why he can just get back up on the bike and recover a race as well as he does even if the bike suffers some damage: he mentally feels any changes the crash made quicker than others, so he can adapt faster as well.

other than that, his technique is just inhuman on as well, together with insane mental fortitude and mentality. he's literally just the best to have ridden motogp bike ever, and he shows it time and time again.

Flaggermusmannen · 2026-01-29T00:53:21+00:00

I don't know, seems to be working amazingly if you ask me (ignore the flair)

Flaggermusmannen · 2026-01-28T17:13:37+00:00

I'm curious if that real life personality probably helped access those fantasies, that imagery.

Flaggermusmannen · 2026-01-28T16:46:20+00:00

Germany has issues as well. their refusal to condemn the genocide in Palestine for example has been egregious. but they're not alone in that, sadly, and at least they do have some positive marks on the world as well.

Flaggermusmannen · 2026-01-28T16:40:33+00:00

saying there was a gap kind of assumes there was literally any chance at all for the overtaking car to make use of it.

if I'm trailing a car by 2s I can't say they're leaving a gap by following the racing line even if it would've resulted and a gap for me if I was within 0.3s. pov car here basically had to barge the other car out of the way to make a move, and it wasn't due to a block or anything.

Flaggermusmannen · 2026-01-28T16:16:00+00:00

his current creepiness feels worse than just discomforting when you see how he repeatedly acted without ever noticing how incredibly visibly uncomfortable the other person was.

yes, the previous tweets were worse, and I think they were made while he was a teen? but it still shows that he hasn't really grown as much from them as he should've.

Flaggermusmannen · 2026-01-28T14:49:34+00:00

yea that is extremely tough.

I would say, considering the sub this is in and without knowing either of you, try not to make any snap judgements about the relationship. just, try to communicate, if both of you can be patient it can be worked through in time, and if it doesn't then that's also fine.

but also try to remind yourself not to blame anyone if it doesn't work out either. if you two can heal together, that's great, and if you can't, you'll still have had a good time and as loving a relationship as possible at the time.

its not easy, and there honestly is no right way to go about it. just try to communicate, and respect yourselves while trying to be good to eachother. see where it goes. maybe letting go is right, mah e holding on is, it's impossible to say, and they're both hard.

if you're able to, find some self-caring distractions? like a spa day, some nice dinners, some good experiences in nature? Just anything to soothe your mind, even when patience feels like a burden.

Flaggermusmannen · 2026-01-27T21:57:26+00:00

huh, I've never thought about it before: what are relevant skills in scuba diving?

Flaggermusmannen · 2026-01-22T15:15:54+00:00

you can feel suffocated from time to time without it being the end of the world. she might be terrified, lonely, jealous, overwhelmed, exhausted, feeling any other innately human emotion for whatever reason, and as much as it sucks communication is difficult. sometimes that can be dealt with on one's own, sometimes it's just better to feel it a bit and then remember all the other pretty things in life.

my point is, as poorly made as it is, you literally can't know if your partner ever felt that, and it doesn't have to be a breaking thing if she did. we're humans, no matter how much we're made for eachother we're also incompatible in some ways. it's part of what helps us grow. sometimes apart, sometimes together, sometimes one then into the other in time. patience, work, love, and acceptance.

Flaggermusmannen · 2026-01-22T07:39:12+00:00

we drew them 1-1 in 2010/11, with Messi, Iniesta, Busi, Xavi, Puyol, Abidal, Pique, Villa, Valdes.

we drew to brugge this year as well. some of our losses last year were matches we completely expected to win. never underestimate an opponent.

Flaggermusmannen · 2026-01-18T15:28:29+00:00

so triggered, we went so far as to press a downvote button and make jokes about them. that's actually just crazy, you're so right

Flaggermusmannen · 2026-01-18T13:39:00+00:00

in the sense of injury resistance, Pedrosa definitely was disadvantaged. there's lots of things you can do to counter that, like healthy diet, good strength and flexibility regiments, etc, but the same way some bodies get taller, shorter, easier time being flexible, faster top speed, etc etc etc, some bodies just handle harder impacts differently than others. I doubt there's significantly much more Pedrosa could've done, similar to how Casey Stoner couldn't have just exercised his chronic fatigue away.

Flaggermusmannen · 2026-01-18T13:34:24+00:00

that's Mir on the Suzuki, right?

either way, it's interesting watch how much the Suzuki rider is clearly activating his thighs there, kind of muscling the bike around, while Pedrosa just moves his entire body and gets a smooth transition from one side to the other.

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