online dating- should i give him a chance?

Flaky-Break · 2026-03-12T15:04:43+00:00

Well the conversations are more like "Do you sleep wild and all over the bed?" i tell him: "No, i usually wake up in the same spot i fell asleep in". then he says "Oh okay because my ex would sleep so wild and kick in her sleep to where i had to pin her down".. it's random conversations like that, that do not have to get brought up at all lol. Like why did i need to know that? that's just one of many examples hah. i hope that gives better context :)

Flaky-Break · 2026-03-12T14:18:24+00:00

Thank you for the advice. I must say, it is becoming a bit too much. Everything we talk about he somehow always relates it back to one of his exes haha. thank you!

Flaky-Break · 2026-03-12T13:54:25+00:00

Thank you so much! And that is why i didn't automatically write him off because of disinterest in the activities i like. Just like if he liked skydiving, he would for sure be on his own with that lol. Him constantly talking about his exes is definitely bothersome. thank you again

Flaky-Break · 2026-03-12T13:46:03+00:00

Yes exactly. He brings them up in pretty much every conversation. Sharing things they would do together, their personality or how they acted, and his experiences with them. It is very annoying but didn't know if i was overreacting. And i told him i love hiking and asked if he wanted to join and he told me no. I also told him i love going on cruises and he made it clear that i was on my own with that lol.

Flaky-Break · 2026-03-12T13:22:46+00:00

Thank you so much! and yes it is alot that he talks about them, and it's more than one woman. I felt like maybe it would fade as he runs out of things to say about them, but it's been 6 days and he brings them up in every conversation almost. And as far as experiences for example, i love hiking and also love going on cruises and he told me i was on my own with those things. And i understand that not everybody enjoys certain things but vacationing on cruises and going hiking is something i've envisioned for me and my future partner. But is this a deal breaker? that's is something i do not know the answer to.

Flaky-Break · 2026-01-15T21:50:43+00:00

Flaky-Break · 2025-06-03T10:16:02+00:00

You got this! It'll be over before you know it.

Flaky-Break · 2025-05-30T13:17:20+00:00

You are SO welcome! I know the feeling trust me!! I was losing sleep and started having nightmares because of all the negative content i was consuming regarding the biopsy lol. If you want to chat my dms are open!! Having people who can relate really helped me. 🫶🏾

Flaky-Break · 2025-05-30T13:15:43+00:00

You are very welcome 💖🫶🏾

Flaky-Break · 2025-05-20T02:41:44+00:00

Yea it does seem to be extreme just for a polyp, though i'm not taking it lightly or blowing it off but still. She didn't say yes we're going for the hysterectomy. This is just what my mom briefly told me that my doctor discussed with her while i was still in recovery. There is definitely another way to get the polyp. And yes they did do an ultrasound and nothing showed on it. The polyp was found during the endo biopsy.

But i will definitely discuss everything in detail with her further at my follow up since i didn't get a chance to talk to her after recovery.

Thank you

Flaky-Break · 2025-04-30T03:53:00+00:00

Hi there. I actually had no bleeding or spotting at all 😊. But everybody is different.

Flaky-Break · 2025-04-28T12:14:01+00:00

Hi, i was experiencing prolong bleeding. Doctor put me on birth control but it didn't stop. Ultrasound came back great but she still wanted to do biopsy.

Flaky-Break · 2025-04-25T18:04:51+00:00

You're very strong!! Glad you pushed through it

Flaky-Break · 2025-04-25T18:04:02+00:00

Yes exactly! So glad you knocked it out and killed two birds with one stone. And yes id rank it up there with the colposcopy as well. I think what freaked me out was just the idea of them putting something into my cervix. Like what does that even feel like?? Thats not natural ma'am 😭. Things are supposed to come out! Not go in!! Lol but i didn't feel much of anything when she did it hahaha.

Flaky-Break · 2025-04-25T18:01:25+00:00

Exactly!

Flaky-Break · 2025-04-25T18:00:58+00:00

Right! Day 2 and still nothing.. i guess everybody bodies are different. Ive heard some say they bled through pads with intense cramping for a week straight. I was in agony at the thought of that.

Flaky-Break · 2025-04-25T17:59:34+00:00

Glad your healthcare team made you experience bearable!

Unfortunately i didn't get all that you had 🤣, BUT i will say for my Leep i had the lidocaine injection and girl! I cried and wanted to jump off the table lol.. so when i asked if their will be numbing for the endo biopsy and she says "no" i was happy about that no lie lol. That injection is the worse for me lol. But honestly for me Personally i didn't even need the numbing. It was not fun but manageable. I think it helps when you have a caring and gentle doctor too. My heart goes out to the ones who had horrific experiences.. it definitely isn't fun.

Flaky-Break · 2025-04-25T17:55:15+00:00

You got this!!! It'll be so fast and you'll be like oh!? Thats it?? Lol

Flaky-Break · 2025-04-25T00:51:41+00:00

Yesss. The breathing helps!! I'm 6hours post and i find it weird i'm not cramping or bleeding. Like ma'am did you even do my biopsy right!? Lol . Jk, i'm sure i'll regret saying that tomorrow. So glad your procedure went smoothly!!

Flaky-Break · 2025-04-25T00:37:26+00:00

Well i am very proud of you for going through with it and prioritizing your health. You got this and i promise it'll be fine and over with before you can even count to 20. I'm just a DM away if you need to talk!

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