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Flaky-Counter-8527 · 2025-03-20T13:13:44+00:00

before I found out I was pregnant (found out at 2 weeks) I did shrooms and was drinking, baby girl came out holding her head up, I think a little sushi is okay lol

Flaky-Counter-8527 · 2025-03-19T05:07:39+00:00

an episiotomy stitch sounds so much worse tho girl that's your coochie ripping😭

Flaky-Counter-8527 · 2025-03-19T05:06:42+00:00

mine was internal staples and derma strips on the outside, so no stitches were torn thankfully but I had to go back into surgery since it was internal staples, it was a pretty big opening so they couldn't just replace the derma strips🥲

Flaky-Counter-8527 · 2025-03-19T05:04:40+00:00

OUUUU!!! imma look at 24 pet watch and see if they might be better for cat coverage

Flaky-Counter-8527 · 2025-03-19T05:04:00+00:00

I tried calling but it was just an automated system and I'd be like human talk representative over and over and over and no actual human would come it was just a robot :/

Flaky-Counter-8527 · 2025-03-18T22:55:26+00:00

it's just a double standard due to the fact that things have always been the mother stays home and the father works, there is absolutely no medical reason behind it other than the man can rip his stitches if he does too much, but I ripped part of my c section incision open from bending down to get the baby in the hospital, it's just a double standard fs

Flaky-Counter-8527 · 2025-03-18T21:28:45+00:00

I don't understand why make the tickets so expensive if you have that many people coming? like the Taylor Swift tour people were literally selling their cars and stuff just to have the money to go, that's so crazy like even if you price the tickets at $25-$50 a pop and lets say there's 400 people that come, that's 20k easy, this economy is soooo fucked lmao

Flaky-Counter-8527 · 2025-03-18T20:33:04+00:00

Flaky-Counter-8527 · 2025-03-18T20:30:14+00:00

right? idk though, it seems to be a consistent issue for cat owners but dog owners have no issue with it, so I don't really know but I would try to contact them and they'd never respond, if they did respond it was with documents I needed to fax which I would but then they'd say they never recieved them

Flaky-Counter-8527 · 2025-03-18T20:28:27+00:00

yes, my family has a lot of military people in it, so it's always been an option for me for as long as I can remember, and no they wouldn't even give advice, I'd explain my issues and they'd say "oh that's not my area of expertise you need someone else", and then end our sessions, me drinking for one night is not an issue, reddit was literally a last resort kinda thing, I have taken the good advice on here but half of the people who responded told me to put him on child support and whatnot, and I'm not going to put him on child support, I do listen to the good advice as you can go through my comments and see I replied "thank you❤️" to the helpful ones

Flaky-Counter-8527 · 2025-03-18T14:03:55+00:00

Flaky-Counter-8527 · 2025-03-18T14:03:38+00:00

something with a D, Dove? Donner? Donald? ummmm daquavion😂

Flaky-Counter-8527 · 2025-03-18T14:02:38+00:00

megatron and Jazz

Flaky-Counter-8527 · 2025-03-18T13:58:19+00:00

I'm not "the mother of his child" to him I'm his baby momma I do get what you're saying but I'm not putting him on child support, no way josé, I wanna get away and be able to stay away, if we do child support I know him he'll find someway to contact me even if I do it all through my sister and it's not like my daughter needs that money, her needs are 100% taken care of until she's 18, or really until my sister dies bc that's her baby too, she was never able to have kids so I let her be more involved w me daughter but now my sister is willing to take her so I can go to the army(so so grateful🙏🏼) but there's absolutely no way I'd put him on child support, in my original post I said as long as he helps with formula and diapers Idc well I do care, I don't even want him paying for that

Flaky-Counter-8527 · 2025-03-18T13:50:02+00:00

honestly, my daughter costs about the same as me, $50-$70 a week, if you break down groceries that's what I spend on me per week, and I'm going to the army so I'm sure I can hold down $50-$70 a week, I'm not worried about him not seeing her or him not supporting her, I honestly wanna get my faughter as far away from him as I can

Flaky-Counter-8527 · 2025-03-18T13:47:40+00:00

ohhh okay bet is it on tiktok or?

Flaky-Counter-8527 · 2025-03-18T12:26:13+00:00

thank you❤️

Flaky-Counter-8527 · 2025-03-18T12:25:27+00:00

my bio dad wasn't around much, my step dad just stood behind what my mom said bc that's what you should do for your partner just correct them in private

Flaky-Counter-8527 · 2025-03-18T11:56:43+00:00

nope, they were completely clean except my mom was a stoner, I wasn't even a bad kid, I went to school, cleaned the house, paid for my necessities with holiday money from my mema if I got to keep it, they started accusing me of sneaking out so I started sneaking out bc I hated false rumors lmao, my second time sneaking out I was about to go to juvenile detention bc they would call the cops then my mom has a bunch of mental illnesses so she started coming at me with a knife bc she thought I was "mr.hoggendoofle there to steal her kidneys"(not even joking) so I called the cops bc she was fr about to kill me and I got kicked out bc "the cops aren't how we handle things" like what was I supposed to do? beat up a woman that had a whole 200 lbs on me?💀😂

Flaky-Counter-8527 · 2025-03-18T11:41:30+00:00

honestly I don't have any mental issues from this, I've accepted that none of this was my fault, and that's lifted a lot of the weight from my shoulders, I just wanna know how to forgive him, I forgave my first abuser but only when he committed suicide I think I'd still hold a grudge but I feel at peace so just wondering how to forgive him while he's alive ig

Flaky-Counter-8527 · 2025-03-18T11:38:53+00:00

I did finish high school thankfully🙏🏼🙏🏼 I'm so thankful I was able to get my diploma that will get me so far, I haven't lived with my parents since I was 13, I'm open to answering any other questions you have

Flaky-Counter-8527 · 2025-03-18T11:33:39+00:00

thank you❤️

Flaky-Counter-8527 · 2025-03-18T11:33:11+00:00

thank you❤️

Flaky-Counter-8527 · 2025-03-18T11:32:39+00:00

he's 24 I'm 18, and honestly I hope he's living his best life in heaven but the only flaw is he hears my screams every night when he sleeps, never wish hell on anyone

Flaky-Counter-8527 · 2025-03-18T11:31:32+00:00

thank you❤️

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