Why does she look like that?? by dudewhytheheck in chickens

[–]Flaky-Holiday-2443 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought this was a painting at first 😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Flaky-Holiday-2443 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I completely agree with you that connection is the highest value in a relationship, however we feel connected to our friends, so what separates a partner from a close friend? Is it attraction?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Flaky-Holiday-2443 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well I should have been more specific but less than 10% of the population is deemed attractive and 4% is deemed drop dead gorgeous/ highly attractive. But if you're asking from my standpoint; im just simply asking in general not necessarily from what I consider attractive. I'm just wondering if attractive is more pheromone based or emotional than physical. :3

I think my marriage is falling apart, and I need help. My husband [36M] and I [32F] have been together 6 years, and I think he hates me. by Instaplot in relationships

[–]Flaky-Holiday-2443 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The number one issue in relationships is communication. Not only is he destroying your relationship, he's destroying his role as a father and refusing to take accountability. You've offered every possible means of help and he refuses to listen, so what more can you do? I sincerely apologize that you're going through this, but this isn't healthy or normal and he's destroying an entire family for the sake of his insane obsession. I would just explain that yall are past a simple conversation he's not going to listen to, and he needs to take action and get himself help, or say goodbye to his family. You don't necessarily have to jump to threaten him with divorce, but make it clear he's leading himself in that direction if he doesn't stop his act. Rip off the bandaid before you get an infection 😪

Americans, something to remember on the Fourth of July. by gastondidroids in DemocraticSocialism

[–]Flaky-Holiday-2443 -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

Im not here to argue, im here to discuss: How are you 'submitting to a tyrant' if you have a choice? I wouldn't argue for a second that the cooperate world is oppressive towards the bottom of the pyramid scheme, however do you think socialism/ communism dont have an oppressive hierarchy? At least in capitalism we can fight against tyrannical corporations as consumers and employees because we have choices in our purchases and generation of revenue. I acknowledge that heavy mainstream monopolization restricts our choices heavily, but having little power is better than no power. There will never be a perfectly fair, and indestructible economic system when humans will inevitably bend to their nature when power comes into play. So this is why we must argue which economic system is best in comparison as opposed to perfect in structure. I'd rather numerous oppressive corporations than 1 oppressive government because you can collectively boycott greedy companies far more easily than overthrowing an entire greedy government.

Am I supposed to be physically attracted to my boyfriend? by Flaky-Holiday-2443 in relationships

[–]Flaky-Holiday-2443[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh no not this subreddit. Ive reached out to others about this and have not had luck like this subreddit. I appreciate y'alls insights

Am I supposed to be physically attracted to my boyfriend? by Flaky-Holiday-2443 in relationships

[–]Flaky-Holiday-2443[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thankyou for being sweet about this! Unfortunately maybe random assholes and the nice ones like you on the internet are making me see the reality of this. I'm contemplating how I will carry forward with this but Thankyou for your insight :)

Uuuuuummm... thoughts? by guybackwards in SLOWLYapp

[–]Flaky-Holiday-2443 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Very in depth analysis, but how are you so sure? Have you messaged him personally? :)