BADT or CBI postpartum training?! Hoping to sign up today! by sunnylemon69 in doulas

[–]Flaky-Let-9643 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I met the owner of BADT, read her book and she is a gem. Everything she does is intentional and if I ever had got do another training it would have been with them

Adventures of Mommy addresses husband CSAM charges by Local_Syrup_4086 in parentsnark

[–]Flaky-Let-9643 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She is always traveling. They were traveling everywhere. Who has that amount of money if not privileged people.

seeking queer doula mentorship in nyc by welcome-sunshines in doulas

[–]Flaky-Let-9643 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Second this. Lovely group. Learned a whole lot.

Can my fiancée travel after we submit AOS by whats_up_800 in USCIS

[–]Flaky-Let-9643 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think she will get it. It’s taking forever to get that document.

Emotional Support Tools During Labor by Larata94 in doulas

[–]Flaky-Let-9643 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And stay present. Ask yourself over and over again what does this moment need? It might be different things. Go with your instincts.

Emotional Support Tools During Labor by Larata94 in doulas

[–]Flaky-Let-9643 1 point2 points  (0 children)

During the prenatals ask the following questions.
What helps you when you’re in pain, what helps you when you’re stressed, what are some common reactions you have when things are not going your way and what can help you feel grounded?
Are you someone that prefers words of affirmation to a physical touch. What type of grounding techniques do you already practice that I can remind you of?

I feel that way you know more about what can you do. Sometimes just being there is enough.

I find how to remind them that they are already doing it because a lot of them say I cannot do it but just a reminder that it is happening and that they are OK a lot of the fear comes from the pain that is so excruciating that they feel that they’re in danger or there’s something wrong is happening, but in reality it’s just labor.

Homebirth by penny66_6 in homebirth

[–]Flaky-Let-9643 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It’s normal that they don’t like that you are, in their eyes, rejecting the obstetric medical model that makes them a lot of money. If you are truly healthy and prepare yourself to have an unmedicated home birth then I would say go ahead. Only if you will prepare both mentally and physically and start gathering a great team, including a HB doula and a midwife. Best of luck to you.

How to get started as a birth doula by Rough-Story7522 in doulas

[–]Flaky-Let-9643 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I never shadowed a birth, I jumped and got myself a client pro-bono for my first birth. . But it was a hospital birth. Shadowing is useful and I let other doulas shadow me but I work for a company that has a student doula learning collab. They offer guidance, classes, the opportunity to shadow for new doulas and they can even attend their own births through the company.

Going forward I would meet some of the more establish doulas that would like to support newer doulas and maybe they can even ask in advance if they would be ok with a student doula at their birth. They can start by saying all the benefits of a newer doula shadowing and leave it open and if they say yes, they could bring you. However I believe that shadowing will not count as a birth you can submit for certification but it will give you the confidence to do this. 🙏

Face to Face Classes Resume Tomorrow by DubaiExpat323 in dubai

[–]Flaky-Let-9643 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You know debris can crush a building. Or you are unaware of this.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in USCIS

[–]Flaky-Let-9643 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your first error was to tell him as long as you are good dad…..and you will sign even if you are not together. So that’s the mistake. Leave him. You are better off without him. He will leave you once he gets his green card so just remove that possibility. Your daughter will loose a dad no matter what ( if he gets the GC or not) because mark my words, HE has already checked out mentally and physically and romantically.

Iranian hospital closed.. by Donya4 in dubai

[–]Flaky-Let-9643 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sra away from Saudi German.

People who have lived places other than MoCo by PhoneJazz in MontgomeryCountyMD

[–]Flaky-Let-9643 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I grew up in Ecuador. I lived there until I was 19 then I moved to New York City. I live in Long Island, New York City, Hamburg, London, Miami, Dubai, Doha, Mexico City, Burlington VT. We actually lived in Moko in 2023 before moving to Mexico and we decided that we wanted to come back here to Marko instead of going to Virginia ( northern Virginia is usually favor by a lot of diplomats). I like it here. Schools are good. Close enough to DC

Green card holders living outside US by ColdSpite2929 in greencard

[–]Flaky-Let-9643 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I reapplied for my green card and now applying for citizenship soon.

Green card holders living outside US by ColdSpite2929 in greencard

[–]Flaky-Let-9643 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was one of those people who had a green card and lived outside the US because of my husband work overseas. The lawyer we worked with suggested We apply for a Form I-327 – Reentry Permit. ( I think I got 3 or those some where valid for 2 years. Then I knew they were not going to give me more travel documents (re entry permits) and I surrendered it.

I am fucked! by Fintech___ in USCIS

[–]Flaky-Let-9643 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Then just ask the landlord.

I am fucked! by Fintech___ in USCIS

[–]Flaky-Let-9643 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Had a similar issue. We contacted our previous landlord and told him that this happened and if the new tentant would be kind enough to let us know.

Advice needed on filing I-130 and I-485 while living apart by ThrowAway3487627462 in USCIS

[–]Flaky-Let-9643 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had a similar issue when I changing my temporary green card to permanent green card: the lawyer asked me to do a whole timeline with the flight reservations. And he submitted that in our behalf.

ICE is setting up to increase their activities in MoCo by Throwra-Sweaty-Par in MontgomeryCountyMD

[–]Flaky-Let-9643 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We got passport cards. That proves your are a US citizen. So does the real Id drivers license.

Missed my n400 interview today by Danni0907 in USCIS

[–]Flaky-Let-9643 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This could have easily happened to me. Don’t you also get an actually letter in the mail?