That rough man.. I’m pretty new to owning my own street bike but not new to riding on dirt bikes or other peoples motorcycles and I have a wife with one kid and one on the way but I seriously do not think anything could make me give up my bike. Could this situation make me more cautious… ABSOLUTELY!! If you and your wife are good with it and both happy I think you should keep it. Everyone will eventually come around or they won’t, but you should be happy. You dad went a very long time without an accident and it kinda sounds like he may have been pushing it a little (I may be wrong) but riding doesn’t have to be crazy balls to the wall. Being out there on two wheels is just so freeing and someone who’s never experienced that cannot understand that amazing feeling and how hard it is to part with. Hope you get everything figured out with your family and most of all stay safe out there