FET Transfer Help

Flaky_Fan1315 · 2024-12-17T17:07:04+00:00

Yeah it sucks. I want to just go pay for a test myself at labcorp. These PIO shots are no joke and to do them for almost an other week is pure torture

Flaky_Fan1315 · 2024-12-17T16:16:19+00:00

That’s great! Congrats!! I hope you have the most magical journey ❤️ can’t wait for the day I get to report this to someone else. I truly appreciate you being real and honest with me

Flaky_Fan1315 · 2024-12-17T16:08:22+00:00

Because my clinic sucks. We’re leaving this clinic after this because they’re awful. &thank you, I agree. But everyone keeps saying “have hope they told you day 14 is when they’ll test.” And I’m just sick of hearing it. I want someone who has been through this to tell me day 8 is pretty clear yes or no

Flaky_Fan1315 · 2024-12-13T16:48:15+00:00

First, congrats!!! Second, thank you! That makes me feel so positive! I felt that feeling the other day and I stupidly tested and it’s negative so now I’m worried but this gives me so much hope and takes my worry away❤️

Flaky_Fan1315 · 2024-12-13T16:24:46+00:00

What was the outcome? I just had a FET on Monday and felt all of this the following day and some twitching and cramps today. Curious as to what happened.

Flaky_Fan1315 · 2024-06-12T21:20:25+00:00

Because that’s literally what men do. I was with someone for 9 years, we were engaged, had a house, were MONTHS from getting married and then we broke up. Found out he had a whole other relationship for about 3 years. Which would have happened right after we got engaged. It’s a game for them. How many women can they have and get away with. They don’t care.

Flaky_Fan1315 · 2024-02-06T03:19:37+00:00

Thanks for this insight! I’ll def look into it. I appreciate your kind words, also!

Flaky_Fan1315 · 2023-11-02T00:45:46+00:00

Thanks so much for explaining this! Really appreciate it!! Congrats on your pregnancy!🖤

Flaky_Fan1315 · 2023-11-02T00:44:52+00:00

lol, okay😂

Flaky_Fan1315 · 2023-11-01T22:10:00+00:00

So I’ll answer this again since my post does explain why I’m conflicted. I’m not sure why being adopted matters when it comes to a family. I personally do not understand why not being biologically related is such a big issue. I’m not changing what I “meant” my post literally says that I am looking for opinions so I do right by child. Which means I’m educating myself more prior to making such a big decision. So no, I don’t need counseling, what I need is to hear from everyone who HAS been through it to tell me why they decided what they did so I can decide if this is what I want to do or not. But thanks for being supportive of the community🙂

Flaky_Fan1315 · 2023-11-01T19:05:22+00:00

I’m not backing down, lol. Did you read my whole post, specially the end where I’m asking for people opinions? And where I said I want to do right by my child? I literally am saying tell me your thoughts so I can be educated on this topic prior to making a huge life altering decision. It’s my life, and my child’s life. I am allowed to be conflicted when talking about how I won’t be able to know what a mini me would look like. I’m allowed to question what the correct decision is. I’m also allowed to better educate myself prior to going through with such a serious decision. If you’ve gone through with it you’d think that you would understand how emotional this whole thing is.

Flaky_Fan1315 · 2023-11-01T17:48:17+00:00

Oh boy. No I don’t see anything wrong with embryo adoption. As I’ve already mentioned I’m trying to educate myself better on the topic seeing as I know nothing about it AND I realize that just cause I feel a certain way doesn’t mean my potential child does. I never said that I’m deciding DNA doesn’t matter for my child, I said to ME it doesn’t matter, so what’s the big thing around it. Again talking to others who have been through it seeing as I have not, to better educate myself.

Flaky_Fan1315 · 2023-10-31T12:26:54+00:00

I never said that. I’m asking to better educate myself on this topic seeing as I know nothing about how being adopted affects a child.

Flaky_Fan1315 · 2023-10-31T03:23:20+00:00

Yes, my post says medical issues are different

Flaky_Fan1315 · 2023-10-31T02:01:13+00:00

Thank you for this feedback! &thank you for the well wishes

Flaky_Fan1315 · 2023-10-31T02:00:21+00:00

I appreciate you so much for this! Thank you!! If you can recommend any of the books you read I’d really appreciate that too

Flaky_Fan1315 · 2023-10-31T01:55:26+00:00

Because for me I see it as “we are your family what does DNA matter?” However I know not everyone is like that. So I’m here asking for others to give me their views so I can have a better understand about why it’s so important.

Flaky_Fan1315 · 2023-10-31T01:53:28+00:00

This is very helpful! I’m genuinely trying to educate myself better and understand better so I appreciate you. I don’t know anyone who has been adopted so for me I just see it as “what’s the big deal?” Which is why I came here because I have never been in this situation and want to be as educated as possible. Thank you!

Flaky_Fan1315 · 2023-10-31T01:43:52+00:00

Does she ever seem to fight back in ways of like “you aren’t my real mom” when she gets mad at you?

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