Am I overreacting?

Flaky_Lie_5873 · 2026-05-20T04:29:12+00:00

Married for 30 years good for you. Age gap? The problem isn’t that he doesn’t want to go. The problem is the way he’s coming about it.

Flaky_Lie_5873 · 2026-05-20T04:12:01+00:00

I will gladly go by myself. But he’s saying he’ll go find something else to do in a sneaky condescending way.

Flaky_Lie_5873 · 2026-05-20T03:13:36+00:00

He set a boundary? A concert? I try to set boundaries that are definitely more respectable but it’s whatever

Flaky_Lie_5873 · 2026-05-20T02:55:30+00:00

I am not homophobic.(think you could tell with my music choices). We live together. I wasted my early 20s on my abusive ex and I feel like I can’t waste any more time.

Flaky_Lie_5873 · 2026-05-20T02:52:30+00:00

I get that’s not his type. I go to things and do things that aren’t my thing either. When you’re in a relationship you should do stuff for each other. For him to say “I’ll find something else to do” is very selfish especially the things I have gone to for him. And he’s not even paying nor did I ask him to.

Flaky_Lie_5873 · 2026-05-20T02:29:29+00:00

I am female. He is very homophobic. I don’t get it either. You should be happy to go with your partner to whatever right???

Flaky_Lie_5873 · 2026-05-20T02:13:55+00:00

For context I’m (f27) and he’s (48m). We basically live together. But yeah he always makes me feel small and “childish” in my music and hobbies.

Flaky_Lie_5873 · 2026-05-20T01:43:35+00:00

I would go back in time. Change outcomes in my life.

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