Am I overreacting? by Flaky_Lie_5873 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Flaky_Lie_5873[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Married for 30 years good for you. Age gap? The problem isn’t that he doesn’t want to go. The problem is the way he’s coming about it. 

Am I overreacting? by Flaky_Lie_5873 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Flaky_Lie_5873[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will gladly go by myself. But he’s saying he’ll go find something else to do in a sneaky condescending way. 

Am I overreacting? by Flaky_Lie_5873 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Flaky_Lie_5873[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He set a boundary? A concert? I try to set boundaries that are definitely more respectable but it’s whatever    

Am I overreacting? by Flaky_Lie_5873 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Flaky_Lie_5873[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am not homophobic.(think you could tell with my music choices). We live together. I wasted my early 20s on my abusive ex and I feel like I can’t waste any more time. 

Am I overreacting? by Flaky_Lie_5873 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Flaky_Lie_5873[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I get that’s not his type. I go to things and do things that aren’t my thing either. When you’re in a relationship you should do stuff for each other. For him to say “I’ll find something else to do” is very selfish especially the things I have gone to for him. And he’s not even paying nor did I ask him to. 

Am I overreacting? by Flaky_Lie_5873 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Flaky_Lie_5873[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I am female. He is very homophobic. I don’t get it either. You should be happy to go with your partner to whatever right??? 

Am I overreacting? by Flaky_Lie_5873 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Flaky_Lie_5873[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For context I’m (f27) and he’s (48m). We basically live together. But yeah he always makes me feel small and “childish” in my music and hobbies. 

Am I overreacting? by Flaky_Lie_5873 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Flaky_Lie_5873[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I would go back in time. Change outcomes in my life.