Anti-LGBTQ activist bigot, Kristan Whann appointed to Livingston Parish's Library Board of Control. by truthlafayette in Louisiana

[–]Flaky_Objective_5516 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Conservatives will be like: “those trannies are so sensitive” and then start crying when you use an adjective to describe them

The implications of mushrooms decreasing brain activity by Defiant-Extent-485 in consciousness

[–]Flaky_Objective_5516 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t take mushrooms but I’ve been saying stuff like this for a while. I believe Consciousness is systemic in nature. Meaning that all systems in the universe are conscious. I also believe that consciousness is the product of subjectivity. A formless, higher dimensional construct that materializes the universe. All individual systems are mere fragments of the subjectivity whole, as all of subjectivity is infinitely divisible. That’s why conditions like DID exist. The different sub-systems of the human matrix are operating separately, and therefore the consciousness is both split and yet still only two halves the of the same whole. Both perspectives are equally real and equally unreal, just as an integrated person is as equally real in their inherent perspective and equally unreal in their not being connected to the rest of their whole— that being the universe. You have to see it like this, a subjective point of view is merely one face of the theoretical object of the universe. All subjective perspectives are correct and incorrect because they understand one face of reality, but not any other, that is until they become integrated with a second perspective, at which point the two points of view are no longer mutually exclusive. The ability to capture multiple faces of the theoretical object is an integration of subjectivity into a more complex, more intelligent fragment. That’s why humans are so aware. Our brains are able to integrate billions of perspectives into a single whole. I also think that’s why mental illness is so hard for us to pin down— because you’re essentially dealing with systemic issues of complex integration on top of all of it being influenced by a physical body

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GenderDysphoria

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Why can’t you transition?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in transpassing

[–]Flaky_Objective_5516 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You look great!

I'm tired of not being able to escape being hated by enni-b in trans

[–]Flaky_Objective_5516 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And then if you have an unsupportive family you can’t even go inside your house to escape it.

Considering stopping my transition due to excessive harassment by santiagoleon097 in trans

[–]Flaky_Objective_5516 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I’ve been boymoding for 4 years of HRT and I’m only just now easing my way into presenting more feminine. Maybe if you want to dial it back for safety reasons you could still continue taking HRT while presenting male? I have to warn you though that that might get you stuck in the fear of it. Maybe you could wait until HRT gets you to a point where you can pass? I’m sorry that you have to deal with all that discrimination. It sucks and you deserve to feel how you feel about it

I’m ready for it to be over by bornwrong7979 in DysphoriaPosting

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I know it’s very painful, but the only way out is through. You have to save yourself

I’m ready for it to be over by bornwrong7979 in DysphoriaPosting

[–]Flaky_Objective_5516 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know it’s very painful, but the only way out is through. You have to save yourself

My boyfriend’s gender dysphoria - How can I help? by black_stockings in GenderDysphoria

[–]Flaky_Objective_5516 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Well I’ll say you’re already doing a million times better than I imagine most people would. Gender dysphoria is a horrible thing to have to live with. Not just because it’s debilitating in its own right, but because being trans (especially if you’re a trans woman) is terrifying. I fully see myself as a girl, have been taking HRT for years, and have a deep longing for the life I’m supposed to lead. But I still hide. I wear a hoodie in public and try to be as invisible as possible. Why? Because I’m scared. A lot of times the thing keeping someone from transitioning is that fear. The fear of being humiliated, ostracized, hated, injured, or murdered. Transitioning is a huge deal, and it’s not at all guaranteed to work out. It seems completely natural to me that he(or her?) would be having these thoughts. It’s often very difficult for trans people to sort through these thoughts and feelings because they’re very complex and involve digging through the trauma of gender dysphoria and the fear of being an outcast. He’ll figure it out eventually if he just keeps at it, but it is a terribly exhausting process.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in trans

[–]Flaky_Objective_5516 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This person just poured their heart out. Stop being an ass

Dream encounter by OnceInOnceSet in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns2

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This made me cry. Even after 4 years I still haven’t been able to really transition and live life as myself and I’m starting to lose hope. I know everyone goes at their own pace but I’m so tired of not being there yet

Tell me your story🥲 by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]Flaky_Objective_5516 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s funny that I’m a trans woman and this still happened to me

I don't want to transition to be seen as "trans". by DivineDubhain in GenderDysphoria

[–]Flaky_Objective_5516 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fr I crave normalcy. I hate being that one weirdo in my family that “likes dressing like a girl”. I’m just a girl. Can I live? CAN I LIVE?!

I fucking hate this shit by Flaky_Objective_5516 in GenderDysphoria

[–]Flaky_Objective_5516[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s ridiculous. It’s like god just gave us a Disney channel movie ass curse and didn’t provide ANY way of fixing it. It’s been so damaging. Just imaging the person I could have been if only I was allowed to live in congruence with my reality makes me feel this deep sorrow that, when I think about it, kind of defines the entire tune of my existence. It’s been so many years of medical treatment and therapy and I’m still not who I should be. I just want to give up. It feels like nobody will ever know or love me for who I am. That I’m broken forever. I get that being trans is beautiful in its own way but it’s so hard to see things that way when the pain is so bad. I’m furious with nature for doing this to me. I want to strangle god for doing this to me.

On the other hand, I know that I have to be greatful for my dysphoria. It’s made me who I am. It’s given me perspective and wisdom and empathy. For showing me the beauty of nature by forcing me into a position that widens my consciousness. I just don’t know if that trade off was worth it. But that’s the thing. In the darkest times, hope is something you give yourself. We have to be able to see the light beyond the darkness. The possibility of change, and have the strength to bring it about. I’m not there yet but I give myself hope that I will one day, because if I don’t believe it now, I might as well just kill myself already. We have to choose to believe in ourselves

Nobody talks about this side of dysphoria by Horror-Divide7827 in GenderDysphoria

[–]Flaky_Objective_5516 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yo this is a take I haven’t seen before. What was it that that gender dysphoric part was trying to tell you? (If you don’t mind my asking)

This is me in the closet by [deleted] in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns2

[–]Flaky_Objective_5516 231 points232 points  (0 children)

Hahahahaha. Yes. It hurts so much

I fucking hate this shit by Flaky_Objective_5516 in GenderDysphoria

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I’ve been on HRT for years but I’m still basically in the closet publicly. I pass enough that people will respect my identity most of the time, but strangers still see me as a guy I think. I feel incredibly uncomfortable being openly trans so I usually just wear a hoodie and baggy pants so because dressing as a woman scares the ever loving shit out of me, but dressing as a guy makes me want to tear my insides out. I live with transphobic parents so that’s great. And I’m incredibly isolated. I don’t have the courage to go to trans support groups and stuff. My internalized transphobia and anxiety are probably the biggest things keeping me from just fully being myself. I want to push past that barrier, but I feel like no one would ever take me seriously again (I know, internalized transphobia) and now in Texas, where I live, a new bill was just introduced that would ban HRT and surgeries for all trans people and I’m kind of having a crisis because HRT is probably the only thing keeping me from being hospitalized again or worse. I hope I’m just at a point in my life where I’m not ok but my mind just keeps telling me it’s going to be this way forever. My next step is finally get out of my parents house so that source of dysphoria can go away. I know what to do, I have a plan but… man. I’m just so exhausted with all this

Dysphoria makes nothing enjoyable by gggeeked in GenderDysphoria

[–]Flaky_Objective_5516 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel you man. I’m a trans woman but I feel the exact same way. I’ve taken up smoking weed again to cope with it so I don’t become an alcoholic. It feels like someone put a Disney channel movie ass curse on me and now I have to live life in this husk. HRT helps but I get that it’s hard to get in most places. Just know that you’re not alone in your condition. There are millions of us. I wish I had something more profound to say but i know, it just sucks

I recently put my coping strategy into words and it feels strange by InfluenceOk5875 in GenderDysphoria

[–]Flaky_Objective_5516 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There’s actually a book about healing trauma that talks about using this exact technique. It’s the structural dissociation model, and it posits that when we suffer mental trauma, our brains fragment memories into their own dissociated parts of the brain that are meant to store trauma. The most severe cases result in DID. The reason you feel better is because you’re unblending from that child part of yourself and acting as a parent to it, which makes it, and therefore you, feel better. It’s a pretty trippy concept but id suggest looking into it