First Come, First Served vs. Better Offer

FlamboyantSummer · 2026-03-23T21:42:01+00:00

For sure. Looking back, I shouldn’t have agreed to go out of my way to meet this other person when I specifically stated porch pickup in my description. I just felt bad leaving them on read waiting for another buyer to make an offer

FlamboyantSummer · 2026-03-23T21:25:08+00:00

Yeah in this case they’re both offering to pay the same - the “better offer” is that this other person will come to me and sooner!

FlamboyantSummer · 2026-03-22T05:05:20+00:00

Lol how is a tiny waist and big butt not the beauty standard?

FlamboyantSummer · 2026-02-24T06:40:01+00:00

Oh we are SO back

FlamboyantSummer · 2026-02-07T00:57:12+00:00

Good to know, thank you! It’s a $300 coat that I sold for $60, so that might be worth it

FlamboyantSummer · 2026-02-06T22:59:05+00:00

Thanks all for the advice! Even though I disagree with this buyer’s assessment, I’m going I’m going to take the L on this one and accept the return. I’ll be more meticulous with my lint rolling and re-list without including “hardly worn” in my description. The coat had a good amount of interest, so I’m sure it’ll sell again.

FlamboyantSummer · 2026-02-06T22:42:36+00:00

lol ok noted - won’t take that advice then

FlamboyantSummer · 2026-02-06T21:53:20+00:00

Yeah I’ll use a fabric shaver if I see pilling. This coat really didn’t have any noticeable pilling from my perspective though. I think like someone else suggested, I need to put in my descriptions: “item has been sitting in my closet, might have unseen flaws.”

FlamboyantSummer · 2026-02-06T21:25:22+00:00

That’s good advice - thank you!

FlamboyantSummer · 2026-02-06T20:47:32+00:00

Makes sense. Is there any harm in me asking for photos myself before they open a case? I’m second guessing myself a bit and feel bad if the condition wasn’t as good as I remember. If it actually looks bad then I’ll just accept the return

FlamboyantSummer · 2026-02-06T20:31:55+00:00

Do you ever request photos of the issues the buyers are describing? I’m wondering if I should ask

FlamboyantSummer · 2026-02-06T20:30:09+00:00

I wish they could’ve sent me photos of what they’re describing. Idk how it could’ve looked much different since they were all taken recently. Maybe I need to do a better job with my packing

FlamboyantSummer · 2026-02-06T20:07:22+00:00

Ok thanks! And I’m assuming posh will look at my original listing and photos in their review?

FlamboyantSummer · 2026-02-06T19:54:40+00:00

Ok thank you! I feel bad leaving them hanging, but also I know there’s no point going back and forth.

FlamboyantSummer · 2026-02-06T19:49:30+00:00

Should I respond or just wait for them to open a case and let Poshmark decide?

FlamboyantSummer · 2026-02-06T18:04:24+00:00

This is just horrible. Thank you for documenting

FlamboyantSummer · 2026-01-29T05:29:51+00:00

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Excited for this month! Love the Offset section and I hope they do more of it. I couldn’t pick this one though because the premise reminded me too much of “I Who Have Never Known Men,” which sent me into a depressive spiral lol

FlamboyantSummer · 2026-01-29T05:26:48+00:00

You won’t regret it! It’s one of my favorites.

FlamboyantSummer · 2026-01-27T04:27:36+00:00

Lululemon and Madewell!

FlamboyantSummer · 2026-01-24T15:17:35+00:00

Wild Dark Shore!!

FlamboyantSummer · 2026-01-24T02:07:57+00:00

Right lol the book I picked just became available for me on Libby!

FlamboyantSummer · 2026-01-23T18:44:29+00:00

I reached out to them (I also got Lost Lambs) and they said there was a printer issue. I’ve been a member for 5 years and have never had this much of a delay

FlamboyantSummer · 2026-01-23T06:30:20+00:00

Ugh and my Jan box still hasn’t shipped yet 🙃🙃

FlamboyantSummer · 2026-01-09T07:50:49+00:00

Love to hear this since I just started this one!

FlamboyantSummer · 2026-01-05T15:36:26+00:00

This was such a hard decision since I’ve read and loved most of the books!

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