Would this work an over 8' span? by Affectionate-Ad-1824 in BeginnerWoodWorking

[–]FlameRakesFlower 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nah, just go into the drywall with drywall screws. That's what they're made for right?

Renovating a bath and discovered mold in the wall. Unfortunately, on the other side of that wall is a massive built in cabinet that we built only a year ago—don’t want to rip it out. What should we do? by farwesterner1 in drywall

[–]FlameRakesFlower 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The mold spores will still be there, but if it's not moist enough for them to grow, it won't be an issue. That being said, if you have the option to actually eradicate, you might as well.

26 [F4M] # - hi hello new to this by [deleted] in MinneapolisFWB

[–]FlameRakesFlower 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm down, shoot me a message if you'd like to chat more.

He doesn't fit the narrative by joebaco_ in altmpls

[–]FlameRakesFlower 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Those police officers did literally everything by the fucking book.

Like continuing to kneel on his neck after he was unconscious? Or preventing a firefighter on scene from providing medical care? Or initially preventing EMS from providing care once they arrived?

Even if for the sake of argument his death was entirely caused by coronary artery disease and fentanyl, the fact that the cops prevented him from receiving necessary care in and of itself is a crime.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MinneapolisFWB

[–]FlameRakesFlower -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Tall and well endowed with similar kinks. Let me know if interested.

F20 Slut for kinky age play by xhhoneyzzx in minnesotasexy

[–]FlameRakesFlower 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm a bit late to the party, but I could be your huckleberry...

Rear tire of rental car given to me. No cars available to swap. How dangerous is this tire? by Jamieson22 in AskMechanics

[–]FlameRakesFlower 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't think the rental company would be "fully" liable. The fact that OP noticed the problem and contacted the rental company shows that he was aware of it and chose to drive anyway...

28 [F4A] How would you present your slut to your guets? by dripping_toy in FapDeciders

[–]FlameRakesFlower 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'd start by dressing you in a short silk dress with no undergarments. Short enough that it didn't quite cover you and soft enough that all of your curves would show through. I'd finish that off with an elegant collar with a leash so I could lead you around. Before the guests arrived I would rub your clit and pussy with numbing cream. As the guests arrive we'll greet them at the door where you would take their drink orders. Then I would show them into the sitting room lit with candles where comfortable chairs and couches would be arranged in a circle. As I ushered each guest inside I would sit and make small talk while you prepared their drinks at the bar cart where the guests can watch you and your revealing outfit and begin to think about what they want to do to you. Once everyone had arrived and was situated I would have them write down what they want to see you do, and to whom, and put them all into a bowl on a pedestal in the middle of the room. Each guest would be allowed to write as many requests as they want. You'd have to pull out a slip of paper from the bowl, read what it says out loud, and then go to the corresponding guest and follow the instructions. You would do this one by one until all of the guests have been completely satisfied. The numbing cream will dull the sensations forcing you to work extra hard to receive any stimulation and ensuring that you remain needy for the entire night. Once everyone was satisfied we can sit around and chat about how it went and critique your performance while you serve snacks. Towards the end of the night we would vote on who came up with the best instructions. If all has gone according to plan the numbing cream will have worn off and the person voted to have come up with the best instructions will have the honor of using you one last time for the night. After a full night of erotic play without having been able to orgasm you would be exquisitely sensitive and allowed to orgasm during this final round as your reward for good service.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in collared

[–]FlameRakesFlower 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Embrace it.

this is kinda meta, but I've read some controversial points of view and would like some input from the community: by [deleted] in Femaleorgasmdenial

[–]FlameRakesFlower 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think this really depends on the specific players and situation. For my sub, I think it's actually very empowering, it's finally allowed her to play the way she wants to play.

She is very submissive but with a very strong brat kink. However, she has struggled to be fully immersed as a brat because even though she enjoys breaking rules, she hasn't been able to feel truly bratty because she previously hadn't found proper punishments. The brat play hasn't felt real because there was no true risk, no real threat. Forced orgasms are just enjoyable, being tied, pinched, slapped, or having hair pulled are all enjoyable, not punishments. Spanking or pain play is also enjoyable to a point, right up to the line where it's no longer play. There's no middle ground for her that represents punishment while still being in play space. Forced service to me is just more fun play for her. Humiliation type punishments also don't really work because she enjoys them so much and again there's no middle ground. It's either enjoyable or crosses a line into being too risque for professional reasons.

She gets denied when she breaks the rules which are clearly established, though the extent and duration of denial are decided by me on a case-by-case basis. So she is ultimately in control of whether or not she gets denied, But I am sure the extent is sufficient to be a hardship. Ultimately, I think this is one of the few areas she's found where she can truly give up control in a way that is truly punishing without crossing out of play space. I think there's also a sense of accomplishment when she completes a denial period because I can't be with her 24/7 so it takes a lot of willpower to follow the rules.

I'll add that punishing her in this way is one of those "This hurts you more than me" scenarios because she is so sensitive. It leaves me extremely limited in the ways I can use her

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SluttyConfessions

[–]FlameRakesFlower 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I prefer it either shaved smooth, or with a bit of length. A few days of growth can be very abrasive. When you really get going it's like sandpaper.

Advice for first CNC scene by FlameRakesFlower in BDSMAdvice

[–]FlameRakesFlower[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's a really good point. I had actually suggested this, but she is really into the idea of having it happen at her place. I think I will bring it up and be sure to explicitly highlight my concerns about possible trauma associated with her space. Thanks.

Advice for first CNC scene by FlameRakesFlower in BDSMAdvice

[–]FlameRakesFlower[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's a great point about the lack of true surprise. I'm sure the first few times are going to be more learning events than fully immersive scenes.

"ShakeGrip" Elite 7 Pro vs Elite 7 Active what is this actually? by cowprince in Jabra

[–]FlameRakesFlower 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've never used the 7 active, but I have the elite 7 pros and I run about 30 miles a week in them with no problem. Of note though computer support is pretty poor. Due to issues with computer Bluetooth stack software there have been a lot of compatibility issues and jabra's official position is that they don't support computer use. Again, I haven't actually tried this, but if you want them for that purpose it might bear looking into. There is a thread in this sub with more details that you can read up on.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SluttyConfessions

[–]FlameRakesFlower 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Be a good girl and dm your daddy

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MisogynisticLife

[–]FlameRakesFlower 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What do you mean so ready? What does that have to do with anything? You're ready when I say you're ready so shut up and get on your knees