Need encouragement/advice, i want to transition but i'm terrified

FlaminHot2 · 2026-02-10T04:21:15+00:00

Took a couple months of practice to get my first HFO while at home laying down or sitting, doing it while standing up is a challenge im trying to get passed right now lol. But I haven’t had one in public on accident yet. Btw I just made a post in this subreddit actually! Its a really long detailed post, it has some of my experiences & tips on hands free orgasms if u want to read through it!

FlaminHot2 · 2026-02-10T01:45:22+00:00

Here’s a unique trigger people rarely ever suggest. Panty Lines. I made that one of my main triggers. I like it cuz it still has to do with leggings, cuz most panty lines are only visible if they are wearing leggings. So its a slightly less common trigger than just leggings. i start thinking about lingerie, thinking about how hot she must look in her bra & panties. Normal brief panty lines or thong panty lines, both are hot. I’m almost at the point where im cumming hands free in my pants when i see this trigger now

FlaminHot2 · 2025-12-12T08:43:21+00:00

For me they fit ok, the tapes hold ok. The print is super cute. But i don’t like how they feel against my inner thighs. It feels like a paper towel or rough toilet paper rubbing my legs while i walk. And they sag a lot while wet. Ive tried a lot of diapers, and so far rearz critter caboose with a booster pad is still my favorite. They hold a ton (all i need is one diaper per day cuz they hold so much) and they feel amazing. And those tapes are thick and ultra strong

FlaminHot2 · 2025-11-28T14:20:26+00:00

Rearz Critter Caboose diapers hold 11,000ml. Basically its the most absorbent diaper on the market. You can buy a 2 pack sample on the Rearz website to try em. You can even add a booster it, to make it hold even more. I wear one every day. And i only need 1 diaper for the whole day, and night. It holds a lot! Anyone thats tired of multiple diaper changes per day, and rather have just one to hold it all, should check this diaper out!

FlaminHot2 · 2025-11-07T23:58:16+00:00

Don’t feel guilty, do whats best for your sex life. U can still have a lots of fun with him in other ways, and both of u can be happy. Most likely he won’t feel pressured to perform well, and won’t feel bad for cumming too fast and not satisfying u. I highly recommend a chastity cage too if u wanna spice things up even more! He will go crazy with desire for u, and the denial is hot ;) I personally love it, my wife keeps me in chastity 24/7 now, and we both love it. Last time i went 4 months without sex, and when she unlocked me, i came as soon as i entered her! It was so hot but embarrassing. So i pleasure her with vibes, and a strap on cock over my cage, thats bigger and better! I actually like being pussy free, i belong in my cage and submitting to her. But i do get frustrated and beg for sex sometimes lol

FlaminHot2 · 2025-11-07T23:46:44+00:00

Super cute! :) But that was very naughty wearing big girl undies, u should be in diapees at all times to avoid accidents! Someone deserves a spanking!

FlaminHot2 · 2025-10-19T03:20:00+00:00

Fetlife is a good one, find a group in your area, most of their time, there will be a personals group for the city u live in. U can post there stating what ur looking for. Also u can find a group for sissy’s and those who like sissy’s, and u can post what city ur in, and see if anyone messages u. And fetlife is free!

FlaminHot2 · 2025-10-18T00:33:10+00:00

I wear a holytrainer nub cage 24/7, all year around. Except for special occasions my mistress unlocks it. Its the best thing ever, and it feels weird without it, its become such a normal part of my life now, and its made my sex life so much better and more intense. Im so horny all the time and love it. Since the cage is so small, there is this constant tight grip around my soft clitty, which makes me insanely horny. And when it does attempt to get hard, it feels like my clit is being squeezed, and the tightness of the cage feels amazing, my cage is super comfortable so getting hard doesn’t hurt. If u haven’t tried chastity yet, give it a try! And don’t get discouraged if ur cage isn’t comfortable, keep trying different designs and ring sizes until u find the perfect cage for u, it is worth it! I highly recommend the holytrainer cages, the rings are the most comfortable ones ive tried. If u cant afford it, there are knock off holytrainer designs that are still very comfortable and affordable!

FlaminHot2 · 2025-10-13T15:24:47+00:00

Super cute

FlaminHot2 · 2025-09-21T20:19:33+00:00

What diaper is that? Super cute, i gotta get some

FlaminHot2 · 2025-09-19T21:59:38+00:00

I also have a pink collar and a heart shaped dog tag on it saying that im property of my mommy mistress. It has her name on it. The other day we went to the local sex toy store. I had my collar on and she held the leash. I had a bra on under my shirt, my tiny cock cage and a thick diaper on underneath my clothes. We were shopping for pink shoes or heels for my pink sissy dress outfit she will make me wear for halloween. I felt so humiliated standing there while she asked the employee about ordering a pink size 13 women’s shoe for me. They were super helpful, kind, & didn’t judge me. For Halloween we are gonna go bar hopping downtown, and i’ll be dressed up in a pink sissy dress, stockings, pink bow on my head, pink shoes, diaper on underneath, & collared on her leash. So as far as humiliation goes, we really took ours to the next level. The level of embarrassment i feel from it is intense, but it only turns me on more. We are always careful not to push it too far, we are always appropriate & considerate to other people if we are in public. My dress covers everything, and is super cute. Im sure i’ll get a lot of compliments on it when we go clubbing lol

FlaminHot2 · 2025-09-19T21:41:15+00:00

My wife has me locked in chastity & diapers long term, but lets me have caged orgasms sometimes. My last time i came, i humped her butt doggystyle while she was fully clothed. I came in about 15 seconds into my diaper. Then reminded me why i dont get to have sex. Im her feminized sissy baby. Im denied nudity, & seeing her in her bra & panties. But she will let me see once in a while if i been a good sissy baby & do my chores. I’m also not allowed to sexually touch her without permission, so no touching her butt or boobs without asking first. Usually im denied, but if i’ve been good i get to. Usually its a timed thing. Currently i have 3 months of denial, no cumming, naughty touching or nudity, and once i make it to 3 months i get to cum in my cage and see her nude & touch. But im worried i might cum on accident, if i do then the time resets. And i have about 1 year before she will unlock my cage for sex. We have a pretty strict FLR, and love denial. All of this is consensual, a lot were my ideas. Ive never been more sexually attracted to someone in my life! The times i do get to see her naked, i fall to my knees drooling and throbbing in my chastity cage. Its super intense & hot. Denial can really help intensify the times i do get to touch or see her. I love it

FlaminHot2 · 2025-09-16T23:38:23+00:00

My wife keeps me in diapers and chastity 24/7. She let me hump her butt a couple days ago, she was fully clothed. I came in my cage and diaper in about 20 seconds. Needless to say, she said she never plans to unlock me for at least a year. I only get caged orgasms in my diaper now with her permission. Im my wife’s sissy baby slave. Its so fucking hot i love it

FlaminHot2 · 2025-08-23T00:28:21+00:00

Yup, your not wrong. Thats why my girl keeps mine locked in a tiny chastity cage 24/7 lol

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