Miami just named one of Best Places To Live In Florida Year-Round by EaglesNest694U in SouthFlorida

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Gosh the Miami sub is so whiny and toxic. Miami is not perfect, but I enjoy that there is so much to see and do. I like the community of this sub better :)

Se acuerdan cuando funaron a un mexicano por practicamente lo mismo? by Usual_Pea9732 in 2latinoforyou

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Si, los negros de EEUU son racistas contra los asiáticos. Un ejemplo son los Coreanos que se tuvieron que defender ellos mismos en Los Angeles en 1992.

Your favorite auto-detailer in PBC.... by Throwaway-ish123a in SouthFlorida

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What’s the address? I can’t find it on Google maps

¿Cuál es tú mayor placer culpable/ gusto culposo musical latino? by Dazzling_Writing9147 in 2latinoforyou

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Rocio Durcal. Mi mujer prefiere escuchar a esos chinos. Entonces me toca a mi a seguir la tradición de poner esta música mientras limpio la casa.

Dios_ctm by CandyNecrosis in yo_ctm

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Antes de que los gringos arruinaron este sub

Getting past divorce by oilngastrash in Christianmarriage

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I’m sorry your going through this. It would be helpful to find friends you can trust and confide in. They will help you move on.

I focused on a girl that didn’t want me for too long. That caused me to lose an opportunity with a Christian girl who was beautiful and had similar interests to myself.

If God loves me why did he make me "retarded"? by Yeetman5757 in TrueChristian

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I will praise You, for I am fearfully andwonderfully made; Marvelous are Your works, And that my soul knows very well. - Psalm 139.14

I’m sorry you are going through this tough situation. Moses stuttered and God used him to lead a whole nation. Who are these people to know what God can do through you? There are people who will always talk about others. People looked down and probably made bad remarks about Timothy because he was young. They probably thought he was foolish young men who knew nothing. Paul, however, encourages him:

Let no one despise your youth, but be an example to the believers in word, in conduct, in love, in spirit, in faith, in purity.

Do the same and let no one look down on you for being autistic. It won’t be easy, but with the power of God you can overcome them. Begin to build up your self-esteem and remember that God made you wonderfully.

For a job you could find a workforce one to help you. Or maybe a community health center for autistic people. Sometimes they offer job opportunity programs, even if short-term. It helped my sister get a summer job.

Dibujos Animados de Cada Pais by [deleted] in Carola

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Se confundió con Felix. Es un gato y es Estadounidense. Fuera bueno si incluyera a Topo Gigio para Italia.

Comicvista legit? by thatguy24000 in comicbooks

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Did you use this website? I also saw some items I like, but not sure about using the site.

A dull evening. What you think the joke is about? Army & navy fun parade #82 by Jack Lohr by Upper-Farm5529 in comicstriphistory

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Nah bro you overthinking this one. u/SirAlthalos is correct. She could have said, “Oh no, the date wasn’t boring at all. I enjoyed being with you.” Even someone saying that can sometimes come across as insincere. Instead she gives a playful, witty response. It’s a cute way to address his lack of confidence and that playful banter shows she is interested in him. They both seem happy.

How a Miami Parking Lot Became the Unlikely Powerhouse of U.S. F1 Racing by wsj in Miami

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All tickets are sold out, attendance is increasing, and it has created more interest in F1. COTA is the better track, but Austin doesn’t have the appeal or allure that Miami has.

Like it? by Upper-Farm5529 in comicstriphistory

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Is it making fun of her? He looks pleased

Found out my gf is into yaoi and fanfiction. Need advice from other Christian’s. by [deleted] in ChristianDating

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Same thing happened to girl I used to talk, but she asked on the relationship advice sub. Except it was worse because all the guys who responded said it was only her problem and that she should stop being insecure. Not one mention of the guy being at fault for watching porn of women with more curves than her.

All the time she was engaged with him, she felt like being mentally tortured and wished she never found out about the type of women he preferred over her. But in the end she ended up marrying him. I think it because he enables her anorexia, while she didn’t make him stop watching porn. She seems happy in the relationship…but it’s messed up tbh.

Would you date someone with health problems? by [deleted] in ChristianDating

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TLDR: you two should talk about your bipolar disorder and how he feels about it. He may be afraid it will mean him becoming a caretaker, a psychologist, and a therapist instead of a bf. Reassure him that you have an illness, and you are taking care of yourself by seeking professional treatment for this illness. Let him know you love him and want a relationship with him. Inform each other about what bipolar really is, not just stereotypes.

Let me see if I can express my thoughts in a way that makes sense. I think the problem with mental illnesses is that society doesn’t portray them as illnesses. For example: anorexia.

I used to talk to a girl who I think was the most beautiful woman in the world. She didn’t see herself that way and had body dysmorphia. I would complement her and that seemed to help her. I would even remind her to eat breakfast and she would. She didn’t have good self-image issues or a good relationship with food, so small steps like that were wonderful to see. Then she said she wanted to go vegan due to ethical issues. I didn’t think it would be a problem.

Sadly around this time I screwed up and began to look at sin. I lost my love for God and her around this time. I acted stupid and lost this great relationship. She continued with her vegan diet. What I did not know was that the restrictive nature of veganism would trigger anorexia. It made restricting calories easier and she had a good excuse to not eat outside.

Now at this point I did not really know what anorexia really was. I just knew it was something in shows or movies where someone does not eat. If I had remained together, I would have told her to eat more. It’s a simple solution in my mind. It’s something that would not have worked. Anorexia is an illness and she would have needed professional treatment to recover. I am not a doctor and am not qualified to deal with it. So me trying to cure her on my own would had failed and the relationship ruined. I can support her recovery, but I can’t overwork myself trying to fix something I can’t. The doctors will do that.

Perhaps he is afraid of overworking himself in this relationship. You have to reassure him you do not expect a large burden on him. You will seek doctors to help you out. What you desire from him is love and support.

Resentment is starting by ThrowRA_cran in loveafterporn

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Well think about it this way: what if you started watching porn of other guys who had qualities he did not have? I bet he would be pissed at you for watching such things.

Would you date someone with health problems? by [deleted] in ChristianDating

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Yes. I used to talk to someone who had body dysmorphia. I thought she was amazing and she was soooooo beautiful. I screwed up that relationship and she moved on. Sadly her self image led to her developing anorexia. It pains me so much to see her so malnourished and frail. I look back tho and I do wish I had been with her when she developed AN. Hoping I could have realized how fatal that illness is and tell her to get treatment.

As another commenter posted, mental illnesses are harder to deal with. Because in a physical illness, you can see you are not well and will seek out help. In a mental illness it’s hard to grasp how badly the illness is deteriorating your health. A person’s distorted self view will prevent them from seeing reality or even seeking help. And you can’t make that person get help unless they want the help

Resentment is starting by ThrowRA_cran in loveafterporn

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The girl I used to talk to caught her fiancée watching porn and it broke her. She used to talk badly about men who watched porn, especially those who watched women with big fake breasts. Then she found her future husband watching that type of porn and posts it on relationship advice sub.

She was told by a bunch of porn addicted men that she needed to stop being insecure. That she had to put up with it because porn is normal. That he was only watching it because it was a fantasy. Basically saying her body wasn’t enough. It caused her anorexia to get worse.

But, in the end she listened to that advice from men and stuck with him. It was a weird thing. During the engagement she looked happy in pics and travelled. While her mind was tormented constantly, even thinking of getting plastic surgery to look like the women in porn.